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<s>今天跟大家聊一聊年龄焦虑的问题</s>
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<s>我跟小羊</s>
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<s>应该是过几个月</s>
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<s>就要到30岁</s>
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<s>而这位小朱</s>
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<s>今年应该是27岁吧</s>
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<s>但据说</s>
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<s>就开始年龄焦虑了</s>
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<s>24岁那一个生日突然开始焦虑</s>
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<s>你会看到各种社交媒体上都会写</s>
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<s>25岁之后的女生就贬值了</s>
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<s>是剩女</s>
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<s>年龄是100岁的话 它就是1/4嘛</s>
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<s>很多人也会跟你说25岁之后呢</s>
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<s>人的身体 会走下坡路</s>
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<s>精力也没以前好</s>
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<s>就是感觉一切都在变糟</s>
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<s>你24岁 你把这些事情叠在一起想啊</s>
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<s>各种排满了的爱好</s>
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<s>各种排满了的爱好</s>
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<s>这个时候你都不用去面对自己</s>
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<s>你真正回到家里</s>
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<s>一关灯</s>
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<s>然后那个东西（焦虑）击中你的时候</s>
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<s>你就突然感觉</s>
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<s>很可怕</s>
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<s>很怕几个月之后</s>
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<s>交友软件上那个数字 跳到三打头</s>
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<s>我对那个场景 我特别特别恐惧</s>
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<s>就是我的名字旁边写着</s>
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<s>因为我爸妈还蛮催婚的</s>
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<s>他们给我的最大的逻辑就是</s>
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<s>即使30岁的你再优秀</s>
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<s>这个社会的普世价值观</s>
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<s>还是觉得年龄是非常重要</s>
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<s>对女性来说</s>
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<s>那将来 就不是你选择别人</s>
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<s>你就是被选择的那个</s>
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<s>我爸妈是在23岁的时候就生了我</s>
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<s>如果你用一个比较土的话说</s>
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<s>人在什么时候</s>
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<s>做什么事</s>
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<s>他们会觉得在这个时候</s>
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<s>就应该把（婚姻）这件事情处理完了</s>
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<s>他们也不觉得这是一件</s>
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<s>涉及到爱情的事情</s>
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<s>他们看到隔壁家小孩怎样</s>
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<s>其实对爸妈来说就是最大刺激</s>
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<s>，L工 u</s>
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<s>生一胎</s>
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<s>工往心丁哪</s>
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<s>但我的思考就是</s>
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<s>我还是走在自己往前走的</s>
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<s>这个正常的这个节奏上面</s>
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<s>你现在走了多少</s>
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<s>我觉得父母可能是你这一生中</s>
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<s>最紧密的那个队友</s>
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<s>当你自己的队友</s>
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<s>赞助商</s>
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<s>对你的期待 你没有办法很快满足的时候</s>
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<s>你不会觉得难受吗</s>
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<s>比如说我的努力就是把他们拉到我这边</s>
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<s>嗯我也是</s>
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<s>Nostos Alg我的秘诀就是</s>
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<s>NosoS A我偷偷趁我妈不注意</s>
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<s>Nostos关注的那种震惊体的号</s>
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<s>NostosAl全都给取关了</s>
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<s>Nosto然后关注了一堆我关注的号</s>
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<s>。</s><s>^，然后呢我们的思想就开始</s>
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<s>SA然后呢我们的思想就开始</s>
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<s>NostosA然后呢我们的思想就开始</s>
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<s>"ost潜移默化地变得非常同步</s>
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<s>潜移默化地变得非常同步</s>
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<s>Nosto潜移默化地变得非常同步</s>
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<s>有时候会发我替她关注的那个公众号的文章发给我</s>
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<s>她以为是自己关注的</s>
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<s>这个好可爱哦</s>
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<s>对然后我们的</s>
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<s>我就感觉虽然她天天也没有说</s>
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<s>在外面在社会里工作</s>
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<s>Nostos去更新自己的思想什么的</s>
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<s>No但是我通过这种方式让她跟我的思想人</s>
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<s>Nostos是某种程度上保持一致的人</s>
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<s>是某种程度上保持一致的</s>
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<s>我已经六年没有正式的谈恋爱</s>
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<s>就没有在正经的一段关系里过所以</s>
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<s>我妈有的时候也会跟我说</s>
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<s>年纪大了还是要正经的找个男朋友</s>
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<s>好好结婚</s>
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<s>我请她吃饭的某一次我认真跟她讲</s>
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<s>我觉得我死的时候是一个人我是不会担心</s>
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<s>但是我如果没有</s>
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<s>比如说写一本书 或者我没有成为</s>
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<s>百万up主的话</s>
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<s>我会真的非常非常难过</s>
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<s>然后我妈看着我的时候</s>
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<s>那眼睛里面 有泪光闪现</s>
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<s>我懂你</s>
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<s>身边的亲朋好友 尤其是像父母那一代</s>
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<s>他们会对你有这样隐隐的期待可能不会明说</s>
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<s>但你从你被包围的媒体环境</s>
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<s>或者说你周遭的同龄人</s>
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<s>大概能感受到这种看不见的压力</s>
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<s>社会时钟」</s>
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<s>恋爱综艺啊</s>
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<s>婚恋综艺</s>
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<s>其实年龄范围 我是觉得越来越低了</s>
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<s>国内国外的 甚至有一些00后</s>
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<s>01年的</s>
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<s>他们都已经开始参加这种婚恋综艺</s>
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<s>媒体 它塑造的一个环境其实还是蛮重要的</s>
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<s>因为</s>
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<s>理想生活方式的范式</s>
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<s>然后很多女性看到</s>
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<s>哎这么年纪小的女孩子都在积极的去恋爱</s>
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<s>我都不知道婚恋综艺有什么</s>
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<s>如果这么多而且大家都这么热衷的话</s>
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<s>其实倡导的一个导向就是</s>
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<s>女性是应该踏入一段关系的</s>
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<s>有一个共识是我们都有的</s>
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<s>在关系里就比单身的人要优越</s>
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<s>是没有高下之分的</s>
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<s>你一个人也可以生活很快乐</s>
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<s>无论你是几岁</s>
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<s>那个欲望都市里有一个截图是</s>
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<s>Miranda在问Carrie</s>
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<s>我们是真的想要</s>
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<s>还是说</s>
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<s>are we programmed to?</s>
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<s>我们是真正的说想要去追寻这个关系</s>
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<s>还是说 是社会或者说整个文化</s>
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<s>给我们编程</s>
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<s>在我们的身体内植入了一个程序</s>
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<s>放下对于亲密关系的执念就在于</s>
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<s>我突然意识到 所有人能陪你的时间</s>
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<s>就是有限的嘛</s>
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<s>不是一劳永逸或者说一锤子定音的东西</s>
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<s>不是说你选一个人你们就一辈子就</s>
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<s>永远幸福生活在一起</s>
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<s>像童话故事里面</s>
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<s>谈恋爱你会分手</s>
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<s>结了婚你会离婚</s>
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<s>有了孩子你也可以一个人</s>
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<s>当一个独身妈妈</s>
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<s>放下这个执念 你可能对于挑选亲密关系上</s>
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<s>就不会那么的去框死自己</s>
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<s>从20出头到现在将近30岁</s>
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<s>你觉得</s>
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<s>喜欢你的男生最多的年份</s>
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<s>是哪一年</s>
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<s>越往后男生越多呢 还是早期多</s>
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<s>现在也开始有比我年纪小的男生喜欢我</s>
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<s>这件事情比我想象的可能要多一点</s>
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<s>大方跟大家承认就是</s>
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<s>20岁出头的时候喜欢我的可能只有一个男生</s>
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<s>就是我前男友</s>
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<s>但确实是越往后 好像喜欢我的男生会越来越多</s>
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<s>因为年轻的时候你看我这张脸</s>
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<s>也没有什么胜算 对不对</s>
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<s>为什么要开始自我pua</s>
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<s>但是越往后 你就发现</s>
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<s>可能那些长得最漂亮的早就进入了婚姻</s>
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<s>市场上剩下来的 然后又很聪明的</s>
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<s>寥寥无几</s>
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<s>因为苹果的那个手机不是会跳一些那个memory出来吗</s>
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<s>因为我手机的照片 是不怎么删</s>
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<s>我看到可能都不是25吧我觉得是更早就是</s>
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<s>2324那个时候的自己</s>
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<s>其实我倒没有觉得 那时候我又比现在阶段的我更好</s>
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<s>我其实没有太多要回到从前的这种想法</s>
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<s>我自己还是更认可现在这阶段的我</s>
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<s>下一个可能</s>
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<s>也是婚恋焦虑 带来的一部分吧</s>
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<s>也可能跟婚恋焦虑无关啊</s>
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<s>它是独立存在的</s>
<time>189_00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:23,800</time>
<s>元 另惡</s>
<time>190_00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:25,000</time>
<s>哪怕是我吧</s>
<time>191_00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:26,000</time>
<s>我看上去这样子的</s>
<time>192_00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:27,400</time>
<s>i这四品又</s>
<time>193_00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,000</time>
<s>但其实我也有外貌焦虑而且是</s>
<time>194_00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,400</time>
<s>随着年纪的增长是很明显</s>
<time>195_00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:33,800</time>
<s>我记得在28岁的时候我第一次</s>
<time>196_00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,600</time>
<s>感觉我的苹果肌</s>
<time>197_00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:36,200</time>
<s>不见了</s>
<time>198_00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:37,800</time>
<s>法令纹也越来越深了</s>
<time>199_00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,400</time>
<s>当时是会有焦虑 然后会开始想寻求一些</s>
<time>200_00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,400</time>
<s>医美手段去补足这件事情</s>
<time>201_00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:44,200</time>
<s>你会有吗</s>
<time>202_00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:45,200</time>
<s>会有啊肯定会有</s>
<time>203_00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:49,000</time>
<s>因为人的这个自然的老化一定是存在的嘛</s>
<time>204_00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,600</time>
<s>坐在这边的三位 其实都是有健身习惯的</s>
<time>205_00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:53,800</time>
<s>我不知道大家有没有</s>
<time>206_00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,200</time>
<s>还是非常建议大家可以在自己工作之后啊</s>
<time>207_00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,600</time>
<s>甚至在读书的时候开始培养这个习惯</s>
<time>208_00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,800</time>
<s>我差不多是从大学毕业之后</s>
<time>209_00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,800</time>
<s>也就是六年前开始工作的时候开始接触一些</s>
<time>210_00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,600</time>
<s>最早就是一些跑步啊</s>
<time>211_00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:12,400</time>
<s>也会有稳定的健身房 包括像举铁啊有氧啊</s>
<time>212_00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:16,200</time>
<s>一定程度上还是对你的身体代谢啊 抗御疾病的能力</s>
<time>213_00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:17,000</time>
<s>都会有提升</s>
<time>214_00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,800</time>
<s>可以非常好的缓冲</s>
<time>215_00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:20,000</time>
<s>身材焦虑的</s>
<time>216_00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,800</time>
<s>（运动是为了健康不是追求瘦）</s>
<time>217_00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:25,400</time>
<s>因为女的到30</s>
<time>218_00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:26,600</time>
<s>要处理的事情很多</s>
<time>219_00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:27,600</time>
<s>你有时候就觉得</s>
<time>220_00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:28,800</time>
<s>真的很麻烦</s>
<time>221_00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,400</time>
<s>一个能让我脑子很清醒的方式</s>
<time>222_00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:32,600</time>
<s>就是去运动</s>
<time>223_00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:34,200</time>
<s>骑45分钟车之后</s>
<time>224_00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,200</time>
<s>感觉接下来你可以</s>
<time>225_00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:37,000</time>
<s>写两篇文章</s>
<time>226_00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:37,800</time>
<s>拍两个视频</s>
<time>227_00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,000</time>
<s>真的 我们都超爱骑车</s>
<time>228_00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,800</time>
<s>我觉得 这所有的什么医美什么玩意我都不信</s>
<time>229_00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:43,600</time>
<s>然后我天天用的就是凡士林</s>
<time>230_00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,800</time>
<s>我没有任何贵的化妆品和护肤品</s>
<time>231_00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,000</time>
<s>我天天都是用凡士林</s>
<time>232_00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:50,400</time>
<s>……</s>
<time>233_00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,600</time>
<s>25岁还有26岁有一天我在那</s>
<time>234_00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,400</time>
<s>抹面霜的时候</s>
<time>235_00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,400</time>
<s>我就在对着镜子在思考我这个行为</s>
<time>236_00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,400</time>
<s>这个抹脸的这个行为 是在</s>
<time>237_00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,800</time>
<s>向资本主义低头 还是在向容貌焦虑低头</s>
<time>238_00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:08,200</time>
<s>资本主义制造了容貌焦虑</s>
<time>239_00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,600</time>
<s>基本上 我还是在想资本主义低头</s>
<time>240_00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,600</time>
<s>但你刚刚提的问题是一个很好的点</s>
<time>241_00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:16,200</time>
<s>当时看一些女性主义理论吧</s>
<time>242_00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,400</time>
<s>女性主义在可能六七十年代 就往前进了一大步嘛</s>
<time>243_00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:21,800</time>
<s>但是学者觉得进入21世纪之后</s>
<time>244_00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:23,000</time>
<s>女性主义最大的威胁</s>
<time>245_00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:24,000</time>
<s>就是消费主义</s>
<time>246_00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,800</time>
<s>消费主义一直在侵蚀</s>
<time>247_00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:30,200</time>
<s>可能几十年前 女性主义运动的成果</s>
<time>248_00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,800</time>
<s>我们又把自己套到另外一个东西里面去（被奴役）</s>
<time>249_00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:37,600</time>
<s>你所有想要的东西 你的欲望你想过的生活方式</s>
<time>250_00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:38,800</time>
<s>全都是被构建出来的</s>
<time>251_00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:40,000</time>
<s>你以为你想要那些东西</s>
<time>252_00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:41,000</time>
<s>但只是说</s>
<time>253_00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,000</time>
<s>铺天盖地的这种广告内容</s>
<time>254_00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,400</time>
<s>博主的……</s>
<time>255_00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:45,600</time>
<s>生活方式什么的</s>
<time>256_00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,600</time>
<s>你看到的这些 你以为这就是理想的生活</s>
<time>257_00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,600</time>
<s>但其实你自己真正喜欢的是什么样的生活方式</s>
<time>258_00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:52,400</time>
<s>你要去问问你自己</s>
<time>259_00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,800</time>
<s>而不是说 我买什么就代表了某一种生活方式</s>
<time>260_00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,400</time>
<s>就代表了我成为了我理想中的人</s>
<time>261_00:08:58,400 --> 00:08:59,000</time>
<s>不是这样子的</s>
<time>262_00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,200</time>
<s>我从事广告行业从事了4/5年也没有很多</s>
<time>263_00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:03,600</time>
<s>ostoS A 但我就是在这个过程中</s>
<time>264_00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:05,200</time>
<s>变得非常的愤世嫉俗</s>
<time>265_00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:06,400</time>
<s>NostosAlg很讨厌消费主义</s>
<time>266_00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,800</time>
<s>Nns0OS很讨厌被过度包装的那些商品</s>
<time>267_00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:09,800</time>
<s>他其实和</s>
<time>268_00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,600</time>
<s>我的这种年龄焦虑没有直接的关系</s>
<time>269_00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,400</time>
<s>但其实我们现在一聊 会发现它是有</s>
<time>270_00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,000</time>
<s>非常直接的关联的</s>
<time>271_00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:18,800</time>
<s>可能大概率就是</s>
<time>272_00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,200</time>
<s>它塑造了以前认为的那种理想生活</s>
<time>273_00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:24,000</time>
<s>理想的自己的形象</s>
<time>274_00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,200</time>
<s>但其实</s>
<time>275_00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:26,400</time>
<s>它凭什么说了算呢</s>
<time>276_00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,800</time>
<s>我们作为广告行业 就天天要研究他们这一代消费者</s>
<time>277_00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:30,600</time>
<s>什么GenZ</s>
<time>278_00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:32,800</time>
<s>在广告业看来为什么他们会</s>
<time>279_00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:34,600</time>
<s>glorify</s>
<time>280_00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:35,200</time>
<s>中文怎么说</s>
<time>281_00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:36,600</time>
<s>美化对对</s>
<time>282_00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:40,400</time>
<s>把这个年轻一代捧上神坛</s>
<time>283_00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:40,800</time>
<s>为什么</s>
<time>284_00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,000</time>
<s>因为他们是</s>
<time>285_00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,000</time>
<s>最好割的韭菜</s>
<time>286_00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:47,000</time>
<s>这才是他们被研究的 最终的商业目的</s>
<time>287_00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:48,800</time>
<s>但是可能对行业里的人来说</s>
<time>288_00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:49,800</time>
<s>确实会引起一些</s>
<time>289_00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:50,400</time>
<s>年龄焦虑</s>
<time>290_00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:53,600</time>
<s>我27岁的时候就很紧张</s>
<time>291_00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:55,200</time>
<s>但是也是这种紧张</s>
<time>292_00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:57,600</time>
<s>促使了我开始想要做视频</s>
<time>293_00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:01,000</time>
<s>你感觉我可以成为任何人我可以做任何事</s>
<time>294_00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:02,600</time>
<s>我的前程一望无际</s>
<time>295_00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:03,400</time>
<s>但其实你</s>
<time>296_00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:05,600</time>
<s>步入社会几年之后你会发现</s>
<time>297_00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,200</time>
<s>我就是一个普通人啊</s>
<time>298_00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,400</time>
<s>最实际的落的小点上</s>
<time>299_00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,400</time>
<s>就是在于赚多少钱</s>
