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Sometimes_RT we_PPIS2 say_VV0 "_" no_RR "_" to_II someone_PN1 who_PNQS asks_VVZ for_IF help_NN1 ,_, or_CC perhaps_RR we_PPIS2 do_VD0 not_XX say_VVI "_" no_UH "_" when_CS we_PPIS2 should_VM ._. 
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Why_RRQ does_VDZ this_DD1 happen_VVI ?_? 
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Maybe_RR we_PPIS2 are_VBR very_RG busy_JJ and_CC do_VD0 n't_XX want_VVI to_TO take_VVI the_AT time_NNT1 out_II21 of_II22 our_APPGE own_DA schedules_NN2 to_TO help_VVI someone_PN1 else_RR ._. 
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In_II the_AT United_NP1 States_NP1 ,_, if_CS we_PPIS2 are_VBR driving_VVG along_RP a_AT1 busy_JJ or_CC isolated_JJ road_NN1 as_II a_AT1 man_NN1 standing_VVG beside_II the_AT road_NN1 asks_VVZ us_PPIO2 for_IF help_NN1 ,_, we_PPIS2 might_VM be_VBI fearful_JJ that_CST he_PPHS1 will_VM rob_VVI us_PPIO2 ._. 
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Sometimes_RT we_PPIS2 simply_RR do_VD0 n't_XX want_VVI to_TO be_VBI involved_JJ in_II other_JJ people_NN 's_GE problems_NN2 ._. 
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Sometimes_RT ,_, when_CS I_PPIS1 see_VV0 a_AT1 stalled_JJ car_NN1 or_CC an_AT1 accident_NN1 ,_, instead_II21 of_II22 stopping_VVG in_II busy_JJ traffic_NN1 ,_, I_PPIS1 will_VM simply_RR call_VVI "_" 911_MC "_" which_DDQ contacts_NN2 us_PPIO2 with_IW the_AT police_NN2 ,_, and_CC then_RT the_AT police_NN2 can_VM come_VVI and_CC assist_VVI with_IW the_AT problem_NN1 ._. 
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Sometimes_RT ,_, we_PPIS2 pass_VV0 by_II less_RGR fortunate_JJ people_NN who_PNQS are_VBR asking_VVG for_IF money_NN1 ._. 
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At_II the_AT same_DA time_NNT1 ,_, in_II safe_JJ situations_NN2 ,_, Americans_NN2 often_RR are_VBR very_RG generous_JJ in_II providing_VVG help_NN1 to_II someone_PN1 in_II need_NN1 ._. 
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Chinese_JJ also_RR are_VBR very_RG helpful_JJ to_II international_JJ guests_NN2 ,_, children_NN2 ,_, or_CC older_JJR people_NN and_CC are_VBR basically_RR kind_NN1 ,_, and_CC help_VV0 these_DD2 groups_NN2 without_IW saying_VVG "_" no_UH ._. "_" 
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There_EX are_VBR times_NNT2 when_RRQ we_PPIS2 do_VD0 not_XX say_VVI "_" no_UH "_" when_CS we_PPIS2 should_VM do_VDI so_RR ._. 
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H_NP1 someone_PN1 is_VBZ asking_VVG us_PPIO2 to_TO engage_VVI in_II illegal_JJ or_CC immoral_JJ activity_NN1 ,_, we_PPIS2 certainly_RR should_VM say_VVI "_" no_UH ._. 
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Sometimes_RT ,_, however_RR ,_, we_PPIS2 say_VV0 yes_UH ,_, perhaps_RR naively_RR when_CS we_PPIS2 should_VM indeed_RR say_VVI ,_, "_" No._NN1 This_DD1 can_VM get_VVI us_PPIO2 in_II a_AT1 lot_NN1 of_IO trouble_NN1 with_IW the_AT law_NN1 ,_, or_CC even_RR with_IW our_APPGE own_DA values_NN2 and_CC sense_NN1 of_IO correct_JJ behavior_NN1 ._. 
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Sometimes_RT ,_, we_PPIS2 think_VV0 that_CST no_AT harm_NN1 will_VM be_VBI done_VDN ,_, either_RR to_II ourselves_PPX2 or_CC others_NN2 ._. 
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But_CCB this_DD1 is_VBZ not_XX always_RR true_JJ ._. 
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We_PPIS2 may_VM find_VVI ourselves_PPX2 in_II difficult_JJ situations_NN2 if_CS we_PPIS2 say_VV0 "_" yes_UH "_" when_CS we_PPIS2 should_VM say_VVI "_" no_UH ._. "_" 
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A_AT1 number_NN1 of_IO young_JJ Chinese_JJ men_NN2 tell_VV0 me_PPIO1 that_CST even_CS21 though_CS22 they_PPHS2 know_VV0 the_AT harmful_JJ health_NN1 risks_NN2 of_IO smoking_NN1 ,_, or_CC by_II an_AT1 excess_JJ amount_NN1 of_IO alcohol_NN1 ,_, if_CS they_PPHS2 are_VBR offered_VVN a_AT1 cigarette_NN1 or_CC too_RG much_DA1 alcohol_NN1 by_II a_AT1 business_NN1 man_NN1 ,_, they_PPHS2 would_VM not_XX say_VVI "_" no_RR "_" as_CSA they_PPHS2 need_VV0 to_TO learn_VVI how_RRQ to_TO operate_VVI in_II the_AT business_NN1 road_NN1 ._. 
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This_DD1 is_VBZ unfortunate_JJ ,_, as_CSA such_DA actions_NN2 might_VM lead_VVI to_II addictive_JJ behaviors_NN2 and_CC bad_JJ health_NN1 ._. 
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We_PPIS2 should_VM always_RR judge_VVI carefully_RR when_CS it_PPH1 is_VBZ right_JJ to_TO say_VVI "_" no_UH ,_, "_" and_CC when_CS we_PPIS2 should_VM always_RR think_VVI about_II why_RRQ "_" no_NN1 "_" might_VM be_VBI better_JJR than_CSN "_" yes._NNU 
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