<time>420_00:12:29,290 --> 00:12:30,959</time>
<s>怎么样我爸也是这样子</s>
<time>421_00:12:31,167 --> 00:12:32,835</time>
<s>他就是觉得我做什么就是</s>
<time>422_00:12:33,044 --> 00:12:34,712</time>
<s>只要是他不满意的就是不孝</s>
<time>423_00:12:35,129 --> 00:12:35,755</time>
<s>M我觉得有些时候</s>
<time>424_00:12:35,964 --> 00:12:38,049</time>
<s>真的是很难跟父母沟通</s>
<time>425_00:12:38,257 --> 00:12:39,509</time>
<s>昨天来刷到一个dy啊</s>
<time>426_00:12:39,717 --> 00:12:40,760</time>
<s>就是说那种搞笑的</s>
<time>427_00:12:40,969 --> 00:12:42,845</time>
<s>就是为什么跟父母沟通越来越难</s>
<time>428_00:12:43,054 --> 00:12:44,305</time>
<s>就大概是那种类似那种玩笑</s>
<time>429_00:12:44,514 --> 00:12:46,182</time>
<s>她说妈妈你看这个飞机真好看</s>
<time>430_00:12:46,391 --> 00:12:47,225</time>
<s>什么什么看什么看啊</s>
<time>431_00:12:47,433 --> 00:12:48,059</time>
<s>你以后不读书的话</s>
<time>432_00:12:48,267 --> 00:12:49,310</time>
<s>你飞机哪里坐的起啊</s>
<time>433_00:12:49,519 --> 00:12:50,979</time>
<s>小孩子想分享的点</s>
<time>434_00:12:51,187 --> 00:12:52,230</time>
<s>只是当下一些喜悦心情</s>
<time>435_00:12:52,438 --> 00:12:53,690</time>
<s>或者说他看到一些东西</s>
<time>436_00:12:54,315 --> 00:12:56,192</time>
<s>但是母亲看到就是一些很现实的</s>
<time>437_00:12:56,401 --> 00:12:58,903</time>
<s>或者说是她觉得应该要做的一些事情</s>
<time>438_00:12:59,112 --> 00:13:00,154</time>
<s>一强加到小孩子身上</s>
<time>439_00:13:00,363 --> 00:13:00,989</time>
<s>久而久之的话</s>
<time>440_00:13:01,406 --> 00:13:02,240</time>
<s>为什么很多现在就是</s>
<time>441_00:13:02,448 --> 00:13:03,700</time>
<s>父母就觉得说自己小孩子</s>
<time>442_00:13:03,908 --> 00:13:04,951</time>
<s>不愿意跟他们沟通</s>
<time>443_00:13:05,368 --> 00:13:06,828</time>
<s>我觉得有的时候真的是要考虑一下</s>
<time>444_00:13:07,036 --> 00:13:07,453</time>
<s>是自己的问题</s>
<time>445_00:13:07,662 --> 00:13:08,913</time>
<s>你知道你说到这个我想到什么</s>
<time>446_00:13:09,122 --> 00:13:11,624</time>
<s>昨天我去刮刮刮乐中了30块q</s>
<time>447_00:13:11,833 --> 00:13:13,710</time>
<s>然后我分享给我妈说我中了30</s>
<time>448_00:13:13,918 --> 00:13:15,378</time>
<s>因为她回了我一句万吗</s>
<time>449_00:13:15,586 --> 00:13:16,421</time>
<s>我妈看的好现实的</s>
<time>450_00:13:16,629 --> 00:13:18,715</time>
<s>我只想跟她分享我中奖了而已</s>
<time>451_00:13:18,923 --> 00:13:21,217</time>
<s>她后面问我她真觉得你是中了30W</s>
<time>452_00:13:21,426 --> 00:13:22,468</time>
<s>然后就是</s>
<time>453_00:13:22,677 --> 00:13:24,554</time>
<s>可能就是可以报答她给她20W这样子</s>
<time>454_00:13:24,762 --> 00:13:25,388</time>
<s>这样素</s>
<time>455_00:13:25,596 --> 00:13:28,307</time>
<s>小孩子就是跟父母确实是有很大代沟</s>
<time>456_00:13:28,516 --> 00:13:30,601</time>
<s>但是代沟我觉得都是自己挖出来的</s>
<time>457_00:13:30,810 --> 00:13:32,478</time>
<s>其实我觉得没有代不代沟这一说</s>
<time>458_00:13:32,687 --> 00:13:35,398</time>
<s>只是这个沟就是从小一点一点的去</s>
<time>459_00:13:35,606 --> 00:13:37,275</time>
<s>拿那个铲子给他铲的</s>
<time>460_00:13:37,483 --> 00:13:39,569</time>
<s>特别美慕以前有些我身边的一些朋友</s>
<time>461_00:13:39,777 --> 00:13:41,446</time>
<s>他跟他的父母就是关系非常好</s>
<time>462_00:13:41,654 --> 00:13:42,905</time>
<s>就是可以无话不说那种</s>
<time>463_00:13:43,114 --> 00:13:44,365</time>
<s>就是有什么事情跟父母商量</s>
<time>464_00:13:44,574 --> 00:13:46,451</time>
<s>我是挺美慕这种家庭关系的</s>
<time>465_00:13:46,659 --> 00:13:47,702</time>
<s>我觉得特别特别好</s>
<time>466_00:13:47,910 --> 00:13:48,953</time>
<s>就是真的是特别好</s>
<time>467_00:13:49,162 --> 00:13:51,664</time>
<s>就这种环境下面就是原生家庭成长</s>
<time>468_00:13:51,873 --> 00:13:52,915</time>
<s>上面小孩就是特别的</s>
<time>469_00:13:53,332 --> 00:13:53,541</time>
<s>不能说这样</s>
<time>470_00:13:53,750 --> 00:13:56,252</time>
<s>起码他的心态是会非常积极向上的</s>
<time>471_00:13:56,461 --> 00:13:57,086</time>
<s>他不会自卑</s>
<time>472_00:13:57,295 --> 00:13:58,755</time>
<s>对待事情或处理事情的态度</s>
<time>473_00:13:58,963 --> 00:13:59,797</time>
<s>是完全不一样的</s>
<time>474_00:14:00,006 --> 00:14:02,091</time>
<s>至少有回到家有人愿意跟你说话</s>
<time>475_00:14:02,300 --> 00:14:03,760</time>
<s>对的他会很乐意分享</s>
<time>476_00:14:03,968 --> 00:14:04,385</time>
<s>就像大部分</s>
<time>477_00:14:04,594 --> 00:14:05,845</time>
<s>家长可能会比较容易</s>
<time>478_00:14:06,054 --> 00:14:06,888</time>
<s>打击到自己的小孩</s>
<time>479_00:14:07,096 --> 00:14:08,973</time>
<s>我以前摔倒了我回家都不敢跟我妈说</s>
<time>480_00:14:09,182 --> 00:14:10,641</time>
<s>我也是就我觉得大部分人</s>
<time>481_00:14:10,850 --> 00:14:11,267</time>
<s>很多人都是</s>
<time>482_00:14:11,476 --> 00:14:13,770</time>
<s>因为可能就是以前的那种教育模式</s>
<time>483_00:14:13,978 --> 00:14:15,438</time>
<s>就是大家就会觉得</s>
<time>484_00:14:15,646 --> 00:14:17,106</time>
<s>你如果你去出去摔倒了</s>
<time>485_00:14:17,315 --> 00:14:19,400</time>
<s>可能家长会觉得哎你又跑去哪里玩了</s>
<time>486_00:14:19,609 --> 00:14:21,277</time>
<s>或者是你没用怎么会摔倒啊</s>
<time>487_00:14:21,486 --> 00:14:22,528</time>
<s>要么就说你去哪里玩了</s>
<time>488_00:14:22,737 --> 00:14:24,197</time>
<s>又没有好好的去读书</s>
<time>489_00:14:24,405 --> 00:14:25,031</time>
<s>你为什么要出去玩</s>
<time>490_00:14:25,239 --> 00:14:25,656</time>
<s>就可能是这种</s>
<time>491_00:14:25,865 --> 00:14:27,950</time>
<s>更多的不是先关心当下那个点</s>
<time>492_00:14:28,159 --> 00:14:29,827</time>
<s>你摔倒了你腿痛不痛</s>
<time>493_00:14:30,036 --> 00:14:32,330</time>
<s>对的是的所以说我觉得呀（先把你骂一顿）</s>
<time>494_00:14:32,538 --> 00:14:34,624</time>
<s>所以说很多时候就是大家就不敢跟父母说</s>
<time>495_00:14:34,832 --> 00:14:36,292</time>
<s>老了之后他没有觉着啊</s>
<time>496_00:14:36,501 --> 00:14:37,752</time>
<s>小孩子不跟我说</s>
<time>497_00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,837</time>
<s>就其实真的不是我们不愿意说</s>
<time>498_00:14:40,046 --> 00:14:42,548</time>
<s>亲爱的爸爸妈妈说不出啊</s>
<time>499_00:14:42,757 --> 00:14:43,591</time>
<s>我跟我妈说过很多次</s>
<time>500_00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:45,885</time>
<s>我说你打电话不要跟我提两件事情</s>
<time>501_00:14:46,094 --> 00:14:47,345</time>
<s>我就会很乐意跟你说话</s>
<time>502_00:14:47,553 --> 00:14:47,970</time>
<s>但是没有办法</s>
<time>503_00:14:48,179 --> 00:14:49,847</time>
<s>她每次打电话过来都是那两件事</s>
<time>504_00:14:50,056 --> 00:14:51,933</time>
<s>一个是催婚一个是让我回家</s>
<time>505_00:14:52,141 --> 00:14:53,392</time>
<s>报喜不报忧吧</s>
<time>506_00:14:53,601 --> 00:14:54,227</time>
<s>咱们现在都是</s>
<time>507_00:14:54,435 --> 00:14:57,563</time>
<s>那可不我中了30我都跟她说呢我也没有报忧啊</s>
<time>508_00:14:57,772 --> 00:14:59,649</time>
<s>因为现在就是而且特别在外地的</s>
<time>509_00:14:59,857 --> 00:15:01,109</time>
<s>就是大家也会理解</s>
<time>510_00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:02,568</time>
<s>就是不是在同个城市</s>
<time>511_00:15:02,777 --> 00:15:03,820</time>
<s>就是特别父母这样</s>
<time>512_00:15:04,028 --> 00:15:04,654</time>
<s>打电话过来的时候</s>
<time>513_00:15:04,862 --> 00:15:05,696</time>
<s>都会不会跟他们说</s>
<time>514_00:15:05,905 --> 00:15:07,782</time>
<s>你最近生活遇到什么不开心的事情</s>
<time>515_00:15:07,990 --> 00:15:09,659</time>
<s>肯定在那说啊我很好这那的这</s>
<time>516_00:15:10,076 --> 00:15:14,247</time>
<s>我觉得报喜不报忧是就是很中国子女的一个传统</s>
<time>517_00:15:14,455 --> 00:15:16,958</time>
<s>但是我还蛮美慕能报忧的人</s>
<time>518_00:15:17,375 --> 00:15:19,669</time>
<s>就是对他们就是可以大胆的说出</s>
<time>519_00:15:19,877 --> 00:15:22,171</time>
<s>因为他们有这个可以说出来这个勇气</s>
<time>520_00:15:22,380 --> 00:15:23,422</time>
<s>已经他们可以说出来的</s>
<time>521_00:15:23,631 --> 00:15:24,674</time>
<s>这个家庭环境</s>
<time>522_00:15:24,882 --> 00:15:26,551</time>
<s>我觉得非常值得令人美慕的</s>
<time>523_00:15:26,759 --> 00:15:29,053</time>
<s>就是他觉得就是父母是能帮到他的</s>
<time>524_00:15:29,262 --> 00:15:29,679</time>
<s>我们不说</s>
<time>525_00:15:29,887 --> 00:15:31,347</time>
<s>不是说觉得说父母帮不到我们</s>
<time>526_00:15:31,556 --> 00:15:33,224</time>
<s>是我们不敢不想打扰父母</s>
<time>527_00:15:33,432 --> 00:15:35,101</time>
<s>就是也不想父母这么麻烦</s>
<time>528_00:15:35,309 --> 00:15:37,186</time>
<s>因为我们知道我们是一定会帮我们</s>
<time>529_00:15:37,395 --> 00:15:39,272</time>
<s>但是就是觉得我有点亏欠</s>
<time>530_00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,774</time>
<s>因为以前虽然说是没养成这种习惯</s>
<time>531_00:15:41,983 --> 00:15:42,400</time>
<s>你知道吗</s>
<time>532_00:15:42,608 --> 00:15:43,442</time>
<s>真的不愿意分享</s>
<time>533_00:15:43,651 --> 00:15:44,902</time>
<s>我爸以前老打我骂我</s>
<time>534_00:15:45,111 --> 00:15:47,196</time>
<s>真的烦就现在我什么都不跟他说</s>
<time>535_00:15:47,405 --> 00:15:48,865</time>
<s>因为你知道吗我爸也是那种人</s>
<time>536_00:15:49,073 --> 00:15:51,159</time>
<s>我爸也什么都不跟我家里说的</s>
<time>537_00:15:51,367 --> 00:15:53,244</time>
<s>比如说我爸就是那种做什么大决定啊</s>
<time>538_00:15:53,452 --> 00:15:54,495</time>
<s>m一个房子啊</s>
<time>539_00:15:54,704 --> 00:15:56,581</time>
<s>或者说这那的换一个什么车呀</s>
<time>540_00:15:56,789 --> 00:15:58,249</time>
<s>他也不会跟我和我妈商量</s>
<time>541_00:15:58,457 --> 00:15:59,083</time>
<s>就他自己做主</s>
<time>542_00:15:59,292 --> 00:16:00,543</time>
<s>你不分享给我我也没有必要分享</s>
<time>543_00:16:00,751 --> 00:16:03,462</time>
<s>对的对就是这什么父母批判大会吗</s>
<time>544_00:16:03,671 --> 00:16:04,297</time>
<s>不是啊不是</s>
<time>545_00:16:04,714 --> 00:16:06,799</time>
<s>就是分享一下嘛朋友之间就是聊一下</s>
<time>546_00:16:07,008 --> 00:16:09,093</time>
<s>因为我想说父母间也会聊小孩子啊</s>
<time>547_00:16:09,302 --> 00:16:10,970</time>
<s>肯定说我家女儿又怎么怎么样啦</s>
<time>548_00:16:11,179 --> 00:16:12,847</time>
<s>那我们小孩子聊天肯定要聊聊父母吗</s>
<time>549_00:16:13,055 --> 00:16:13,890</time>
<s>我妈要跟别人说</s>
<time>550_00:16:14,098 --> 00:16:15,766</time>
<s>一哎我家那个女孩子</s>
<time>551_00:16:15,975 --> 00:16:17,643</time>
<s>跟她介绍相亲对象</s>
<time>552_00:16:17,852 --> 00:16:19,312</time>
<s>她还把我骂一顿对吗</s>
<time>553_00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:20,563</time>
<s>就是我们也没有骂他们</s>
<time>554_00:16:20,771 --> 00:16:22,231</time>
<s>我们也没有说父母说话很难听</s>
<time>555_00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,108</time>
<s>脾气太差了我们就是只是真的是</s>
<time>556_00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:25,776</time>
<s>就是检讨自己的同时</s>
<time>557_00:16:25,985 --> 00:16:27,862</time>
<s>举例一下当代现在的父母这些行为</s>
<time>558_00:16:28,279 --> 00:16:30,990</time>
<s>哪一些会让我们觉得有一些些不舒适</s>
<time>559_00:16:31,407 --> 00:16:32,867</time>
<s>就是家良好的家庭环境</s>
<time>560_00:16:33,075 --> 00:16:35,161</time>
<s>还是能助人走的更远的</s>
<time>561_00:16:35,369 --> 00:16:36,412</time>
<s>我只能这么说</s>
<time>562_00:16:36,621 --> 00:16:37,455</time>
<s>真的素就这样</s>
<time>563_00:16:37,663 --> 00:16:38,915</time>
<s>因为我是一个特别</s>
<time>564_00:16:39,123 --> 00:16:41,626</time>
<s>我跟我父母家庭关系不是特别特别好的</s>
<time>565_00:16:41,834 --> 00:16:44,128</time>
<s>所幸的是我是一个心理非常健康的人</s>
<time>566_00:16:44,337 --> 00:16:45,796</time>
<s>好了这是我们这个月的一个</s>
<time>567_00:16:46,005 --> 00:16:46,839</time>
<s>小小的一个总结</s>
<time>568_00:16:47,048 --> 00:16:48,716</time>
<s>不知道下一个月会发生什么事情</s>
<time>569_00:16:48,925 --> 00:16:49,550</time>
<s>谁也不好说</s>
<time>570_00:16:49,759 --> 00:16:51,636</time>
<s>下个月就是五一出去玩一玩</s>
<time>571_00:16:51,844 --> 00:16:53,721</time>
<s>希望会碰到什么事会带上我吗哈哈</s>
<time>572_00:16:53,930 --> 00:16:56,015</time>
<s>你有q去吗去广西千什么呢</s>
<time>573_00:16:56,224 --> 00:16:58,309</time>
<s>去玩啊主要是陪你见男人就算了吧</s>
<time>574_00:16:58,517 --> 00:16:59,769</time>
<s>见男人是一个目的吧</s>
<time>575_00:16:59,977 --> 00:17:02,271</time>
<s>然后也会去玩一玩anyway</s>
<time>576_00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:04,774</time>
<s>反正我觉得每天都是值得</s>
<time>577_00:17:04,982 --> 00:17:06,025</time>
<s>还是很值得期待的</s>
<time>578_00:17:06,234 --> 00:17:07,693</time>
<s>希望大家生活不要这么丧啊</s>
<time>579_00:17:07,902 --> 00:17:09,362</time>
<s>即使你现在遇到了什么困难啊</s>
<time>580_00:17:09,570 --> 00:17:10,821</time>
<s>虽然说这个y情呢</s>
<time>581_00:17:11,030 --> 00:17:12,490</time>
<s>确实打击了很多人的自信心</s>
<time>582_00:17:12,698 --> 00:17:14,575</time>
<s>就是搞的人就是分崩离析了</s>
<time>583_00:17:14,784 --> 00:17:16,452</time>
<s>然后可能就支离破散披头散发的</s>
<time>584_00:17:16,661 --> 00:17:18,120</time>
<s>我觉得大家都不要丧好吗</s>
<time>585_00:17:18,329 --> 00:17:20,206</time>
<s>真的是乐观一点吧是吧</s>
<time>586_00:17:20,414 --> 00:17:22,708</time>
<s>开心点行吗带我去吃海底捞吧</s>
<time>587_00:17:23,125 --> 00:17:23,542</time>
<s>你答应我的</s>
<time>588_00:17:23,751 --> 00:17:25,836</time>
<s>好了那今天的视频就到这里就结束了</s>
<time>589_00:17:26,045 --> 00:17:26,879</time>
<s>就这样吧拜拜</s>
<time>590_00:17:27,713 --> 00:17:28,130</time>
<s>拜拜再见</s>
