<time>1_00:00:38,894 --> 00:00:41,036</time>
<s>李老师这个您来了</s>
<time>2_00:00:41,396 --> 00:00:42,836</time>
<s>这个我们就得为女孩的安全</s>
<time>3_00:00:43,196 --> 00:00:43,556</time>
<s>操操心了</s>
<time>4_00:00:45,356 --> 00:00:45,716</time>
<s>不是是我先问您一个问</s>
<time>5_00:00:46,076 --> 00:00:47,156</time>
<s>我先问您一个问题</s>
<time>6_00:00:47,516 --> 00:00:49,316</time>
<s>那天我在网上看见一个标题</s>
<time>7_00:00:50,393 --> 00:00:52,193</time>
<s>您主张当代青年女性</s>
<time>8_00:00:52,553 --> 00:00:53,633</time>
<s>学女子防身术吗</s>
<time>9_00:00:53,993 --> 00:00:54,353</time>
<s>当然了</s>
<time>10_00:00:54,713 --> 00:00:56,873</time>
<s>我认为是成长过程当中</s>
<time>11_00:00:57,233 --> 00:00:59,033</time>
<s>我在上大学大一的时候</s>
<time>12_00:00:59,393 --> 00:01:00,462</time>
<s>那时候走读</s>
<time>13_00:01:00,822 --> 00:01:01,182</time>
<s>您身上有两下子</s>
<time>14_00:01:01,542 --> 00:01:02,262</time>
<s>我父亲就教我</s>
<time>15_00:01:03,702 --> 00:01:04,422</time>
<s>他就教了我几招</s>
<time>16_00:01:05,502 --> 00:01:06,222</time>
<s>然后比如说如果人家</s>
<time>17_00:01:06,582 --> 00:01:08,382</time>
<s>从后边楼住你脖子你怎么办</s>
<time>18_00:01:08,742 --> 00:01:09,462</time>
<s>怎么办</s>
<time>19_00:01:09,822 --> 00:01:10,524</time>
<s>踏后脚尖</s>
<time>20_00:01:11,964 --> 00:01:12,684</time>
<s>啪踏一下</s>
<time>21_00:01:13,044 --> 00:01:14,484</time>
<s>踩完以后然后往下一</s>
<time>22_00:01:14,844 --> 00:01:15,204</time>
<s>让我往下奠</s>
<time>23_00:01:15,564 --> 00:01:15,924</time>
<s>奠的时候</s>
<time>24_00:01:16,284 --> 00:01:17,364</time>
<s>他因为手不是这样楼的吗</s>
<time>25_00:01:17,724 --> 00:01:18,804</time>
<s>这都是我父亲教我的</s>
<time>26_00:01:19,164 --> 00:01:19,524</time>
<s>他说如果有人</s>
<time>27_00:01:19,884 --> 00:01:20,961</time>
<s>突然从后边楼住你了</s>
<time>28_00:01:21,321 --> 00:01:22,041</time>
<s>你先不要和他什么</s>
<time>29_00:01:22,401 --> 00:01:22,761</time>
<s>顺着他</s>
<time>30_00:01:23,481 --> 00:01:24,201</time>
<s>然后你趁他不注意的时候</s>
<time>31_00:01:24,561 --> 00:01:25,281</time>
<s>猛踏他后脚尖</s>
<time>32_00:01:26,361 --> 00:01:26,721</time>
<s>一脚跟儿</s>
<time>33_00:01:27,081 --> 00:01:28,161</time>
<s>您父亲是教擒拿格斗的</s>
<time>34_00:01:28,521 --> 00:01:28,881</time>
<s>没有</s>
<time>35_00:01:29,241 --> 00:01:30,670</time>
<s>我父亲就属于爱女吧</s>
<time>36_00:01:31,750 --> 00:01:33,190</time>
<s>爱女心切</s>
<time>37_00:01:33,550 --> 00:01:33,910</time>
<s>对</s>
<time>38_00:01:34,270 --> 00:01:35,710</time>
<s>他是很小就会教我很多</s>
<time>39_00:01:36,070 --> 00:01:37,870</time>
<s>我记得最早他教我书法</s>
<time>40_00:01:38,230 --> 00:01:38,950</time>
<s>等我稍微大一点</s>
<time>41_00:01:39,310 --> 00:01:39,670</time>
<s>他就教我一些</s>
<time>42_00:01:40,030 --> 00:01:42,531</time>
<s>比如说这个夜里头出去</s>
<time>43_00:01:42,891 --> 00:01:43,251</time>
<s>我记得我最小的时候</s>
<time>44_00:01:43,611 --> 00:01:45,411</time>
<s>五年级十岁吧</s>
<time>45_00:01:45,771 --> 00:01:46,131</time>
<s>去看那个</s>
<time>46_00:01:46,491 --> 00:01:47,211</time>
<s>到天坛剧场</s>
<time>47_00:01:47,571 --> 00:01:49,731</time>
<s>看那个《红色娘子军》</s>
<time>48_00:01:50,808 --> 00:01:51,888</time>
<s>一个人去的</s>
<time>49_00:01:52,248 --> 00:01:54,048</time>
<s>然后回来就最后一班车了</s>
<time>50_00:01:54,408 --> 00:01:55,128</time>
<s>我记得我到</s>
<time>51_00:01:55,488 --> 00:01:55,848</time>
<s>快到家门口的时候</s>
<time>52_00:01:56,208 --> 00:01:58,008</time>
<s>我父亲正在那儿跟我母亲吼</s>
<time>53_00:01:58,728 --> 00:01:59,808</time>
<s>你让她一个人出去</s>
<time>54_00:02:01,957 --> 00:02:02,317</time>
<s>你说这真是</s>
<time>55_00:02:02,677 --> 00:02:04,117</time>
<s>然后我母亲就好像很随意</s>
<time>56_00:02:04,477 --> 00:02:05,917</time>
<s>但是我父亲就特别在意</s>
<time>57_00:02:06,277 --> 00:02:06,997</time>
<s>我跟你说父亲真不一样</s>
<time>58_00:02:07,357 --> 00:02:07,717</time>
<s>对</s>
<time>59_00:02:08,077 --> 00:02:08,797</time>
<s>那天我们一起吃饭</s>
<time>60_00:02:09,157 --> 00:02:10,237</time>
<s>我就发现这个爹</s>
<time>61_00:02:10,597 --> 00:02:11,658</time>
<s>就跟我一个岁数的</s>
<time>62_00:02:12,018 --> 00:02:14,178</time>
<s>女儿大概是十六七岁</s>
<time>63_00:02:14,538 --> 00:02:15,978</time>
<s>说有个男同学约她</s>
<time>64_00:02:16,338 --> 00:02:17,778</time>
<s>我算是亲眼见着了</s>
<time>65_00:02:18,138 --> 00:02:19,938</time>
<s>就是说一顿饭没吃好</s>
<time>66_00:02:20,298 --> 00:02:21,734</time>
<s>就是说咱们快点吃完吧</s>
<time>67_00:02:22,094 --> 00:02:22,814</time>
<s>我去接她</s>
<time>68_00:02:23,174 --> 00:02:24,974</time>
<s>然后一般当妈的我发现</s>
<time>69_00:02:25,334 --> 00:02:26,774</time>
<s>对女儿倒是挺无所谓</s>
<time>70_00:02:27,134 --> 00:02:28,214</time>
<s>说你管她干什么</s>
<time>71_00:02:28,574 --> 00:02:30,374</time>
<s>她同学去玩没有事的</s>
<time>72_00:02:30,734 --> 00:02:31,083</time>
<s>他说那谁说</s>
<time>73_00:02:31,443 --> 00:02:32,523</time>
<s>我看那男的就不像好东西</s>
<time>74_00:02:33,603 --> 00:02:35,403</time>
<s>这会儿看谁都不是好东西</s>
<time>75_00:02:37,203 --> 00:02:37,923</time>
<s>其实要说真的</s>
<time>76_00:02:38,283 --> 00:02:39,003</time>
<s>女的要跟男的打</s>
<time>77_00:02:39,363 --> 00:02:40,443</time>
<s>是一般肯定打不过的</s>
<time>78_00:02:40,803 --> 00:02:41,864</time>
<s>对啊您教这个</s>
<time>79_00:02:42,224 --> 00:02:43,664</time>
<s>你会不会更加助长了万徒</s>
<time>80_00:02:44,744 --> 00:02:45,464</time>
<s>但是你一定要学会</s>
<time>81_00:02:45,824 --> 00:02:47,264</time>
<s>就是怎么样想办法脱身</s>
<time>82_00:02:48,704 --> 00:02:50,864</time>
<s>对就是你当时不要跟他挣</s>
<time>83_00:02:51,220 --> 00:02:52,300</time>
<s>假如你当时被控制住</s>
<time>84_00:02:52,660 --> 00:02:54,460</time>
<s>你当时不要跟他挣顺着他</s>
<time>85_00:02:54,820 --> 00:02:55,900</time>
<s>然后你如果找机会</s>
<time>86_00:02:56,260 --> 00:02:57,340</time>
<s>比如说走到一个地方</s>
<time>87_00:02:57,700 --> 00:02:59,140</time>
<s>有跑的那种可能</s>
<time>88_00:02:59,500 --> 00:03:00,940</time>
<s>或者周边就有人</s>
<time>89_00:03:01,289 --> 00:03:03,089</time>
<s>那这种情况下你要突然地</s>
<time>90_00:03:03,449 --> 00:03:04,889</time>
<s>出现一个自我保护性的能力</s>
<time>91_00:03:05,249 --> 00:03:06,329</time>
<s>这个能力那比如说</s>
<time>92_00:03:08,129 --> 00:03:08,489</time>
<s>他就提出了</s>
<time>93_00:03:08,849 --> 00:03:10,289</time>
<s>包括什么踢裆什么这些</s>
<time>94_00:03:10,649 --> 00:03:12,070</time>
<s>王教授教的是踢裆</s>
<time>95_00:03:12,790 --> 00:03:13,510</time>
<s>您爹教的是踏脚尖</s>
<time>96_00:03:13,870 --> 00:03:14,950</time>
<s>对因为你是背面嘛</s>
<time>97_00:03:15,310 --> 00:03:16,390</time>
<s>一般袭击都是背面嘛</s>
<time>98_00:03:16,750 --> 00:03:17,470</time>
<s>他袭击一旦是</s>
<time>99_00:03:17,830 --> 00:03:18,550</time>
<s>一楼住你的脖子</s>
<time>100_00:03:18,910 --> 00:03:20,350</time>
<s>啪就拉住你</s>
<time>101_00:03:20,710 --> 00:03:21,786</time>
<s>一会儿你就会昏迷的</s>
<time>102_00:03:22,866 --> 00:03:23,226</time>
<s>裸绞</s>
<time>103_00:03:23,946 --> 00:03:25,026</time>
<s>所以在这种情况下</s>
<time>104_00:03:25,386 --> 00:03:26,466</time>
<s>女的最好不要强烈反抗</s>
<time>105_00:03:26,826 --> 00:03:27,546</time>
<s>越反抗他勒越紧</s>
<time>106_00:03:29,346 --> 00:03:31,146</time>
<s>但是你要学会抓住时机</s>
<time>107_00:03:31,494 --> 00:03:32,214</time>
<s>想办法挣脱</s>
<time>108_00:03:32,574 --> 00:03:33,654</time>
<s>方舟你得学学这个</s>
<time>109_00:03:34,014 --> 00:03:35,814</time>
<s>但是你知道我最近</s>
<time>110_00:03:36,174 --> 00:03:36,894</time>
<s>我妈反正让我别学</s>
<time>111_00:03:37,254 --> 00:03:37,614</time>
<s>别相信这个</s>
<time>112_00:03:37,974 --> 00:03:40,134</time>
<s>因为最近不是有好多这种</s>
<time>113_00:03:40,494 --> 00:03:41,214</time>
<s>女生被害的</s>
<time>114_00:03:41,555 --> 00:03:42,995</time>
<s>然后我就说我也要学</s>
<time>115_00:03:43,355 --> 00:03:44,075</time>
<s>然后女子防身</s>
<time>116_00:03:44,435 --> 00:03:45,155</time>
<s>我妈说一个呢</s>
<time>117_00:03:45,515 --> 00:03:46,955</time>
<s>它不一定会有用</s>
<time>118_00:03:47,315 --> 00:03:49,475</time>
<s>就是因为就是之前流传的一个</s>
<time>119_00:03:49,835 --> 00:03:51,275</time>
<s>就是那女生在路上走</s>
<time>120_00:03:51,631 --> 00:03:54,511</time>
<s>那男生一掌下去一拳下去</s>
<time>121_00:03:54,871 --> 00:03:56,311</time>
<s>那女的当时就不行了你知道</s>
<time>122_00:03:56,671 --> 00:03:58,471</time>
<s>就她根本没有一个反应时间</s>
<time>123_00:03:58,831 --> 00:03:59,551</time>
<s>然后第二呢</s>
<time>124_00:03:59,911 --> 00:04:00,991</time>
<s>她是说你收藏了</s>
<time>125_00:04:01,351 --> 00:04:02,419</time>
<s>说你看了跟你会</s>
<time>126_00:04:02,779 --> 00:04:03,499</time>
<s>它是两回事</s>
<time>127_00:04:03,859 --> 00:04:04,579</time>
<s>因为你需要一个</s>
<time>128_00:04:04,939 --> 00:04:06,019</time>
<s>肌肉的一个反应</s>
<time>129_00:04:06,379 --> 00:04:07,099</time>
<s>你得长期练</s>
<time>130_00:04:07,459 --> 00:04:08,539</time>
<s>或者你总是需要</s>
<time>131_00:04:08,899 --> 00:04:09,979</time>
<s>你就把这个反应时间缩短</s>
<time>132_00:04:10,339 --> 00:04:11,059</time>
<s>你觉得你看了</s>
<time>133_00:04:11,419 --> 00:04:11,760</time>
<s>好像你当时记得</s>
<time>134_00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,560</time>
<s>先怎么样再踢裆</s>
<time>135_00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:15,000</time>
<s>你到时候根本使不出来</s>
<time>136_00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:16,080</time>
<s>你知道最近我的</s>
<time>137_00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,240</time>
<s>就是同龄的有些人</s>
<time>138_00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:19,320</time>
<s>就是到了什么呢</s>
<time>139_00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,195</time>
<s>小孩要到外国留学</s>
<time>140_00:04:22,555 --> 00:04:23,635</time>
<s>这个就是担心</s>
<time>141_00:04:23,995 --> 00:04:25,435</time>
<s>就是女儿啊</s>
<time>142_00:04:25,795 --> 00:04:28,675</time>
<s>就是说从租房子就开始</s>
<time>143_00:04:29,035 --> 00:04:31,555</time>
<s>就是说西方那也不安全对吧</s>
<time>144_00:04:31,903 --> 00:04:33,703</time>
<s>就是所以说这个就是</s>
<time>145_00:04:34,063 --> 00:04:34,783</time>
<s>很不幸的事情</s>
<time>146_00:04:35,143 --> 00:04:36,583</time>
<s>您当年咱们做节目这个事情</s>
<time>147_00:04:36,943 --> 00:04:38,743</time>
<s>两年前刚案发的时候</s>
<time>148_00:04:39,103 --> 00:04:39,823</time>
<s>我记得您就讲过</s>
<time>149_00:04:40,183 --> 00:04:40,543</time>
<s>章莹颖</s>
<time>150_00:04:40,903 --> 00:04:41,623</time>
<s>那个就前一阵</s>
<time>151_00:04:41,964 --> 00:04:44,484</time>
<s>这不是美国那个伊利诺斯（伊）州吧</s>
<time>152_00:04:44,844 --> 00:04:45,564</time>
<s>法院判了</s>
<time>153_00:04:45,924 --> 00:04:48,444</time>
<s>陪审团首先裁定罪成</s>
<time>154_00:04:48,804 --> 00:04:50,964</time>
<s>他的辩护律师都认罪了</s>
<time>155_00:04:51,324 --> 00:04:53,119</time>
<s>就是说他是好像是认</s>
<time>156_00:04:53,479 --> 00:04:55,639</time>
<s>他杀了这个章莹颖</s>
<time>157_00:04:55,999 --> 00:04:58,879</time>
<s>但是就是不肯说这个</s>
<time>158_00:04:59,239 --> 00:04:59,599</time>
<s>户体</s>
<time>159_00:04:59,959 --> 00:05:03,187</time>
<s>遗体尸体藏在什么地方</s>
<time>160_00:05:03,547 --> 00:05:04,267</time>
<s>但是咱不说这个吧</s>
<time>161_00:05:04,627 --> 00:05:06,067</time>
<s>就是说担心女儿的</s>
<time>162_00:05:06,427 --> 00:05:07,507</time>
<s>这个真的就是</s>
<time>163_00:05:07,867 --> 00:05:09,667</time>
<s>你看就是租房子</s>
<time>164_00:05:10,027 --> 00:05:10,747</time>
<s>当年章莹颖</s>
<time>165_00:05:11,107 --> 00:05:11,827</time>
<s>就是租房子</s>
<time>166_00:05:12,167 --> 00:05:13,967</time>
<s>上了这个克里斯滕森嘛</s>
<time>167_00:05:14,327 --> 00:05:15,407</time>
<s>上了这个</s>
<time>168_00:05:15,767 --> 00:05:16,127</time>
<s>杀人犯嘛</s>
<time>169_00:05:16,487 --> 00:05:17,207</time>
<s>杀手的这个车</s>
<time>170_00:05:17,567 --> 00:05:17,927</time>
<s>上了车</s>
<time>171_00:05:18,287 --> 00:05:20,807</time>
<s>然后就给你拉到他那儿去</s>
<time>172_00:05:21,167 --> 00:05:22,603</time>
<s>然后就是伤害</s>
<time>173_00:05:23,683 --> 00:05:24,763</time>
<s>那您说这种你</s>
<time>174_00:05:26,563 --> 00:05:28,363</time>
<s>怎么办而且还是白天</s>
<time>175_00:05:28,723 --> 00:05:29,083</time>
<s>你知道</s>
<time>176_00:05:29,443 --> 00:05:30,883</time>
<s>其实我认为是这样的</s>
<time>177_00:05:31,243 --> 00:05:33,030</time>
<s>就是因为我可能干这行的</s>
<time>178_00:05:33,390 --> 00:05:34,470</time>
<s>所以我跟一些人打交道</s>
<time>179_00:05:34,830 --> 00:05:35,550</time>
<s>他们都会说一个问题</s>
<time>180_00:05:35,910 --> 00:05:36,990</time>
<s>就是说感觉你的</s>
<time>181_00:05:37,350 --> 00:05:39,150</time>
<s>这个防范心特别强</s>
<time>182_00:05:39,510 --> 00:05:40,230</time>
<s>那么我想的就是</s>
<time>183_00:05:40,590 --> 00:05:41,310</time>
<s>我在生活当中</s>
<time>184_00:05:41,670 --> 00:05:42,730</time>
<s>比如有时候我在饭店吃饭</s>
<time>185_00:05:43,090 --> 00:05:44,530</time>
<s>我就看人家那个随手把包</s>
<time>186_00:05:44,890 --> 00:05:45,610</time>
<s>放的那个位置</s>
<time>187_00:05:45,970 --> 00:05:46,330</time>
<s>在我心里就想</s>
<time>188_00:05:46,690 --> 00:05:47,410</time>
<s>这个包就很危险</s>
<time>189_00:05:49,210 --> 00:05:49,570</time>
<s>你有这警觉</s>
<time>190_00:05:49,930 --> 00:05:51,730</time>
<s>对有时候我在一个小区随便走</s>
<time>191_00:05:52,090 --> 00:05:53,166</time>
<s>我就在看这个窗户</s>
<time>192_00:05:53,526 --> 00:05:54,966</time>
<s>我大概用几分钟就可以进去</s>
<time>193_00:05:56,406 --> 00:05:57,846</time>
<s>那么就是因为我有这样的</s>
<time>194_00:05:58,206 --> 00:05:59,646</time>
<s>就是我看过很多的实案</s>
<time>195_00:06:00,006 --> 00:06:02,873</time>
<s>所以我经常会有这种叫危机感</s>
<time>196_00:06:03,233 --> 00:06:04,313</time>
<s>那么用这个感呢</s>
<time>197_00:06:04,673 --> 00:06:06,473</time>
<s>再去衡量我身边的很多人</s>
<time>198_00:06:06,833 --> 00:06:07,553</time>
<s>我发现他们没有</s>
<time>199_00:06:08,633 --> 00:06:10,073</time>
<s>就是很多人完全没有一丁点</s>
<time>200_00:06:10,433 --> 00:06:11,513</time>
<s>自我防范的意识</s>
<time>201_00:06:11,873 --> 00:06:12,933</time>
<s>你比如就是说那个夜行</s>
<time>202_00:06:13,293 --> 00:06:14,373</time>
<s>就是说晚上出去</s>
<time>203_00:06:14,733 --> 00:06:15,093</time>
<s>我们有时候</s>
<time>204_00:06:15,453 --> 00:06:16,173</time>
<s>就是迫不得已</s>
<time>205_00:06:16,533 --> 00:06:17,613</time>
<s>只能晚上出去对吧</s>
<time>206_00:06:17,973 --> 00:06:18,333</time>
<s>比如说我飞机</s>
<time>207_00:06:18,693 --> 00:06:20,133</time>
<s>就是后半夜到的那怎么办</s>
<time>208_00:06:20,493 --> 00:06:21,213</time>
<s>像那种情况</s>
<time>209_00:06:21,573 --> 00:06:22,648</time>
<s>就是我们自己应该意识到</s>
<time>210_00:06:23,008 --> 00:06:24,088</time>
<s>就是在这种时候</s>
<time>211_00:06:24,448 --> 00:06:25,168</time>
<s>如果你要遇到点事</s>
<time>212_00:06:25,528 --> 00:06:25,888</time>
<s>你就没机会</s>
<time>213_00:06:27,328 --> 00:06:28,048</time>
<s>所以你要在这个过程当中</s>
<time>214_00:06:28,408 --> 00:06:29,488</time>
<s>比如我完全没有预料到</s>
<time>215_00:06:29,848 --> 00:06:30,568</time>
<s>是后半夜到</s>
<time>216_00:06:30,928 --> 00:06:31,648</time>
<s>但是我现在就是后半夜到了</s>
<time>217_00:06:32,008 --> 00:06:33,795</time>
<s>那我就附近找一饭店先住下</s>
<time>218_00:06:34,875 --> 00:06:35,595</time>
<s>千万不要去走</s>
<time>219_00:06:35,955 --> 00:06:37,035</time>
<s>尤其是进封闭的空间</s>
<time>220_00:06:37,395 --> 00:06:38,475</time>
<s>你比如说上车</s>
<time>221_00:06:38,835 --> 00:06:39,915</time>
<s>因为那司机你是很难预料的</s>
<time>222_00:06:40,995 --> 00:06:41,715</time>
<s>当然有些人就说了</s>
<time>223_00:06:42,075 --> 00:06:42,435</time>
<s>你这个社会</s>
<time>224_00:06:42,775 --> 00:06:43,855</time>
<s>你都什么什么事</s>
<time>225_00:06:44,215 --> 00:06:45,295</time>
<s>让人家自我防范</s>
<time>226_00:06:45,655 --> 00:06:46,375</time>
<s>不是这样的</s>
<time>227_00:06:46,735 --> 00:06:47,815</time>
<s>我跟你讲警察也不可能瞪大眼</s>
<time>228_00:06:48,175 --> 00:06:49,255</time>
<s>老虎还有打盹的时候</s>
<time>229_00:06:49,615 --> 00:06:49,975</time>
<s>你不可能让人警察</s>
<time>230_00:06:50,335 --> 00:06:52,135</time>
<s>全方位地监控社会所有角落</s>
<time>231_00:06:52,495 --> 00:06:53,209</time>
<s>现在是这样</s>
<time>232_00:06:53,569 --> 00:06:54,649</time>
<s>那有些那就在说了</s>
<time>233_00:06:55,009 --> 00:06:56,089</time>
<s>你们把这个责任</s>
<time>234_00:06:56,449 --> 00:06:58,609</time>
<s>你们应该搞好社会治安是吧</s>
<time>235_00:06:58,969 --> 00:07:00,769</time>
<s>而不是说不让我穿着超短裙</s>
<time>236_00:07:01,129 --> 00:07:03,637</time>
<s>凌晨三点一个人打的对吧</s>
<time>237_00:07:03,997 --> 00:07:06,157</time>
<s>但她们的意见咱们予以尊重</s>
<time>238_00:07:06,517 --> 00:07:06,877</time>
<s>但是说</s>
<time>239_00:07:07,237 --> 00:07:10,117</time>
<s>但是就说这事</s>
<time>240_00:07:10,477 --> 00:07:12,277</time>
<s>担心还是担心</s>
<time>241_00:07:12,637 --> 00:07:13,336</time>
<s>这是实实在在的</s>
<time>242_00:07:13,696 --> 00:07:16,936</time>
<s>你比如说像您说的这个一个极端</s>
<time>243_00:07:17,296 --> 00:07:18,016</time>
<s>那现在到另一个极端</s>
<time>244_00:07:18,376 --> 00:07:19,096</time>
<s>我原来做节目时候</s>
<time>245_00:07:19,456 --> 00:07:20,896</time>
<s>我曾经当笑话讲过</s>
<time>246_00:07:21,256 --> 00:07:23,051</time>
<s>说这个台湾有这个“捡尸体”的</s>
<time>247_00:07:23,411 --> 00:07:24,491</time>
<s>你知道什么叫“捡尸体”吗</s>
<time>248_00:07:24,851 --> 00:07:25,931</time>
<s>就是女生喝醉了之后</s>
<time>249_00:07:26,291 --> 00:07:28,451</time>
<s>被男生可能就是施暴嘛</s>
<time>250_00:07:28,811 --> 00:07:30,251</time>
<s>就是趁着喝醉然后就施暴</s>
<time>251_00:07:30,611 --> 00:07:32,411</time>
<s>还而且甚至还变成炫耀</s>
<time>252_00:07:32,771 --> 00:07:33,478</time>
<s>在这朋友圈</s>
<time>253_00:07:33,838 --> 00:07:35,638</time>
<s>我看一男的就扛着</s>
<time>254_00:07:35,998 --> 00:07:36,718</time>
<s>这女的都这样了</s>
<time>255_00:07:37,078 --> 00:07:38,158</time>
<s>扛着就这样</s>
<time>256_00:07:38,518 --> 00:07:40,318</time>
<s>你看我今天晚上捡了四个</s>
<time>257_00:07:40,678 --> 00:07:42,838</time>
<s>这都是犯罪了</s>
<time>258_00:07:43,177 --> 00:07:44,977</time>
<s>可是也都有这个情况</s>
<time>259_00:07:45,337 --> 00:07:48,217</time>
<s>您说那我就挺奇怪的就是说</s>
<time>260_00:07:48,577 --> 00:07:48,937</time>
<s>那这些女孩</s>
<time>261_00:07:49,297 --> 00:07:51,817</time>
<s>就是说如果我要打算算计你</s>
<time>262_00:07:52,177 --> 00:07:52,897</time>
<s>我先把你灌醉</s>
<time>263_00:07:53,251 --> 00:07:55,051</time>
<s>然后我把你这个伤害</s>
<time>264_00:07:55,411 --> 00:07:56,851</time>
<s>那这个就算犯罪了</s>
<time>265_00:07:57,211 --> 00:07:57,931</time>
<s>但是他在路上遇到了</s>
<time>266_00:07:58,291 --> 00:07:59,371</time>
<s>然后这个女的完全不知</s>
<time>267_00:07:59,731 --> 00:08:01,891</time>
<s>当然他这种情况也算侵害</s>
<time>268_00:08:02,251 --> 00:08:02,971</time>
<s>关键是她这个女的</s>
<time>269_00:08:03,318 --> 00:08:04,758</time>
<s>完全没有任何意思的表达</s>
<time>270_00:08:05,118 --> 00:08:06,198</time>
<s>你这个事就很难办</s>
<time>271_00:08:06,558 --> 00:08:08,718</time>
<s>就是说这个喝酒是一种</s>
<time>272_00:08:09,078 --> 00:08:10,878</time>
<s>我跟你说你们女孩</s>
<time>273_00:08:11,238 --> 00:08:12,318</time>
<s>不管到任何场合</s>
<time>274_00:08:12,678 --> 00:08:14,097</time>
<s>喝的东西不要离手</s>
<time>275_00:08:15,177 --> 00:08:16,617</time>
<s>开了盖的不要再喝</s>
<time>276_00:08:16,977 --> 00:08:18,417</time>
<s>你就遵循这个最严格的原则</s>
<time>277_00:08:18,777 --> 00:08:21,297</time>
<s>问题是醒过来之后失去记忆</s>
<time>278_00:08:21,657 --> 00:08:22,737</time>
<s>你都不知道</s>
<time>279_00:08:23,097 --> 00:08:23,451</time>
<s>不知道怎么到这儿的</s>
<time>280_00:08:23,811 --> 00:08:25,971</time>
<s>你醒了你都不知道发生了什么事</s>
<time>281_00:08:26,331 --> 00:08:27,051</time>
<s>方舟你也可以总结总结</s>
<time>282_00:08:27,411 --> 00:08:28,491</time>
<s>我挺不太理解的</s>
<time>283_00:08:28,851 --> 00:08:29,931</time>
<s>可能我上岁数了</s>
<time>284_00:08:30,291 --> 00:08:33,171</time>
<s>她们就喝以前不知道要这样</s>
<time>285_00:08:33,518 --> 00:08:34,598</time>
<s>可能会这样吗</s>
<time>286_00:08:34,958 --> 00:08:36,398</time>
<s>我觉得可能一个是说</s>
<time>287_00:08:36,758 --> 00:08:38,918</time>
<s>这个现在的可能整个的社会风气</s>
<time>288_00:08:39,278 --> 00:08:39,638</time>
<s>包括什么</s>
<time>289_00:08:39,998 --> 00:08:40,718</time>
<s>女生也会觉得</s>
<time>290_00:08:41,078 --> 00:08:41,798</time>
<s>我也可以喝酒</s>
<time>291_00:08:42,158 --> 00:08:42,878</time>
<s>我也可以穿得少</s>
<time>292_00:08:43,238 --> 00:08:44,297</time>
<s>因为我觉得现在</s>
<time>293_00:08:44,657 --> 00:08:46,097</time>
<s>大家都是在煊染种</s>
<time>294_00:08:46,457 --> 00:08:48,617</time>
<s>大家比如说男女都是平等的</s>
<time>295_00:08:48,977 --> 00:08:49,697</time>
<s>然后这个女生</s>
<time>296_00:08:50,057 --> 00:08:51,497</time>
<s>她越表现出活泼的一面</s>
<time>297_00:08:51,857 --> 00:08:53,651</time>
<s>她就越玩得开</s>
<time>298_00:08:54,011 --> 00:08:55,091</time>
<s>然后越受到称赞</s>
<time>299_00:08:55,451 --> 00:08:56,531</time>
<s>所以我觉得一方面可能是</s>
<time>300_00:08:56,891 --> 00:08:57,971</time>
<s>我们对于女性的标准</s>
<time>301_00:08:58,331 --> 00:08:59,051</time>
<s>发生了变化</s>
<time>302_00:08:59,411 --> 00:09:00,491</time>
<s>这些女孩觉得说</s>
<time>303_00:09:00,851 --> 00:09:01,931</time>
<s>好像我们这样也没事</s>
<time>304_00:09:02,291 --> 00:09:03,717</time>
<s>然后另外一方面其实我觉得</s>
<time>305_00:09:04,077 --> 00:09:05,517</time>
<s>原来好多事情可能也发生</s>
<time>306_00:09:05,877 --> 00:09:06,957</time>
<s>但是它没有曝出来</s>
<time>307_00:09:07,317 --> 00:09:08,397</time>
<s>现在是包括监控</s>
<time>308_00:09:08,757 --> 00:09:10,917</time>
<s>包括你说别人拍小视频</s>
<time>309_00:09:11,277 --> 00:09:12,717</time>
<s>就是这种技术手段多了之后</s>
<time>310_00:09:13,077 --> 00:09:14,856</time>
<s>你可能原来是这些</s>
<time>311_00:09:15,216 --> 00:09:16,296</time>
<s>只有女孩说了这事才会曝出来</s>
<time>312_00:09:16,656 --> 00:09:18,816</time>
<s>现在我觉得这事可能早就有了</s>
<time>313_00:09:19,176 --> 00:09:20,256</time>
<s>只是现在技术手段多了</s>
<time>314_00:09:20,616 --> 00:09:21,696</time>
<s>它被爆发得比较多</s>
<time>315_00:09:22,056 --> 00:09:22,776</time>
<s>被曝出来的比较多</s>
<time>316_00:09:23,136 --> 00:09:24,930</time>
<s>尤其现在那个路上的监控</s>
<time>317_00:09:25,650 --> 00:09:26,730</time>
<s>犯罪现象少很多</s>
<time>318_00:09:27,090 --> 00:09:28,170</time>
<s>而且现在基本上破案</s>
<time>319_00:09:28,530 --> 00:09:30,330</time>
<s>都是靠这个摄像</s>
<time>320_00:09:30,690 --> 00:09:31,410</time>
<s>你现在那种所谓</s>
<time>321_00:09:31,770 --> 00:09:32,850</time>
<s>你看到那种“捡户”</s>
<time>322_00:09:33,210 --> 00:09:35,356</time>
<s>都是通过路边那个摄像拍下来的</s>
<time>323_00:09:35,716 --> 00:09:36,436</time>
<s>有的是他自已拍的</s>
<time>324_00:09:36,796 --> 00:09:37,516</time>
<s>我告诉你是这样</s>
<time>325_00:09:38,236 --> 00:09:39,676</time>
<s>就是它主要一个问题是</s>
<time>326_00:09:40,036 --> 00:09:41,116</time>
<s>关于人的一个自制力</s>
<time>327_00:09:41,476 --> 00:09:42,916</time>
<s>你喝不喝酒</s>
<time>328_00:09:43,276 --> 00:09:46,135</time>
<s>酒这个东西全世界都流行喝</s>
<time>329_00:09:46,495 --> 00:09:47,935</time>
<s>尤其社交场合</s>
<time>330_00:09:48,295 --> 00:09:48,655</time>
<s>但是有一点</s>
<time>331_00:09:49,015 --> 00:09:49,375</time>
<s>你看我老说</s>
<time>332_00:09:49,735 --> 00:09:50,455</time>
<s>我是公开说过</s>
<time>333_00:09:50,815 --> 00:09:51,535</time>
<s>我说我平生</s>
<time>334_00:09:51,895 --> 00:09:52,975</time>
<s>我喝酒就没醉过</s>
<time>335_00:09:53,335 --> 00:09:54,408</time>
<s>我为什么不醉</s>
<time>336_00:09:54,768 --> 00:09:55,488</time>
<s>不是我酒力无边</s>
<time>337_00:09:55,848 --> 00:09:56,928</time>
<s>而是我知道什么时候要醉了</s>
<time>338_00:09:57,288 --> 00:09:59,088</time>
<s>我打死我都不能多喝一口</s>
<time>339_00:09:59,448 --> 00:10:01,248</time>
<s>因为这个酒醉与不醉的时候</s>
<time>340_00:10:01,608 --> 00:10:03,048</time>
<s>有很多时候就在一口</s>
<time>341_00:10:03,408 --> 00:10:04,114</time>
<s>就在那一杯</s>
<time>342_00:10:04,474 --> 00:10:05,194</time>
<s>你前面喝多少都没事</s>
<time>343_00:10:06,274 --> 00:10:07,354</time>
<s>当你感觉不行了</s>
<time>344_00:10:07,714 --> 00:10:08,794</time>
<s>当然你对酒性要了解</s>
<time>345_00:10:09,154 --> 00:10:11,314</time>
<s>各种比如烈性酒</s>
<time>346_00:10:11,674 --> 00:10:12,754</time>
<s>自酒威士忌</s>
<time>347_00:10:13,114 --> 00:10:15,973</time>
<s>还有就是这个清酒</s>
<time>348_00:10:16,333 --> 00:10:17,053</time>
<s>清酒这个东西你感觉</s>
<time>349_00:10:17,413 --> 00:10:17,773</time>
<s>劲儿大对</s>
<time>350_00:10:18,133 --> 00:10:18,493</time>
<s>它后劲儿</s>
<time>351_00:10:18,853 --> 00:10:19,573</time>
<s>它很容易</s>
<time>352_00:10:20,293 --> 00:10:21,013</time>
<s>很容易你在</s>
<time>353_00:10:21,373 --> 00:10:23,533</time>
<s>就是你得有提前预知的那个量</s>
<time>354_00:10:23,893 --> 00:10:24,606</time>
<s>如果你觉得不行了</s>
<time>355_00:10:24,966 --> 00:10:26,046</time>
<s>你已经醉了</s>
<time>356_00:10:26,406 --> 00:10:27,846</time>
<s>所以我觉得人要自律</s>
<time>357_00:10:28,206 --> 00:10:29,286</time>
<s>尤其社交场合一定不能喝醉</s>
<time>358_00:10:29,646 --> 00:10:30,366</time>
<s>就是我现在发现</s>
<time>359_00:10:30,726 --> 00:10:31,446</time>
<s>真的是像你说的</s>
<time>360_00:10:31,806 --> 00:10:34,312</time>
<s>有一种新观念下的女性</s>
<time>361_00:10:34,672 --> 00:10:36,472</time>
<s>和这个老观念下的父母</s>
<time>362_00:10:37,912 --> 00:10:38,632</time>
<s>有的时候甚至是</s>
<time>363_00:10:38,992 --> 00:10:40,072</time>
<s>老公或者男朋友</s>
<time>364_00:10:40,432 --> 00:10:42,232</time>
<s>你知道吗这里边很复杂</s>
<time>365_00:10:42,592 --> 00:10:44,730</time>
<s>有的时候这个男的很有占有欲</s>
<time>366_00:10:45,090 --> 00:10:46,530</time>
<s>就是甚至就不喜欢</s>
<time>367_00:10:46,890 --> 00:10:48,330</time>
<s>这个女的出去交朋友</s>
<time>368_00:10:49,050 --> 00:10:49,410</time>
<s>尤其你更说</s>
<time>369_00:10:49,770 --> 00:10:50,850</time>
<s>你比如说谁的女朋友说</s>
<time>370_00:10:51,210 --> 00:10:53,370</time>
<s>我晚上自个儿出去唱K去</s>
<time>371_00:10:53,730 --> 00:10:55,884</time>
<s>男朋友肯定特恼火你知道吗</s>
<time>372_00:10:56,244 --> 00:10:58,044</time>
<s>他有时候容易这样给吵起来</s>
<time>373_00:10:58,404 --> 00:10:59,844</time>
<s>可是从另一方面来说</s>
<time>374_00:11:00,204 --> 00:11:02,364</time>
<s>比如说有些这个父亲就觉得</s>
<time>375_00:11:02,724 --> 00:11:04,509</time>
<s>他觉得的这种不安全</s>
<time>376_00:11:04,869 --> 00:11:07,029</time>
<s>好像有时候跟女儿罩起来就是</s>
<time>377_00:11:07,389 --> 00:11:09,189</time>
<s>我怎么不能去蹦迪去</s>
<time>378_00:11:09,549 --> 00:11:10,989</time>
<s>我怎么不能去那些</s>
<time>379_00:11:11,349 --> 00:11:12,069</time>
<s>去玩的地方</s>
<time>380_00:11:12,429 --> 00:11:14,567</time>
<s>去跟朋友一块喝酒去</s>
<time>381_00:11:14,927 --> 00:11:17,447</time>
<s>按说这是她正常的权利对吗</s>
<time>382_00:11:18,887 --> 00:11:21,407</time>
<s>但是是不是确实潜存着危险</s>
<time>383_00:11:21,767 --> 00:11:22,487</time>
<s>像我上大学的时候</s>
<time>384_00:11:22,847 --> 00:11:23,927</time>
<s>按说都是最好的</s>
<time>385_00:11:24,287 --> 00:11:25,001</time>
<s>最高学府了</s>
<time>386_00:11:25,361 --> 00:11:26,441</time>
<s>那晚上大家也说</s>
<time>387_00:11:26,801 --> 00:11:28,601</time>
<s>我们去三里屯的酒吧</s>
<time>388_00:11:28,961 --> 00:11:30,041</time>
<s>你知道就是因为觉得</s>
<time>389_00:11:30,401 --> 00:11:31,841</time>
<s>就是在那个学生时代</s>
<time>390_00:11:32,201 --> 00:11:33,281</time>
<s>你觉得压抑得特别久</s>
<time>391_00:11:33,641 --> 00:11:35,066</time>
<s>而且这个父母越不让你去</s>
<time>392_00:11:35,426 --> 00:11:36,146</time>
<s>越管得严</s>
<time>393_00:11:36,506 --> 00:11:39,026</time>
<s>你会越会觉得我需要这样</s>
<time>394_00:11:39,386 --> 00:11:41,186</time>
<s>对我越不跟你说的这个反着来</s>
<time>395_00:11:41,546 --> 00:11:44,066</time>
<s>就现在有些女孩就爱泡夜店</s>
<time>396_00:11:44,426 --> 00:11:46,204</time>
<s>你觉得她这是</s>
<time>397_00:11:46,564 --> 00:11:46,924</time>
<s>这也是正常的</s>
<time>398_00:11:47,284 --> 00:11:48,724</time>
<s>我觉得还有一部分女孩</s>
<time>399_00:11:49,084 --> 00:11:50,164</time>
<s>应该是属于被迫的</s>
<time>400_00:11:50,524 --> 00:11:51,964</time>
<s>就是你想现在有很多的孩子吧</s>
<time>401_00:11:52,324 --> 00:11:54,484</time>
<s>她很年轻到大城市来</s>
<time>402_00:11:54,837 --> 00:11:55,917</time>
<s>她特别想立足在这儿</s>
<time>403_00:11:56,277 --> 00:11:56,637</time>
<s>立足在这儿</s>
<time>404_00:11:56,997 --> 00:11:58,077</time>
<s>她找一小公司</s>
<time>405_00:11:58,437 --> 00:11:59,517</time>
<s>可能她所有的命运</s>
<time>406_00:11:59,877 --> 00:12:00,597</time>
<s>都由老板决定</s>
<time>407_00:12:01,677 --> 00:12:02,757</time>
<s>于是老板要给她安排</s>
<time>408_00:12:03,117 --> 00:12:04,197</time>
<s>她是不能不去的</s>
<time>409_00:12:04,557 --> 00:12:04,902</time>
<s>这也是一种情况</s>
<time>410_00:12:05,262 --> 00:12:06,342</time>
<s>还有就是朋友</s>
<time>411_00:12:06,702 --> 00:12:07,062</time>
<s>就是同事安排</s>
<time>412_00:12:07,422 --> 00:12:09,222</time>
<s>你不去那你格格不入</s>
<time>413_00:12:09,582 --> 00:12:10,302</time>
<s>你根本混不下去</s>
<time>414_00:12:10,662 --> 00:12:11,382</time>
<s>你没有朋友资源</s>
<time>415_00:12:11,742 --> 00:12:12,822</time>
<s>你怎么在这个城市待下去</s>
<time>416_00:12:13,182 --> 00:12:14,262</time>
<s>所以我觉得还有一部分女孩</s>
<time>417_00:12:14,622 --> 00:12:15,320</time>
<s>实际上是这样</s>
<time>418_00:12:15,680 --> 00:12:16,760</time>
<s>她迫不得已</s>
<time>419_00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:17,480</time>
<s>迫不得已呢</s>
<time>420_00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:18,200</time>
<s>她也明白</s>
<time>421_00:12:18,560 --> 00:12:20,000</time>
<s>但是到那时候她扛不住</s>
<time>422_00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:21,080</time>
<s>因为有时候灌起酒来</s>
<time>423_00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:22,880</time>
<s>像马爷这样有抵力的</s>
<time>424_00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:24,320</time>
<s>那绝对是明白的</s>
<time>425_00:12:24,680 --> 00:12:25,393</time>
<s>就是咱们喝热了</s>
<time>426_00:12:25,753 --> 00:12:26,113</time>
<s>心里还知道</s>
<time>427_00:12:26,473 --> 00:12:26,833</time>
<s>这差不多了</s>
<time>428_00:12:27,193 --> 00:12:28,273</time>
<s>咱不能再接了对吧</s>
<time>429_00:12:28,633 --> 00:12:30,073</time>
<s>但有些孩子她就没办法</s>
<time>430_00:12:30,433 --> 00:12:31,873</time>
<s>她想不喝老板就往上灌</s>
<time>431_00:12:32,233 --> 00:12:33,673</time>
<s>我觉得几近于犯罪</s>
<time>432_00:12:34,033 --> 00:12:35,458</time>
<s>据我所了解的</s>
<time>433_00:12:35,818 --> 00:12:38,338</time>
<s>他们有的时候会形成一个模式</s>
