<time>428_00:11:49,601 --> 00:11:51,001</time>
<s>你要过来开一下</s>
<time>429_00:11:51,401 --> 00:11:53,001</time>
<s>我爸居然问我你初几</s>
<time>430_00:11:53,401 --> 00:11:54,801</time>
<s>我说爸我上高中了</s>
<time>431_00:11:55,401 --> 00:11:56,201</time>
<s>蛮真实的</s>
<time>432_00:11:56,401 --> 00:11:57,401</time>
<s>但是我像我这种话</s>
<time>433_00:11:57,601 --> 00:11:59,401</time>
<s>就是我根本不希望我爸去我家长会</s>
<time>434_00:11:59,601 --> 00:12:00,401</time>
<s>我一定会被打</s>
<time>435_00:12:00,833 --> 00:12:01,833</time>
<s>那你还蛮惨我跟你说对</s>
<time>436_00:12:02,033 --> 00:12:03,833</time>
<s>因为我的家长会就是我的死期</s>
<time>437_00:12:04,033 --> 00:12:07,033</time>
<s>在感情里面记忆深刻的一件事情</s>
<time>438_00:12:07,233 --> 00:12:09,233</time>
<s>你不是不知道我就谈过那一段</s>
<time>439_00:12:09,433 --> 00:12:09,833</time>
<s>但是就是</s>
<time>440_00:12:10,033 --> 00:12:10,833</time>
<s>我说了感情</s>
<time>441_00:12:11,033 --> 00:12:12,033</time>
<s>不一定说是爱情</s>
<time>442_00:12:12,233 --> 00:12:14,433</time>
<s>就是比如说是友情亲情我先来</s>
<time>443_00:12:14,633 --> 00:12:15,833</time>
<s>我最近回想到这件事情</s>
<time>444_00:12:16,033 --> 00:12:17,033</time>
<s>我还蛮想跟大家分享</s>
<time>445_00:12:17,233 --> 00:12:17,833</time>
<s>按时间线吧</s>
<time>446_00:12:18,033 --> 00:12:19,233</time>
<s>就是近点大学的时候</s>
<time>447_00:12:19,433 --> 00:12:20,833</time>
<s>你还记得我们那个师兄吗</s>
<time>448_00:12:21,833 --> 00:12:23,233</time>
<s>啊啊啊哈哈哈</s>
<time>449_00:12:23,433 --> 00:12:24,233</time>
<s>我刚进去学校时候</s>
<time>450_00:12:24,433 --> 00:12:26,033</time>
<s>还算是叱咤风云那种人物啊</s>
<time>451_00:12:26,233 --> 00:12:26,833</time>
<s>这是因为跳舞吗</s>
<time>452_00:12:27,033 --> 00:12:28,433</time>
<s>有个师兄刚好回来看我们之后</s>
<time>453_00:12:28,633 --> 00:12:29,633</time>
<s>他看到我也是一个男爵吗</s>
<time>454_00:12:29,833 --> 00:12:30,633</time>
<s>他也是跳这个爵士舞的</s>
<time>455_00:12:30,833 --> 00:12:31,433</time>
<s>然后他也是钙</s>
<time>456_00:12:31,633 --> 00:12:33,433</time>
<s>然而当时就是对我特别好</s>
<time>457_00:12:33,633 --> 00:12:34,433</time>
<s>特别有意恩</s>
<time>458_00:12:34,633 --> 00:12:35,633</time>
<s>但是呢后面不知道我忘了</s>
<time>459_00:12:35,833 --> 00:12:36,833</time>
<s>是为什么我把他删掉了</s>
<time>460_00:12:37,033 --> 00:12:37,433</time>
<s>那个时候</s>
<time>461_00:12:37,633 --> 00:12:39,233</time>
<s>他就说他在那个老家那有个男朋友</s>
<time>462_00:12:39,433 --> 00:12:40,033</time>
<s>怎么怎么样的</s>
<time>463_00:12:40,233 --> 00:12:42,233</time>
<s>他说世是说那种如果早点遇见你就好了</s>
<time>464_00:12:42,433 --> 00:12:43,633</time>
<s>小一届就好了说这种屁话</s>
<time>465_00:12:43,833 --> 00:12:45,433</time>
<s>然后他说了一句让我印象深刻的话</s>
<time>466_00:12:45,633 --> 00:12:46,233</time>
<s>他就是说</s>
<time>467_00:12:46,433 --> 00:12:48,233</time>
<s>如果你24岁还没有男朋友的话</s>
<time>468_00:12:48,433 --> 00:12:49,833</time>
<s>你可以来找我24</s>
<time>469_00:12:50,233 --> 00:12:51,233</time>
<s>即将步入25</s>
<time>470_00:12:51,633 --> 00:12:53,233</time>
<s>你在哪我倒不在乎他在哪了</s>
<time>471_00:12:53,433 --> 00:12:54,833</time>
<s>就是我只想起这一件事</s>
<time>472_00:12:55,033 --> 00:12:56,833</time>
<s>主要是我想问你在哪我觉得好搞笑</s>
<time>473_00:12:57,633 --> 00:12:58,433</time>
<s>在我还不红的时候</s>
<time>474_00:12:58,633 --> 00:13:00,433</time>
<s>几干几万粉丝吧有个人私信我</s>
<time>475_00:13:00,633 --> 00:13:01,633</time>
<s>他直呼了我的名字</s>
<time>476_00:13:01,833 --> 00:13:02,033</time>
<s>然后他说</s>
<time>477_00:13:02,233 --> 00:13:04,033</time>
<s>你不记得2015发生了什么事情吗</s>
<time>478_00:13:04,233 --> 00:13:06,033</time>
<s>然后2015就是我入学的那一年</s>
<time>479_00:13:06,233 --> 00:13:06,833</time>
<s>我怀疑是他</s>
<time>480_00:13:07,033 --> 00:13:09,033</time>
<s>但是后面他说加个VX我给他</s>
<time>481_00:13:09,233 --> 00:13:10,033</time>
<s>之后他没有加我</s>
<time>482_00:13:10,233 --> 00:13:12,033</time>
<s>我不知道是因为他故意不加了</s>
<time>483_00:13:12,233 --> 00:13:13,833</time>
<s>还是他突然后悔了啊</s>
<time>484_00:13:14,233 --> 00:13:16,833</time>
<s>还是他可能在家里盘算了我的年纪差不多到了</s>
<time>485_00:13:17,833 --> 00:13:20,033</time>
<s>我的第一个就是大概讲完了我还有第二个</s>
<time>486_00:13:20,233 --> 00:13:21,033</time>
<s>第二个大二</s>
<time>487_00:13:21,233 --> 00:13:22,233</time>
<s>我去参加了我朋友的一个</s>
<time>488_00:13:22,433 --> 00:13:23,433</time>
<s>深圳的毕业典礼</s>
<time>489_00:13:23,633 --> 00:13:25,433</time>
<s>然后当时我在附近开了一个房间</s>
<time>490_00:13:25,633 --> 00:13:27,433</time>
<s>然后当时晚上我在刷那个小软件</s>
<time>491_00:13:27,633 --> 00:13:28,633</time>
<s>就是遇到了一个人</s>
<time>492_00:13:28,833 --> 00:13:30,233</time>
<s>然后我就喊他过来跟我一起睡了</s>
<time>493_00:13:30,433 --> 00:13:33,433</time>
<s>然后就睡觉啊睡觉就是单纯的睡觉吗</s>
<time>494_00:13:33,633 --> 00:13:34,233</time>
<s>聊天</s>
<time>495_00:13:35,233 --> 00:13:36,233</time>
<s>我为什么记忆这么深刻的</s>
<time>496_00:13:36,433 --> 00:13:38,833</time>
<s>我当天晚上跟他像好朋友聊了很久很久</s>
<time>497_00:13:39,033 --> 00:13:41,033</time>
<s>一起吃宵夜后聊天说什么这那的</s>
<time>498_00:13:41,233 --> 00:13:42,433</time>
<s>他跟我说他有个很喜欢的</s>
<time>499_00:13:42,633 --> 00:13:43,833</time>
<s>他给我看他照片然后就说怎么样</s>
<time>500_00:13:44,033 --> 00:13:44,833</time>
<s>你知道那一刻就是</s>
<time>501_00:13:45,033 --> 00:13:46,633</time>
<s>就是他就说那个人不喜欢他</s>
<time>502_00:13:46,833 --> 00:13:48,433</time>
<s>但是他不想放弃</s>
<time>503_00:13:48,833 --> 00:13:50,233</time>
<s>然后他想就问我怎么怎么办</s>
<time>504_00:13:50,433 --> 00:13:50,833</time>
<s>就这这那</s>
<time>505_00:13:51,033 --> 00:13:53,033</time>
<s>然后我当时觉得那个人很幸福</s>
<time>506_00:13:53,233 --> 00:13:54,033</time>
<s>你很美慕是吧</s>
<time>507_00:13:54,233 --> 00:13:57,033</time>
<s>我很美慕我很美蒙我超级美慕</s>
<time>508_00:13:57,233 --> 00:13:58,633</time>
<s>半夜的时候觉得我叉在那里</s>
<time>509_00:13:58,833 --> 00:13:59,233</time>
<s>真的不知道为什么</s>
<time>510_00:13:59,433 --> 00:14:00,633</time>
<s>人家都已经睡的呼呼作响</s>
<time>511_00:14:00,833 --> 00:14:02,433</time>
<s>我很羡慕那个人可以被</s>
<time>512_00:14:02,833 --> 00:14:04,033</time>
<s>这么一个人这么喜欢</s>
<time>513_00:14:04,233 --> 00:14:06,633</time>
<s>第二天他走的时候他说他说你要加油哦</s>
<time>514_00:14:06,833 --> 00:14:09,633</time>
<s>他说你会找到一个很喜欢你的1个人</s>
<time>515_00:14:09,833 --> 00:14:10,433</time>
<s>一定会</s>
<time>516_00:14:10,633 --> 00:14:12,433</time>
<s>这虽然是你对我印象是很深刻的现在</s>
<time>517_00:14:12,833 --> 00:14:15,033</time>
<s>但是自从他说了这句话之后</s>
<time>518_00:14:15,233 --> 00:14:16,033</time>
<s>后面几年后遇到的</s>
<time>519_00:14:16,233 --> 00:14:17,633</time>
<s>有一些人可能对我说过这句话时候</s>
<time>520_00:14:17,833 --> 00:14:18,633</time>
<s>也是同样的话</s>
<time>521_00:14:18,833 --> 00:14:20,033</time>
<s>但我觉得这个就是一个魔咒</s>
<time>522_00:14:20,233 --> 00:14:21,633</time>
<s>大家都说哎呀你蛮好的啦</s>
<time>523_00:14:21,833 --> 00:14:22,433</time>
<s>你一定会遇到一个</s>
<time>524_00:14:22,633 --> 00:14:24,033</time>
<s>就是跟你就是情投意合的人</s>
<time>525_00:14:24,233 --> 00:14:25,633</time>
<s>没有</s>
<time>526_00:14:26,033 --> 00:14:28,433</time>
<s>我怀疑是从这个人开始就下了一个咒</s>
<time>527_00:14:28,633 --> 00:14:29,233</time>
<s>你知道吗</s>
<time>528_00:14:29,433 --> 00:14:31,033</time>
<s>下了个降头的那种感觉</s>
<time>529_00:14:31,233 --> 00:14:32,233</time>
<s>我大概一年后吧</s>
<time>530_00:14:32,433 --> 00:14:33,633</time>
<s>我突然想起这个人</s>
<time>531_00:14:33,833 --> 00:14:34,633</time>
<s>我还搜了账号时候</s>
<time>532_00:14:34,833 --> 00:14:36,633</time>
<s>我发现他已经30天前没有登录了</s>
<time>533_00:14:36,833 --> 00:14:37,833</time>
<s>最晚是30天前</s>
<time>534_00:14:38,033 --> 00:14:39,233</time>
<s>就是已经很久很久没有登录</s>
<time>535_00:14:39,433 --> 00:14:41,633</time>
<s>他个性签名写的就是你找到喜欢的人</s>
<time>536_00:14:41,833 --> 00:14:43,033</time>
<s>我就觉得还挺</s>
<time>537_00:14:43,233 --> 00:14:43,633</time>
<s>印象深刻的</s>
<time>538_00:14:43,833 --> 00:14:45,833</time>
<s>但是就是也是这个人给我带来了魔咒</s>
<time>539_00:14:46,033 --> 00:14:47,633</time>
<s>我希望你给我解咒有一个吧</s>
<time>540_00:14:47,833 --> 00:14:49,233</time>
<s>你刚刚一说我有想起来一个</s>
<time>541_00:14:49,433 --> 00:14:50,833</time>
<s>就是我高三的时候</s>
<time>542_00:14:51,033 --> 00:14:52,633</time>
<s>因为我不是说寄宿学校吗</s>
<time>543_00:14:52,833 --> 00:14:54,833</time>
<s>我妈就高三的时候得了一个</s>
<time>544_00:14:55,233 --> 00:14:56,033</time>
<s>甲状腺的那个</s>
<time>545_00:14:56,233 --> 00:14:56,833</time>
<s>一个病吧</s>
<time>546_00:14:57,033 --> 00:14:58,233</time>
<s>长了两颗肿瘤</s>
<time>547_00:14:58,433 --> 00:15:00,033</time>
<s>然后当时去y院看</s>
<time>548_00:15:00,433 --> 00:15:02,633</time>
<s>一颗是恶性肿瘤一颗是良性肿瘤</s>
<time>549_00:15:02,833 --> 00:15:04,433</time>
<s>这件事情是我后来才知道的</s>
<time>550_00:15:04,633 --> 00:15:07,833</time>
<s>后来我妈就是去把它割了</s>
<time>551_00:15:08,233 --> 00:15:10,833</time>
<s>但是我全程我是不知道这件事情的</s>
<time>552_00:15:11,033 --> 00:15:12,433</time>
<s>我只我以为我妈只是</s>
<time>553_00:15:13,033 --> 00:15:14,633</time>
<s>得了什么小病去她没有告诉你是吧</s>
<time>554_00:15:14,833 --> 00:15:15,433</time>
<s>她没有跟我讲</s>
<time>555_00:15:15,633 --> 00:15:16,833</time>
<s>她让我爸不要跟我讲</s>
<time>556_00:15:17,033 --> 00:15:19,433</time>
<s>我妈后来还跟我控诉了我爸很多行为</s>
<time>557_00:15:19,633 --> 00:15:19,833</time>
<s>恩</s>
<time>558_00:15:20,033 --> 00:15:22,233</time>
<s>就是maybe就是有一种丧偶式婚姻</s>
<time>559_00:15:22,433 --> 00:15:23,433</time>
<s>你知道youknow</s>
<time>560_00:15:23,633 --> 00:15:24,833</time>
<s>丧偶式婚姻</s>
<time>561_00:15:25,033 --> 00:15:27,233</time>
<s>这个词还蛮新潮的会蛮生气的</s>
<time>562_00:15:27,433 --> 00:15:29,033</time>
<s>因为我妈后来跟我说</s>
<time>563_00:15:29,233 --> 00:15:31,033</time>
<s>去y院检查也是他自己去的</s>
<time>564_00:15:32,233 --> 00:15:33,433</time>
<s>真的还没心没肺的</s>
<time>565_00:15:33,633 --> 00:15:34,433</time>
<s>然后去y院检查也是我妈自己去的</s>
<time>566_00:15:37,033 --> 00:15:39,033</time>
<s>然后后来切片结果出来</s>
<time>567_00:15:39,633 --> 00:15:41,433</time>
<s>也是我妈自己去看的</s>
<time>568_00:15:41,633 --> 00:15:44,033</time>
<s>y生就是y生跟他讲那些</s>
<time>569_00:15:44,433 --> 00:15:45,433</time>
<s>我百分之百发誓</s>
<time>570_00:15:45,633 --> 00:15:46,633</time>
<s>如果妈出现这种情况的话</s>
<time>571_00:15:46,833 --> 00:15:47,433</time>
<s>我家也是这样子</s>
<time>572_00:15:47,633 --> 00:15:48,433</time>
<s>我不敢我不敢说保证</s>
<time>573_00:15:48,633 --> 00:15:49,633</time>
<s>但我80%我爸还是这样</s>
<time>574_00:15:49,833 --> 00:15:51,433</time>
<s>就是蛮残忍的就是</s>
<time>575_00:15:51,833 --> 00:15:53,433</time>
<s>但是我现在后来想一想就</s>
<time>576_00:15:54,033 --> 00:15:55,033</time>
<s>现在想想就还好</s>
<time>577_00:15:55,233 --> 00:15:57,033</time>
<s>你没有当时那么生气</s>
<time>578_00:15:57,233 --> 00:15:58,233</time>
<s>我主要是我觉得我很多时候</s>
<time>579_00:15:58,433 --> 00:15:58,833</time>
<s>我理解不了</s>
<time>580_00:15:59,033 --> 00:16:00,833</time>
<s>就是他们结婚的意义是什么</s>
<time>581_00:16:01,233 --> 00:16:03,633</time>
<s>然后就不理解他们的爱情而且起点初衷是什么</s>
<time>582_00:16:03,833 --> 00:16:05,633</time>
<s>我爸我妈是自由恋爱</s>
<time>583_00:16:06,633 --> 00:16:06,833</time>
<s>所以说</s>
<time>584_00:16:07,033 --> 00:16:08,233</time>
<s>就是有些时候我没有办法评价他们</s>
<time>585_00:16:08,433 --> 00:16:09,833</time>
<s>就是如果你要说</s>
<time>586_00:16:10,033 --> 00:16:11,433</time>
<s>以我们现在的观点就评论他们的爱情</s>
<time>587_00:16:11,633 --> 00:16:13,833</time>
<s>就是怎么可能你们两个会结婚对</s>
<time>588_00:16:14,033 --> 00:16:15,633</time>
<s>但他们两个就是结婚了就是互相</s>
<time>589_00:16:15,833 --> 00:16:17,033</time>
<s>忍让的那种</s>
<time>590_00:16:17,233 --> 00:16:18,833</time>
<s>我就有时候我理解不了我妈</s>
<time>591_00:16:19,433 --> 00:16:21,033</time>
<s>我小时候经常我说我开玩笑说</s>
<time>592_00:16:21,433 --> 00:16:22,633</time>
<s>就是开玩笑带真的那种感觉</s>
<time>593_00:16:22,833 --> 00:16:23,433</time>
<s>你赶紧离婚</s>
<time>594_00:16:23,833 --> 00:16:24,633</time>
<s>然后我妈就是那种</s>
<time>595_00:16:24,833 --> 00:16:25,433</time>
<s>她说哎什么没什么</s>
<time>596_00:16:25,633 --> 00:16:27,433</time>
<s>就有种就是过了一辈子那种感觉</s>
<time>597_00:16:27,633 --> 00:16:29,033</time>
<s>因为爱情也没有这么容易</s>
<time>598_00:16:29,233 --> 00:16:30,633</time>
<s>我们都这样了</s>
<time>599_00:16:31,233 --> 00:16:33,033</time>
<s>当代年轻人说起来蛮讽刺的</s>
<time>600_00:16:33,233 --> 00:16:34,433</time>
<s>就是我妈有时候还会</s>
<time>601_00:16:34,833 --> 00:16:36,833</time>
<s>就是跟小女生一样跟我说</s>
<time>602_00:16:37,233 --> 00:16:39,233</time>
<s>她说她当时我爸是她学长</s>
<time>603_00:16:39,633 --> 00:16:41,233</time>
<s>哦呦啊然后后来</s>
<time>604_00:16:41,633 --> 00:16:42,233</time>
<s>他们当时</s>
<time>605_00:16:42,633 --> 00:16:45,233</time>
<s>就是跟我讲他们以前谈恋爱的细节</s>
<time>606_00:16:45,433 --> 00:16:46,433</time>
<s>就是说什么在</s>
<time>607_00:16:46,833 --> 00:16:48,233</time>
<s>就是一群他们的朋友</s>
<time>608_00:16:49,033 --> 00:16:49,233</time>
<s>出去玩</s>
<time>609_00:16:49,433 --> 00:16:52,633</time>
<s>然后我爸骑着自行车后面载着我妈</s>
<time>610_00:16:52,833 --> 00:16:54,033</time>
<s>什么就是讲这种</s>
<time>611_00:16:54,433 --> 00:16:58,433</time>
<s>哎就是很当时那个电视情节的那种</s>
<time>612_00:16:58,833 --> 00:17:01,033</time>
<s>我妈对我讲过我爸的就是她说他</s>
<time>613_00:17:01,633 --> 00:17:03,233</time>
<s>以前不是这样的哈哈哈</s>
<time>614_00:17:03,833 --> 00:17:04,633</time>
<s>说她以前不是这样</s>
<time>615_00:17:04,833 --> 00:17:05,833</time>
<s>她说以前他很勤奋</s>
<time>616_00:17:06,033 --> 00:17:08,233</time>
<s>什么我妈以前还会说什么我爸很帅啊</s>
<time>617_00:17:08,433 --> 00:17:10,233</time>
<s>什么年轻的时候什么样的</s>
<time>618_00:17:10,633 --> 00:17:11,833</time>
<s>我在网上看到谁评论一个</s>
<time>619_00:17:12,233 --> 00:17:13,233</time>
<s>印象深刻的粉丝</s>
<time>620_00:17:13,433 --> 00:17:14,233</time>
<s>就我这个可以说一下</s>
<time>621_00:17:14,433 --> 00:17:17,433</time>
<s>在那个五六万粉丝的时候吧</s>
<time>622_00:17:17,633 --> 00:17:19,833</time>
<s>我估摸应该是那个时期我拍过一期</s>
<time>623_00:17:20,033 --> 00:17:21,833</time>
<s>就是那个粉丝寄给我的衣服的</s>
<time>624_00:17:22,033 --> 00:17:24,033</time>
<s>她是当时的其中一个参与者</s>
<time>625_00:17:24,233 --> 00:17:25,633</time>
<s>如果当时是有那个群的吗</s>
<time>626_00:17:25,833 --> 00:17:26,633</time>
<s>然后大家其实</s>
<time>627_00:17:26,833 --> 00:17:29,033</time>
<s>她算是里面的一个积极活跃分子</s>
<time>628_00:17:29,233 --> 00:17:30,633</time>
<s>因为她经常每天都发朋友圈嘛</s>
<time>629_00:17:30,833 --> 00:17:32,233</time>
<s>然后每天都在群里面哔哩吧啦</s>
<time>630_00:17:32,433 --> 00:17:33,233</time>
<s>突然某一天</s>
<time>631_00:17:33,433 --> 00:17:35,433</time>
<s>发现好像群里面就是变得冷清了很多</s>
<time>632_00:17:35,633 --> 00:17:36,833</time>
<s>我当时还不知道就是</s>
<time>633_00:17:37,033 --> 00:17:37,633</time>
<s>我已经忘了件事</s>
<time>634_00:17:37,833 --> 00:17:38,433</time>
<s>然后我就突然想到</s>
<time>635_00:17:38,633 --> 00:17:39,233</time>
<s>我好像</s>
<time>636_00:17:39,433 --> 00:17:41,633</time>
<s>好久都没有看到这个人的朋友圈了</s>
<time>637_00:17:41,833 --> 00:17:42,633</time>
<s>因为我从来不屏蔽我</s>
<time>638_00:17:42,833 --> 00:17:44,033</time>
<s>加了别人我也不屏蔽他们</s>
<time>639_00:17:44,233 --> 00:17:45,233</time>
<s>除非你真是那发型师</s>
<time>640_00:17:46,633 --> 00:17:47,833</time>
<s>然后我就说这个人</s>
<time>641_00:17:48,033 --> 00:17:50,833</time>
<s>哎我一点开看她把我删了我不知道</s>
<time>642_00:17:51,433 --> 00:17:53,433</time>
<s>是因为你群聊时候冷落她了吗</s>
<time>643_00:17:53,633 --> 00:17:54,633</time>
<s>不是没可能</s>
<time>644_00:17:54,833 --> 00:17:56,033</time>
<s>我到至今我都很不解</s>
<time>645_00:17:56,233 --> 00:17:57,633</time>
<s>然后我当时有段时间我在怀疑</s>
<time>646_00:17:57,833 --> 00:17:58,833</time>
<s>脱粉现场对</s>
<time>647_00:17:59,033 --> 00:18:00,033</time>
<s>我也在怀疑是我自己</s>
<time>648_00:18:00,233 --> 00:18:02,033</time>
<s>就是当时就是发表一些什么样的言论</s>
<time>649_00:18:02,233 --> 00:18:03,433</time>
<s>或者说是做了一些什么事情</s>
<time>650_00:18:03,633 --> 00:18:05,833</time>
<s>让她觉得就是那个或者说是我朋友圈</s>
<time>651_00:18:06,233 --> 00:18:06,833</time>
<s>发太多了啊</s>
<time>652_00:18:07,033 --> 00:18:09,033</time>
<s>天天发一些有7没8的东西</s>
<time>653_00:18:09,433 --> 00:18:11,433</time>
<s>我当时我就觉得我还挺怀疑我自己的</s>
<time>654_00:18:11,633 --> 00:18:12,633</time>
<s>就是怎么会就人家</s>
<time>655_00:18:12,833 --> 00:18:16,033</time>
<s>怎么会无缘无故把自己删掉</s>
<time>656_00:18:16,233 --> 00:18:19,233</time>
<s>然后说啊还就是取关我就是</s>
<time>657_00:18:20,033 --> 00:18:20,433</time>
<s>这样子的</s>
<time>658_00:18:20,633 --> 00:18:23,633</time>
<s>因为当时她确实是很活跃度很高的一个粉丝</s>
<time>659_00:18:23,833 --> 00:18:26,833</time>
<s>伴我走过了一段涨粉丝的一个粉丝</s>
<time>660_00:18:27,033 --> 00:18:28,233</time>
<s>我就是还挺可惜的</s>
<time>661_00:18:28,433 --> 00:18:29,433</time>
<s>就因为我还挺珍惜</s>
<time>662_00:18:29,633 --> 00:18:30,833</time>
<s>就是每一个粉丝的</s>
<time>663_00:18:31,033 --> 00:18:32,033</time>
<s>你知道粉丝越来越多吗</s>
<time>664_00:18:32,233 --> 00:18:34,233</time>
<s>你能记住的其实不是说特别多</s>
<time>665_00:18:34,433 --> 00:18:34,633</time>
<s>除非你</s>
<time>666_00:18:34,833 --> 00:18:37,633</time>
<s>每次跟你互动的她是我少量能记住的</s>
<time>667_00:18:37,833 --> 00:18:38,633</time>
<s>就是之一</s>
<time>668_00:18:38,833 --> 00:18:40,033</time>
<s>然后我就特别有印象</s>
<time>669_00:18:40,233 --> 00:18:41,633</time>
<s>然后包括粉丝的热情度这件事情</s>
<time>670_00:18:41,833 --> 00:18:44,033</time>
<s>就是你们老是说什么建群什么</s>
<time>671_00:18:44,233 --> 00:18:46,033</time>
<s>其实我有一个群我现在不拉人进去</s>
<time>672_00:18:46,233 --> 00:18:48,033</time>
<s>也不是我不想让你们加</s>
<time>673_00:18:48,233 --> 00:18:49,433</time>
<s>就是我觉得我没有必要去宣传</s>
<time>674_00:18:49,633 --> 00:18:49,833</time>
<s>为什么呢</s>
<time>675_00:18:50,033 --> 00:18:51,633</time>
<s>因为我当时前期建那个群是</s>
<time>676_00:18:51,833 --> 00:18:52,633</time>
<s>为了想涨粉吗</s>
<time>677_00:18:52,833 --> 00:18:54,433</time>
<s>然后调动的粉丝活跃度啊</s>
<time>678_00:18:54,633 --> 00:18:55,433</time>
<s>但后来我发现就是</s>
<time>679_00:18:55,633 --> 00:18:57,433</time>
<s>大家是如果同一时间看这种东西</s>
<time>680_00:18:57,633 --> 00:18:59,433</time>
<s>久的话大家还是会厌烦</s>
<time>681_00:19:00,033 --> 00:19:01,033</time>
<s>就是其实你们说不会</s>
<time>682_00:19:01,233 --> 00:19:02,233</time>
<s>但其实就是</s>
<time>683_00:19:02,433 --> 00:19:04,433</time>
<s>就是大家就是会有那种看什么厌烦</s>
<time>684_00:19:04,633 --> 00:19:06,033</time>
<s>看群里面的消息吗</s>
<time>685_00:19:06,233 --> 00:19:06,633</time>
<s>就是比如说</s>
<time>686_00:19:06,833 --> 00:19:08,433</time>
<s>有些人就是一开始就是我要进去</s>
<time>687_00:19:08,633 --> 00:19:08,833</time>
<s>我要进去</s>
<time>688_00:19:09,033 --> 00:19:10,633</time>
<s>其实最后他们就是都会退群</s>
<time>689_00:19:10,833 --> 00:19:12,033</time>
<s>比如说你点开了几百条信息</s>
<time>690_00:19:12,233 --> 00:19:14,433</time>
<s>跟不上的时候就是大家就是会退群</s>
<time>691_00:19:14,633 --> 00:19:15,833</time>
<s>就是热情的度就会</s>
<time>692_00:19:16,033 --> 00:19:17,633</time>
<s>嗯就是会那个啊</s>
<time>693_00:19:17,833 --> 00:19:19,233</time>
<s>就不管是不是粉丝还怎么样</s>
<time>694_00:19:19,433 --> 00:19:20,833</time>
<s>就是我觉得爱情也是这样子</s>
<time>695_00:19:21,233 --> 00:19:22,433</time>
<s>就是你看很多老夫老妻</s>
<time>696_00:19:22,633 --> 00:19:24,433</time>
<s>就是谈到后面就好像没什么激情</s>
<time>697_00:19:24,633 --> 00:19:25,033</time>
<s>那种感觉</s>
<time>698_00:19:25,233 --> 00:19:26,633</time>
<s>当然我还是跟你们很有激情啦</s>
<time>699_00:19:27,033 --> 00:19:27,633</time>
<s>就是对不对</s>
<time>700_00:19:27,833 --> 00:19:29,033</time>
<s>咱们就是可以来个爱的火花</s>
<time>701_00:19:29,633 --> 00:19:32,433</time>
<s>工作离家好还是大城市好</s>
<time>702_00:19:32,633 --> 00:19:33,633</time>
<s>我觉得这个问题我</s>
<time>703_00:19:33,833 --> 00:19:35,433</time>
<s>我觉得我还算是比较有发言权的</s>
<time>704_00:19:35,633 --> 00:19:38,433</time>
<s>因为我是义无反顾的选择去大城市</s>
<time>705_00:19:38,633 --> 00:19:39,433</time>
<s>never离家近</s>
<time>706_00:19:39,633 --> 00:19:41,433</time>
<s>这首先跟家人关系很重要</s>
<time>707_00:19:41,633 --> 00:19:42,033</time>
<s>如果你是那种</s>
<time>708_00:19:42,233 --> 00:19:43,633</time>
<s>就是跟家人关系很好的话</s>
<time>709_00:19:43,833 --> 00:19:46,233</time>
<s>你其实大部分你都会比较着家</s>
<time>710_00:19:46,433 --> 00:19:47,433</time>
<s>比较恋家那种的话</s>
<time>711_00:19:47,633 --> 00:19:49,233</time>
<s>你会选择一个比较离家近的城市</s>
<time>712_00:19:49,633 --> 00:19:50,633</time>
<s>除了能让你多见见父母</s>
<time>713_00:19:50,833 --> 00:19:52,033</time>
<s>还没有什么别的一个好处</s>
<time>714_00:19:52,233 --> 00:19:53,433</time>
<s>但我觉得还是要评估一下</s>
<time>715_00:19:53,633 --> 00:19:54,633</time>
<s>如果你在家附近</s>
<time>716_00:19:54,833 --> 00:19:57,033</time>
<s>跟你去别的城市赚的差不多的话</s>
<time>717_00:19:57,233 --> 00:19:57,833</time>
<s>我就无谓了</s>
<time>718_00:19:58,033 --> 00:19:59,833</time>
<s>你发展前景如果是差不多话</s>
<time>719_00:20:00,033 --> 00:20:00,833</time>
<s>我真的觉得无所谓</s>
<time>720_00:20:01,033 --> 00:20:02,233</time>
<s>不是我是这么看的</s>
<time>721_00:20:02,433 --> 00:20:04,033</time>
<s>我是觉得你如果是那种恋家的话</s>
<time>722_00:20:04,233 --> 00:20:06,433</time>
<s>你在家附近的话你会经常有一种</s>
<time>723_00:20:06,633 --> 00:20:07,033</time>
<s>怎么说呢</s>
<time>724_00:20:07,233 --> 00:20:08,633</time>
<s>那果你离家近的话你会经常</s>
<time>725_00:20:08,833 --> 00:20:10,233</time>
<s>回家或者有些人直接是住家里的</s>
<time>726_00:20:10,433 --> 00:20:11,633</time>
<s>你会有种不上进的心</s>
<time>727_00:20:11,833 --> 00:20:12,833</time>
<s>尤其是住家里的那些</s>
<time>728_00:20:13,033 --> 00:20:14,033</time>
<s>你就觉得因为在家里过挺好</s>
<time>729_00:20:14,233 --> 00:20:14,633</time>
<s>你不用交房租</s>
<time>730_00:20:14,833 --> 00:20:16,433</time>
<s>你不用交房租你会觉得就是有种</s>
<time>731_00:20:17,033 --> 00:20:18,433</time>
<s>就是活着就好了</s>
<time>732_00:20:18,633 --> 00:20:20,033</time>
<s>我身边很多人都是这种感觉</s>
<time>733_00:20:20,233 --> 00:20:21,233</time>
<s>就是而过直过吧</s>
<time>734_00:20:21,433 --> 00:20:22,833</time>
<s>就是也没有说一个很拼搏的心</s>
<time>735_00:20:23,033 --> 00:20:24,233</time>
<s>就是想说反正我不用交房租</s>
<time>736_00:20:24,433 --> 00:20:25,833</time>
<s>反正就是即使我没有工作</s>
<time>737_00:20:26,233 --> 00:20:27,033</time>
<s>我也不会无家可归</s>
<time>738_00:20:27,833 --> 00:20:29,433</time>
<s>第二点就是人可能不是住家里</s>
<time>739_00:20:29,633 --> 00:20:30,633</time>
<s>就是离家比较近的话</s>
<time>740_00:20:30,833 --> 00:20:32,033</time>
<s>我觉得他们就是怎么说呢</s>
<time>741_00:20:32,233 --> 00:20:33,633</time>
<s>这种感觉总有人照着吧</s>
<time>742_00:20:33,833 --> 00:20:35,833</time>
<s>不会想说问题自己去解决</s>
<time>743_00:20:36,033 --> 00:20:37,033</time>
<s>你就会想着说啊</s>
<time>744_00:20:37,233 --> 00:20:38,233</time>
<s>我打电话告诉一下父母</s>
<time>745_00:20:38,433 --> 00:20:39,433</time>
<s>父母帮我一下怎么怎么样</s>
<time>746_00:20:39,633 --> 00:20:41,033</time>
<s>我觉得会有人有这种想法</s>
<time>747_00:20:41,233 --> 00:20:43,433</time>
<s>然后有时候如果发展的来说的话</s>
<time>748_00:20:43,633 --> 00:20:45,633</time>
<s>得看你的本身的那个城市在哪里</s>
<time>749_00:20:45,833 --> 00:20:46,633</time>
<s>这是首先地点</s>
<time>750_00:20:46,833 --> 00:20:48,233</time>
<s>就是你出生那个城市已经</s>
<time>751_00:20:48,433 --> 00:20:49,633</time>
<s>是一个大城市的话</s>
<time>752_00:20:49,833 --> 00:20:51,833</time>
<s>那你可能可能在想思量一下</s>
<time>753_00:20:52,233 --> 00:20:54,233</time>
<s>因为我觉得我个人是会选择大城市</s>
<time>754_00:20:54,433 --> 00:20:55,833</time>
<s>因为我觉得大城市首先真的发展</s>
<time>755_00:20:56,033 --> 00:20:58,633</time>
<s>前景好然后其实是空间大就是</s>
<time>756_00:20:59,433 --> 00:21:01,433</time>
<s>方向多你会其实很多人也会说</s>
<time>757_00:21:01,633 --> 00:21:03,033</time>
<s>哎那这样不会觉得很迷吗</s>
<time>758_00:21:03,233 --> 00:21:04,033</time>
<s>那大家都很努力啊</s>
<time>759_00:21:04,233 --> 00:21:05,233</time>
<s>就是因为大家更努力</s>
<time>760_00:21:05,433 --> 00:21:06,833</time>
<s>你才要鞭打一下你自己</s>
<time>761_00:21:07,033 --> 00:21:07,633</time>
<s>觉得说</s>
<time>762_00:21:07,833 --> 00:21:09,833</time>
<s>你还见识到贫富差距怎么会这么大</s>
<time>763_00:21:10,033 --> 00:21:11,633</time>
<s>你原来想象的有钱人可能只是</s>
<time>764_00:21:11,833 --> 00:21:13,033</time>
<s>不要做井底之蛙</s>
<time>765_00:21:13,233 --> 00:21:15,433</time>
<s>只是买几套房子你就觉得很有钱了</s>
<time>766_00:21:15,633 --> 00:21:16,633</time>
<s>你不能想象的是</s>
<time>767_00:21:16,833 --> 00:21:17,633</time>
<s>有些人可能买几套房子</s>
<time>768_00:21:17,833 --> 00:21:19,233</time>
<s>真的只是随手买一买就是真的</s>
<time>769_00:21:19,433 --> 00:21:20,633</time>
<s>你能见到更多东西之后</s>
<time>770_00:21:20,833 --> 00:21:22,633</time>
<s>你会发现你整个世界会开拓很多</s>
<time>771_00:21:22,833 --> 00:21:24,633</time>
<s>而不是只是坐在你那个城市里面的</s>
<time>772_00:21:24,833 --> 00:21:25,633</time>
<s>那个小蛙</s>
<time>773_00:21:25,833 --> 00:21:26,833</time>
<s>就是那跳不出来</s>
<time>774_00:21:27,033 --> 00:21:28,433</time>
<s>我没有说做井底之蛙不好的意恩</s>
<time>775_00:21:28,633 --> 00:21:29,833</time>
<s>如果你是愿意这样子生活的话</s>
<time>776_00:21:30,033 --> 00:21:31,433</time>
<s>其实也可以很幸福</s>
<time>777_00:21:31,633 --> 00:21:33,633</time>
<s>就是一辈子安稳稳稳的度过吗</s>
<time>778_00:21:33,833 --> 00:21:35,633</time>
<s>只是看每个人的就是内心的想法什么</s>
<time>779_00:21:35,833 --> 00:21:36,433</time>
<s>就我觉得你</s>
<time>780_00:21:36,833 --> 00:21:38,633</time>
<s>即使你不在大城市工作</s>
<time>781_00:21:38,833 --> 00:21:40,233</time>
<s>你也要一定要去大城市走一走</s>
<time>782_00:21:40,433 --> 00:21:41,833</time>
<s>就是感受一下就是</s>
<time>783_00:21:42,633 --> 00:21:44,833</time>
<s>所谓的什么比如说北京啊首都啊</s>
<time>784_00:21:45,233 --> 00:21:46,033</time>
<s>这上海啊</s>
<time>785_00:21:46,233 --> 00:21:48,433</time>
<s>就是杭州这些一线大都市</s>
<time>786_00:21:48,633 --> 00:21:50,233</time>
<s>就是这些人</s>
<time>787_00:21:50,433 --> 00:21:50,833</time>
<s>究竟怎么样</s>
<time>788_00:21:51,033 --> 00:21:52,633</time>
<s>这些生活究竟是怎么样的</s>
<time>789_00:21:52,833 --> 00:21:54,033</time>
<s>这个城市的氛围怎么样</s>
<time>790_00:21:54,233 --> 00:21:55,433</time>
<s>你就是你去到那些地方之后</s>
<time>791_00:21:55,633 --> 00:21:57,833</time>
<s>你会感受就是跟你的原来家乡</s>
<time>792_00:21:58,033 --> 00:21:58,833</time>
<s>截然不同</s>
<time>793_00:21:59,433 --> 00:22:00,233</time>
<s>就是我很爱珠海</s>
<time>794_00:22:00,433 --> 00:22:02,433</time>
<s>这珠海是个很适合养老的城市</s>
<time>795_00:22:02,633 --> 00:22:03,633</time>
<s>但是你去到了杭州</s>
<time>796_00:22:04,033 --> 00:22:05,833</time>
<s>杭州之后你去了你什么别的</s>
<time>797_00:22:06,033 --> 00:22:07,233</time>
<s>北京啊广州之后</s>
<time>798_00:22:07,633 --> 00:22:08,833</time>
<s>发现哎不一样</s>
<time>799_00:22:09,233 --> 00:22:10,033</time>
<s>上海怎么就不一样</s>
<time>800_00:22:10,233 --> 00:22:10,833</time>
<s>节奏上面</s>
<time>801_00:22:11,033 --> 00:22:13,633</time>
<s>或者说是那个整个城市面貌就是哇</s>
<time>802_00:22:13,833 --> 00:22:14,233</time>
<s>完全不同</s>
<time>803_00:22:14,433 --> 00:22:16,233</time>
<s>我会很向往这些东西应该是生活</s>
<time>804_00:22:16,433 --> 00:22:17,633</time>
<s>真的是生活方式不一样</s>
<time>805_00:22:17,833 --> 00:22:19,433</time>
<s>福州是真的宜居城市</s>
<time>806_00:22:20,633 --> 00:22:22,233</time>
<s>他们就是老人非常多</s>
<time>807_00:22:22,433 --> 00:22:24,633</time>
<s>就是生活节奏很慢反正我</s>
<time>808_00:22:24,833 --> 00:22:25,833</time>
<s>我眼里的福州</s>
<time>809_00:22:26,233 --> 00:22:27,233</time>
<s>我的家就是这样</s>
<time>810_00:22:27,433 --> 00:22:28,033</time>
<s>还有就是说什么</s>
<time>811_00:22:28,433 --> 00:22:31,033</time>
<s>有没有给毕业生找工作的注意事项</s>
<time>812_00:22:31,233 --> 00:22:31,833</time>
<s>一句话简单带过</s>
<time>813_00:22:32,033 --> 00:22:32,433</time>
<s>按你的</s>
<time>814_00:22:32,633 --> 00:22:35,233</time>
<s>平时兴趣爱好和感兴趣的方向去寻找</s>
<time>815_00:22:35,433 --> 00:22:36,433</time>
<s>还有工作氛围很重要</s>
<time>816_00:22:36,633 --> 00:22:38,433</time>
<s>有个人评论00你想×骨吗</s>
<time>817_00:22:38,633 --> 00:22:41,033</time>
<s>看到你的长脸强追症都要哭了</s>
<time>818_00:22:41,233 --> 00:22:42,633</time>
<s>什么p话啊</s>
<time>819_00:22:42,833 --> 00:22:45,633</time>
<s>×脸能把这里都了吗你在说什么</s>
<time>820_00:22:45,833 --> 00:22:48,033</time>
<s>挺想知道在校园环境中应该怎么做</s>
<time>821_00:22:48,233 --> 00:22:50,433</time>
<s>或者有什么办法让我们这类群体舒服的</s>
<time>822_00:22:50,633 --> 00:22:52,233</time>
<s>因为有时候觉得这种环境挺累的</s>
<time>823_00:22:52,433 --> 00:22:53,233</time>
<s>我觉得首先啊</s>
<time>824_00:22:53,433 --> 00:22:54,433</time>
<s>我的个人感受就是</s>
<time>825_00:22:54,633 --> 00:22:55,833</time>
<s>你只要不把一件事当事</s>
<time>826_00:22:56,033 --> 00:22:56,833</time>
<s>那他就不是事</s>
<time>827_00:22:57,233 --> 00:22:58,033</time>
<s>像我以前我跟你们说过</s>
<time>828_00:22:58,233 --> 00:22:58,833</time>
<s>就是我还挺害怕的</s>
<time>829_00:22:59,033 --> 00:23:00,633</time>
<s>就怕别人知道我是gay怎么样的</s>
<time>830_00:23:00,833 --> 00:23:02,433</time>
<s>然后后面就是可能看了一些剧吧</s>
<time>831_00:23:02,633 --> 00:23:03,233</time>
<s>改变我三观之后</s>
<time>832_00:23:03,433 --> 00:23:04,833</time>
<s>我发现就是其实当你自己都</s>
<time>833_00:23:05,033 --> 00:23:05,833</time>
<s>不是说我不在乎啊</s>
<time>834_00:23:06,033 --> 00:23:07,833</time>
<s>就是你不把这件事情当做一个</s>
<time>835_00:23:08,833 --> 00:23:10,433</time>
<s>我觉得可能大家都不会这么看你</s>
<time>836_00:23:10,633 --> 00:23:11,833</time>
<s>我是真实是这样感受了</s>
<time>837_00:23:12,033 --> 00:23:14,633</time>
<s>就是你如果非要觉得我是一个通心莲</s>
<time>838_00:23:14,833 --> 00:23:15,433</time>
<s>我很害怕怎么怎么样</s>
<time>839_00:23:15,633 --> 00:23:16,233</time>
<s>别人怎么说我的话</s>
<time>840_00:23:16,433 --> 00:23:17,633</time>
<s>其实人家也没那个意思</s>
<time>841_00:23:17,833 --> 00:23:19,433</time>
<s>你非要在那里兜着瑞着</s>
<time>842_00:23:19,633 --> 00:23:21,233</time>
<s>把这个标签贴在你身上的话</s>
<time>843_00:23:21,433 --> 00:23:23,033</time>
<s>别人就会阅读到你有这个东西</s>
<time>844_00:23:23,233 --> 00:23:25,233</time>
<s>就是如果你是一个正常人且让人家舒服人的话</s>
<time>845_00:23:25,433 --> 00:23:27,433</time>
<s>人家不会在乎你身上这些东西的</s>
<time>846_00:23:27,633 --> 00:23:28,633</time>
<s>我的指甲好看呢</s>
