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<s>欢迎大家回来</s>
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<s>这一期的视频呢</s>
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<s>就给大家讲一讲</s>
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<s>我们在这个软件当中</s>
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<s>创造力的使用它之后</s>
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<s>发生的一些很奇妙的事情</s>
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<s>供大家参考</s>
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<s>实用价值</s>
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<s>我最近开始写公众号</s>
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<s>写的也是交友软件上</s>
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<s>发生的一些好玩的故事</s>
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<s>故事从哪来就应该回哪去嘛</s>
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<s>所以我就把这个公众号又放回了我的简介上</s>
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<s>以前可能就是</s>
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<s>石滑（=喜欢）1个</s>
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<s>全部都石滑</s>
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<s>就是因为我希望更多人能看到我的公众号</s>
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<s>我每天大概能固定的增加</s>
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<s>20~30个粉</s>
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<s>哇这对微信公众号来说其实</s>
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<s>算是还蛮大的流量</s>
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<s>因为朱小姐怕人家不关注</s>
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<s>还会跟对方在聊两句</s>
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<s>怕别人觉得自已被利用了</s>
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<s>我还得就是表现一下我的</s>
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<s>学会了学会了</s>
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<s>如果大家想</s>
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<s>搞自己的「自媒体」的话</s>
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<s>一定记得把自己账号放上去</s>
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<s>因为你想象一下交友软件每天</s>
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<s>算法它会</s>
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<s>让你在很多几千个人面前曝光</s>
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<s>其实它就是一个非常好的自然流量</s>
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<s>我自己有划到过别人把它用来做一个</s>
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<s>媒介</s>
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<s>跟这个平台非常强相关的一个产品</s>
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<s>就是女性</s>
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<s>女性情趣用品</s>
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<s>我当时滑到了之后呢</s>
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<s>它介绍特别得有趣</s>
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<s>就让我去关注了他们这个品牌</s>
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<s>他就成功的把交友软件</s>
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<s>变成了一个垂直的推广平台</s>
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<s>嗯</s>
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<s>我有碰到过男生他本身是做衣服的</s>
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<s>他在这个账号上面放他自己做的女装品牌</s>
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<s>这个也是一个很好的固定的引流</s>
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<s>所以你如果自己有在做什么东西</s>
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<s>做什么产品创业的话</s>
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<s>挂在这个社交软件上</s>
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<s>好多会在profile里面写</s>
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<s>找工作的</s>
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<s>反正我是划到很多</s>
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<s>对对对真的超多</s>
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<s>而且不知道为什么</s>
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<s>感觉互联网人更多一点</s>
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<s>失业潮来了</s>
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<s>第二点爱好的拓展</s>
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<s>去年还是前年认识了一个男生</s>
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<s>然后他后来成了我的好朋友</s>
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<s>我们一起去爬山</s>
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<s>然后他就带了一个飞盘</s>
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<s>就此我就入了飞盘的坑</s>
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<s>再通过飞盘认识了一些其他喜欢户外的朋友</s>
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<s>他们带我去攀岩</s>
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<s>然后我也去就是岩馆</s>
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<s>就是日常去攀岩</s>
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<s>甚至说去野外攀岩</s>
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<s>我以前从来没有认为我会</s>
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<s>是一个很运动的人</s>
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<s>但是通过交友软件通过认识这样的人</s>
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<s>带我接触到了我以前不可能会涉及的</s>
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<s>领域和接触到我不可能会去尝试的一些新鲜事物</s>
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<s>我也在交友软件上匹配过很多</s>
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<s>不同行业的人</s>
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<s>拍东西的啦</s>
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<s>做音乐啦</s>
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<s>写东西的之类的</s>
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<s>了解到一些</s>
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<s>自己没有去做过但是感兴趣的事情</s>
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<s>很长一段时间我交友软件的简介写的就是</s>
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<s>告诉我你在城里最喜欢的地儿</s>
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<s>我也会告诉你我的</s>
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<s>我其实就是借此机会</s>
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<s>收集到很多很有趣的地方</s>
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<s>我就会把它11截图</s>
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<s>人脉圈的扩大</s>
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<s>会遇到一些你的日常生活中可能</s>
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<s>没有路径去接触的一些</s>
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<s>可能听上去很酷的一些人</s>
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<s>上过综艺的网红厨师</s>
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<s>开连锁餐厅的餐厅老板</s>
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<s>一帮比较有名气的嘻哈歌手</s>
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<s>哇</s>
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<s>我在真实生活中</s>
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<s>我不可能有这个机会接触到这些人</s>
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<s>你至少可以去划TA</s>
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<s>跟TA进行一些交流</s>
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<s>接触过一些</s>
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<s>那种第一次约会</s>
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<s>就用玛莎拉蒂来接送你的人</s>
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<s>然后他可能是上海某个地区的首富</s>
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<s>这样子的这种角色</s>
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<s>我很好奇这个</s>
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<s>某某区首富最后怎么样了</s>
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<s>最后就礼貌性地吃了几顿饭</s>
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<s>然后就看见他在朋友圈发了一个跟</s>
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<s>一个模特的照片</s>
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<s>就像我这种有稳定工作的人来说</s>
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<s>我附近的这一类人</s>
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<s>是一直环绕就是同一个行业啊</s>
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<s>交友软件是五花八门的</s>
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<s>可以尝试跟不同领域的人不同行业的人去讲话</s>
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<s>你会发现你们思考问题的角度肯定不一样</s>
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<s>然后你们的生活是完全没有重合的</s>
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<s>就是感受一下</s>
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<s>就比如我们一个是广告行业</s>
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<s>一个是互联网</s>
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<s>一个是金融</s>
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<s>就如果我们不用这些交友软件的话</s>
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<s>我们认识的人可能就固定在一个小圈子里面</s>
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<s>这个（交友软件）确实可以打开</s>
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<s>人脉的边界吧</s>
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<s>情绪价值</s>
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<s>就是通过这app可能认识了一帮异性的好朋友</s>
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<s>他们不是说真的就是发展那种浪漫关系</s>
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<s>可能一开始没有太有化学反应</s>
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<s>但是因为彼此都非常真诚在互相沟通交流</s>
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<s>就会一直把这个关系</s>
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<s>断断续续地延续下去</s>
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<s>可能在某一个契机下</s>
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<s>就会加深成更深的一些友谊</s>
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<s>比如说我</s>
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<s>就是通过我的一个匹配对象</s>
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<s>认识了这两位</s>
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<s>yes</s>
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<s>还是遇到过很多我觉得他们讲话非常舒服的人</s>
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<s>那虽然可能末来会随着大家这个</s>
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<s>各自谈恋爱啊</s>
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<s>可能讲话没有当初的时候这么频繁</s>
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<s>至少我觉得在一定程度上</s>
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<s>他还是会很成为我那个阶段</s>
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<s>分享一些喜怒哀乐的话搭子</s>
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<s>我还划到过我的邻居</s>
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<s>发现匹配了之后呢</s>
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<s>都是一些微信运动社群的群群员</s>
<time>158_00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,800</time>
<s>然后就会一起去参加那个社群的</s>
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<s>活动就很方便</s>
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<s>我们三个人如果讲到有情绪价值的这种朋友</s>
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<s>异性朋友的话其实都能跳出来</s>
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<s>一两个两三个在软件上面滑到的人</s>
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<s>也不一定就是滑到了就一定要怎么样</s>
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<s>第五点就是使用软件的过程中</s>
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<s>会让我们更加的了解自己</s>
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<s>你在真实生活中可能没有这么频繁</s>
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<s>的以一种「约会」的形式去接触别人</s>
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<s>那句话怎么说的</s>
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<s>个体是要跟别人去撞</s>
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<s>才会有回响</s>
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<s>你才会大概知道自己</s>
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<s>更了解自己嘛</s>
<time>173_00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,200</time>
<s>比如说我用了一阵子之后</s>
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<s>朋友们会会发现说哎你喜欢的男生</s>
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<s>他们都很像他们哪里哪里像</s>
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<s>我会去琢磨</s>
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<s>哎我为什么喜欢这个类型的人</s>
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<s>他们身上的共同点是什么</s>
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<s>那我为什么喜欢他们这一点</s>
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<s>那是不是说明我羡慕他们这个点我身上没有</s>
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<s>然后我自己可以去填满这一点</s>
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<s>你可以越挖越深然后</s>
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<s>通过看见别人看到自己</s>
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<s>我也是去年在跟一个软件上认识的男孩子</s>
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<s>有非常深入的交流</s>
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<s>我觉得他很喜欢我我也很喜欢他然后最后</s>
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<s>这段事情又</s>
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<s>支离破碎之后</s>
<time>189_00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,000</time>
<s>我因为这件事情去开始找</s>
<time>190_00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:26,400</time>
<s>心理咨询帅</s>
<time>191_00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:28,800</time>
<s>然后也通过这种聊天</s>
<time>192_00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,400</time>
<s>让我更加清楚的看到自己</s>
<time>193_00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,200</time>
<s>在感情上面的一些需求吧</s>
<time>194_00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:34,200</time>
<s>那最后最后呢</s>
<time>195_00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,600</time>
<s>我们用这些软件还是多多少少</s>
<time>196_00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,800</time>
<s>虽说没有谈很久的恋爱</s>
<time>197_00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:42,200</time>
<s>但还是有发展一定程度上的亲密关系</s>
<time>198_00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:43,000</time>
<s>男女之间啊</s>
<time>199_00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:44,600</time>
<s>就是可能会有摸棱两可</s>
<time>200_00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,000</time>
<s>你们可能就是互相喜欢</s>
<time>201_00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:47,000</time>
<s>但是最后又没有这种</s>
<time>202_00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,000</time>
<s>很正式的承诺</s>
<time>203_00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:50,400</time>
<s>这些其实我们都有吧</s>
<time>204_00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,000</time>
<s>事情虽然没有什么结果</s>
<time>205_00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,400</time>
<s>但它也是一种丰富的体验</s>
<time>206_00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:56,600</time>
<s>今天就这样了</s>
<time>207_00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:58,800</time>
<s>祝大家夏天的kpi都早点完成</s>
<time>208_00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:00,200</time>
<s>我们下次再见拜拜</s>
