Love by the numbers: how to find great love or reignite the love you have through the power of numerology
When I wrote my previous book Glynis Has Your Number, I had so many topics to cover that I only put one chapter about love in the book. I vowed that my next book would be dedicated to love, because I believe there is nothing more important to our well-being.
I have been practicing Numerology for over twenty-one years, and one of my greatest pleasures is to bring two people together and help them find lasting love by the Numbers. It is a blessing when we share our lives with kindness and consideration to help each other achieve our dreams. I find equal satisfaction in counseling married couples whose marriages have lost their way. Numerology has helped them to understand each other, begin to work through their differences, and fall in love all over again.
It isn't as much fun if you have a great career and achieve success but have no one with whom you can share your triumphs. I strongly believe that God did not put us on a planet with millions of people and yet doomed us to live our lives alone. It only makes sense that He would want us to be able to share our lives with the right someone else. If you are dating and looking for a lasting love, I can help you find a loving partner through the power of Numerology. If you are already in a relationship and know that it is not a healthy one, help is on the way!
Numerology, a 2,500-year-old science of numbers, was created by the Greek mathematician Pythagoras. Pythagoras believed that when we are born, we enter this world with very pecific Vibrations.
These Vibrations have a direct influence on our character and what our life purpose will be. Pythagoras attached a Number to each Vibration, using the Numbers 1 (new beginnings) through 9 (completion). If you have a person's first and last name, and full date of birth, you can discover exactly who they are by using the Pythagorean Number System.
There are three Numbers that come from the name (the Soul Number, the Personality Number, and the Power Name Number), and there are three Numbers that come from the full birth date (the Birth Day Number, the Life Path Number, and the Attitude Number).
Below are the brief definitions of what each number tells you about a person.
When you do a Numerology Blueprint, the layout of the numbers will always be in this exact order, going from left to right. The first number will be the Soul Number (9), the second number will be the Personality Number (3), the third number will be the Power Name Number (3), the fourth number will be the Birth Day Number (4), the fifth Number will be the Life Path Number (5), and the sixth number will be the Attitude Number (7). I will always put an asterisk (*) next to the Life Path Number, because it is the most important Number when it comes to love relationships. However, if your Life Path Numbers are a Challenge, all is not lost because I do give you advice on how to deal with this in Chapter 14.
This relationship is considered Compatible in Numerology. The 1 Life Path usually counts themselves as lucky because the 2 Life Path will go out of their way to make the 1 comfortable and happy, and they are affectionate and kind. The key to keep the love strong for the 1 is to be aware of how sensitive the 2 can be. Sometimes 1s are so caught up in their career -- or whatever their goals are -- that they just shoot off their mouths and say what they think and feel, and the 2 is crushed.
That is when the 2 will shut down, and when they do, they look so unhappy and wounded. To avoid that from happening, the 1 needs to thank the 2 for all the good that he or she does, and the 2 needs to continue praising the 1, because as strong as 1s appear, they actually have trouble with self-esteem. They have an inner prompt telling them, "I am never good enough."
I think that the 2 is a wonderful gift to the 1 in the way that they love to give praise. Keeping a close check on each other's feelings will keep this relationship healthy.
This relationship is considered a Natural Match in Numerology and can be loads of fun. The 3 Life Path has a sense of humor and can make the 1 Life Path laugh, so the 3 helps to lighten things up. They both can be very sexy and creative in the bedroom, coming up with ideas to keep that part of their life exciting and fun. The 1 Life Path, again, must learn the art of not being too judgmental with their partner, and the 3 has to remember that if things get too serious, they are very good at lightening things up with a great punch line.
The big thing is to get back in the moment by keeping the conversation going and enjoying each other's company. The 1 must be careful not to focus only on what matters to them each day. The 3 will listen and give good advice, but will eventually resent the 1 and start thinking that they only care about themselves. It makes me think of the line, "Well enough about me, let's talk about you; what do you think of me?" Be each other's best audience, and you can't go wrong!
This relationship is considered a Challenge in Numerology and can have a few difficulties. The 1 Life Path is high energy, the mover and the shaker, eager to get things done. The 4 Life Path, on the other hand, likes to know what the plan is, and where do we stand? Because you two operate differently, you must understand and respect your differences. The 4 Life Path likes to analyze things and talk it through, whereas the 1 is more spontaneous and can be frustrated and feel that the 4 is trying to slow them down. When it comes to sex in the relationship, again, the 4 wants to know what their partner desires, whereas the 1, again, thinks that if you just trust it is going to be good, the lovemaking will be great.
The biggest problem this relationship faces is the lack of understanding of what the other person is saying. They are a Challenge, and a Challenge can feel as though they are speaking two different languages.
The best thing these two Life Paths can do for each other is write down the problems and the potential solutions. Freed from the emotions of verbal expression, you can honestly share why you feel the way you do. Both the 1 and the 4 Vibrations will respond well to this, and it will keep the relationship on the right track.
This relationship is a Natural Match Combination. They are both cerebral Life Path Numbers, and that means they have a lot going on in their heads. I find that if they stay busy, this relationship will remain solid. It is not uncommon for these two to have a career in similar fields, such as writing, reporting, producing, or teaching at the university level. If they do, they do not invade each other's space. They just do their own thing and when they come back, they have a great time. This couple has to work at keeping things interesting in the bedroom. Maybe it could be role-playing, such as pretending to have a secret affair with each other, just to keep things sexy and fun, because both the 1 and 5 enjoy that. It is important to watch out that this sort of activity doesn't degenerate into unwise behavior, such as too much drinking, or too much work, the kind that keeps you from family time, and so on. Travel is an excellent choice for the 1 and 5 couple. I believe the more trips you take together, the more satisfying the relationship will be.
This relationship is considered a Challenge in Numerology, and this couple has got to find a way to compromise. These are two powerhouses that have come together, and both want to be in charge. The only way to make it work is to have an agreement, something like, on one day, the 6 Life Path calls the shots, and the other day the 1 Life Path makes the decisions. They can't afford to butt heads daily, and that's a good way to solve the dilemma.
If you have a 5 and 2 in your chart or you are in love with someone with a 5 and 2, make sure you take trips together whenever possible. If you need to be by yourself, you can take a thirty-minute time-out to a nearby nature retreat, or enjoy a movie matinee. Doing this allows you to keep some sense of freedom. Otherwise, the drama will come charging into your relationship.
If you love someone with a 5 and 2 in their Personal Numerology Chart, don't take these "escapes" personally, even though you might sometimes feel rejected. Especially since the 2 part of them makes them seem so dependent on you. You may find yourself saying, "But I thought you wanted me. I thought you needed me." That's still true, but sometimes the 5 Vibration takes over and says, "You have got to give me space." This really isn't about you. It is about an inner struggle. When that happens with a partner whom you love, be prepared. Understand that they are battling within themselves because of the duality these two Vibrations have inside one person.
In the final episode of Sex and the City, there was a scene that took place that brought tears to my eyes. It summed up exactly what I believe is true about love, and what I want everyone to have in their life. The scene takes place in Paris, where the character Carrie is with her boyfriend, Aleksandr. She has left New York to be with him. She is a writer, and when she goes to a Parisian bookstore, they recognize her, think she is amazing, and want to throw a party on her behalf. That same night, Aleksandr has a party showcasing his artwork. He makes it clear how much it matters to him that she come to his art gallery show. So she chooses his party over hers to please him.
So there she is at his party, in her party dress, sitting on a bench, while he is talking to everyone but her. She suddenly realizes how completely alone she is and is upset by his rejection. When they finally return to the hotel room, she tells him that he completely ignored her, she was there for him, and it did not even matter. While they are talking, he moves his arm in such a way that it seems he hit her.
Although you can tell that it was not intentional, it does not matter; she is shocked back to reality. She realizes this relationship is wrong for her, and as she is leaving him, she declares, Those words sum up what is possible. Some of us will stay in an unhappy and basically loveless relationship because we cannot bear to be alone. Why settle for the semblance of love, instead of the real thing, when you don't have to?
Khalil Gibran's words are so true. There are levels of love, and some of us are more capable than others of completely giving our heart to another person. But if we pursue someone who cannot match us, our thirst will seem unquenchable. If you find another person who is mostly a Natural Match, or has Compatible Numbers to your own, or whom you can understand through their Personal Numerology Blueprint, then you can have this wonderful love that we all seek and deserve.