<time>1728_00:52:15,353 --> 00:52:18,233</time>
<s>我看完世界看尽繁花</s>
<time>1729_00:52:18,593 --> 00:52:19,313</time>
<s>这样一个状态</s>
<time>1730_00:52:19,673 --> 00:52:22,193</time>
<s>可能还更加可得一些</s>
<time>1731_00:52:22,553 --> 00:52:24,353</time>
<s>所以就是不光要管理</s>
<time>1732_00:52:24,713 --> 00:52:25,073</time>
<s>自己的欲望</s>
<time>1733_00:52:25,433 --> 00:52:27,233</time>
<s>甚至要管理自己的梦想</s>
<time>1734_00:52:27,593 --> 00:52:29,753</time>
<s>因为的确存在一种</s>
<time>1735_00:52:30,113 --> 00:52:31,913</time>
<s>可以说是最高的人类的梦想</s>
<time>1736_00:52:32,273 --> 00:52:34,073</time>
<s>就比如说“文艺复兴人”</s>
<time>1737_00:52:34,433 --> 00:52:36,593</time>
<s>现在有些那种学校</s>
<time>1738_00:52:36,953 --> 00:52:38,033</time>
<s>那种很高级的学校</s>
<time>1739_00:52:38,393 --> 00:52:40,193</time>
<s>提倡的教育也是一个模式</s>
<time>1740_00:52:40,553 --> 00:52:41,633</time>
<s>叫“全人教育”</s>
<time>1741_00:52:41,993 --> 00:52:44,153</time>
<s>那是一种我觉得需要</s>
<time>1742_00:52:44,513 --> 00:52:45,593</time>
<s>支付很多成本的</s>
<time>1743_00:52:45,953 --> 00:52:47,753</time>
<s>一种培养和教育</s>
<time>1744_00:52:48,113 --> 00:52:48,833</time>
<s>他哲学家肯定是</s>
<time>1745_00:52:49,193 --> 00:52:50,993</time>
<s>人性的全面发展对吧</s>
<time>1746_00:52:51,353 --> 00:52:52,073</time>
<s>那是一个最高梦想</s>
<time>1747_00:52:52,433 --> 00:52:54,953</time>
<s>但是每个人因地制宜</s>
<time>1748_00:52:55,313 --> 00:52:56,753</time>
<s>根据你不同的奋斗阶段</s>
<time>1749_00:52:57,113 --> 00:52:58,913</time>
<s>根据你不同的这个情况</s>
<time>1750_00:52:59,273 --> 00:53:00,353</time>
<s>你也得管理这个梦想</s>
<time>1751_00:53:00,713 --> 00:53:01,433</time>
<s>管理到最小</s>
<time>1752_00:53:01,793 --> 00:53:04,313</time>
<s>哪怕一个人白天非常疲累</s>
<time>1753_00:53:04,673 --> 00:53:06,113</time>
<s>忙于工作忙于谋生</s>
<time>1754_00:53:06,473 --> 00:53:08,273</time>
<s>这也是很值得尊敬的对吧</s>
<time>1755_00:53:08,633 --> 00:53:12,593</time>
<s>但是好像他总有一个爱好</s>
<time>1756_00:53:12,953 --> 00:53:15,113</time>
<s>有些人养个花是吧</s>
<time>1757_00:53:15,473 --> 00:53:16,913</time>
<s>甚至于有些人呢</s>
<time>1758_00:53:17,273 --> 00:53:20,153</time>
<s>你像我原来说一个司机</s>
<time>1759_00:53:20,513 --> 00:53:21,593</time>
<s>每天最快乐的时候</s>
<time>1760_00:53:22,673 --> 00:53:24,833</time>
<s>他说就是那个</s>
<time>1761_00:53:25,193 --> 00:53:25,913</time>
<s>看那个美剧</s>
<time>1762_00:53:26,273 --> 00:53:27,713</time>
<s>看美剧也算对吧</s>
<time>1763_00:53:28,073 --> 00:53:28,793</time>
<s>每天最快乐的时候</s>
<time>1764_00:53:29,153 --> 00:53:30,233</time>
<s>就是有时候出车</s>
<time>1765_00:53:30,593 --> 00:53:31,673</time>
<s>这一天十几个钟头</s>
<time>1766_00:53:32,033 --> 00:53:33,833</time>
<s>然后晚上回到家</s>
<time>1767_00:53:34,193 --> 00:53:36,713</time>
<s>他不要马上就睡</s>
<time>1768_00:53:37,433 --> 00:53:38,153</time>
<s>他虽然他也很累</s>
<time>1769_00:53:38,513 --> 00:53:39,593</time>
<s>但是他要打开冰箱</s>
<time>1770_00:53:39,953 --> 00:53:42,473</time>
<s>拿出一杯冰冻的啤酒</s>
<time>1771_00:53:42,833 --> 00:53:46,073</time>
<s>放上自己早就准备好的那个美剧</s>
<time>1772_00:53:46,433 --> 00:53:47,513</time>
<s>今天又能看一集</s>
<time>1773_00:53:47,873 --> 00:53:48,593</time>
<s>要有仪式感</s>
<time>1774_00:53:48,953 --> 00:53:49,313</time>
<s>有时候为此</s>
<time>1775_00:53:49,673 --> 00:53:51,113</time>
<s>他能够减少睡眠</s>
<time>1776_00:53:51,473 --> 00:53:52,553</time>
<s>你看其实你不要小看</s>
<time>1777_00:53:52,913 --> 00:53:53,273</time>
<s>这不简单的</s>
<time>1778_00:53:53,633 --> 00:53:55,433</time>
<s>是一个看剧的消遣的行为</s>
<time>1779_00:53:55,793 --> 00:53:58,313</time>
<s>连这个也是那个人性的</s>
<time>1780_00:53:58,673 --> 00:54:00,833</time>
<s>那个全面发展的那个需要</s>
<time>1781_00:54:01,193 --> 00:54:03,353</time>
<s>因为他需要有这么一段美剧</s>
<time>1782_00:54:03,713 --> 00:54:04,793</time>
<s>或者说中国电视剧</s>
<time>1783_00:54:05,873 --> 00:54:07,673</time>
<s>来滋润他的这个人性的需要</s>
<time>1784_00:54:08,033 --> 00:54:08,753</time>
<s>这要看你怎么看</s>
<time>1785_00:54:09,113 --> 00:54:10,553</time>
<s>这种嗜好当然是嗜好</s>
<time>1786_00:54:10,913 --> 00:54:11,633</time>
<s>也需要</s>
<time>1787_00:54:11,993 --> 00:54:14,873</time>
<s>其实是为了让你第二天</s>
<time>1788_00:54:15,233 --> 00:54:16,673</time>
<s>恢复体力再生产</s>
<time>1789_00:54:17,033 --> 00:54:17,393</time>
<s>对</s>
<time>1790_00:54:17,753 --> 00:54:18,833</time>
<s>这是一个劳动力再生产</s>
<time>1791_00:54:19,193 --> 00:54:21,353</time>
<s>对劳动力再生产而已</s>
<time>1792_00:54:21,713 --> 00:54:23,153</time>
<s>他不能帮你解放</s>
<time>1793_00:54:23,513 --> 00:54:24,953</time>
<s>也谈不上说全人</s>
<time>1794_00:54:25,313 --> 00:54:27,833</time>
<s>其实更是永远把你绑在</s>
<time>1795_00:54:28,193 --> 00:54:29,633</time>
<s>劳动的制度里面</s>
<time>1796_00:54:29,993 --> 00:54:30,713</time>
<s>你就不能给点希望吗</s>
<time>1797_00:54:31,073 --> 00:54:31,433</time>
<s>有的有的</s>
<time>1798_00:54:31,793 --> 00:54:32,873</time>
<s>其实因为后来我们讲的</s>
<time>1799_00:54:33,233 --> 00:54:34,313</time>
<s>很多文化研究学者也会说</s>
<time>1800_00:54:34,673 --> 00:54:36,473</time>
<s>这种消费本身也是生产</s>
<time>1801_00:54:37,553 --> 00:54:38,993</time>
<s>就是消费本身也是一个</s>
<time>1802_00:54:39,353 --> 00:54:40,433</time>
<s>带有解放意义的</s>
<time>1803_00:54:40,793 --> 00:54:41,153</time>
<s>对</s>
<time>1804_00:54:41,513 --> 00:54:42,233</time>
<s>所以可以的</s>
<time>1805_00:54:42,953 --> 00:54:44,393</time>
<s>在消费当中解放自己是吧</s>
<time>1806_00:54:44,753 --> 00:54:45,473</time>
<s>那他们高兴了</s>
<time>1807_00:54:45,833 --> 00:54:47,273</time>
<s>那他们谁给钱呢</s>
<time>1808_00:54:47,633 --> 00:54:48,353</time>
<s>那不还得挣</s>
<time>1809_00:54:48,713 --> 00:54:52,313</time>
<s>里面有个乐观的是什么</s>
<time>1810_00:54:52,673 --> 00:54:54,833</time>
<s>因为说嗜好每个人都有</s>
<time>1811_00:54:55,193 --> 00:54:56,993</time>
<s>有一种嗜好当然比较困难</s>
<time>1812_00:54:57,353 --> 00:54:58,073</time>
<s>要有创造性的</s>
<time>1813_00:54:58,433 --> 00:55:00,233</time>
<s>真的解放性的嗜好</s>
<time>1814_00:55:00,593 --> 00:55:02,393</time>
<s>比方说我们经常说音乐</s>
<time>1815_00:55:02,753 --> 00:55:03,113</time>
<s>当然音乐也有分</s>
<time>1816_00:55:03,473 --> 00:55:04,913</time>
<s>一般所谓的流行音乐</s>
<time>1817_00:55:05,273 --> 00:55:07,073</time>
<s>跟那个能够让你</s>
<time>1818_00:55:07,433 --> 00:55:08,873</time>
<s>更深刻思考的</s>
<time>1819_00:55:09,233 --> 00:55:10,673</time>
<s>所谓的严肃音乐</s>
<time>1820_00:55:11,033 --> 00:55:11,393</time>
<s>阅读</s>
<time>1821_00:55:11,753 --> 00:55:12,113</time>
<s>阅读也有</s>
<time>1822_00:55:12,473 --> 00:55:13,193</time>
<s>可以阅读不同的书</s>
<time>1823_00:55:13,553 --> 00:55:14,993</time>
<s>你说的其实说到底</s>
<time>1824_00:55:15,353 --> 00:55:16,433</time>
<s>我觉得有一个</s>
<time>1825_00:55:16,793 --> 00:55:18,233</time>
<s>可能对于这个青年来说</s>
<time>1826_00:55:18,593 --> 00:55:19,673</time>
<s>是过高的要求</s>
<time>1827_00:55:20,033 --> 00:55:21,113</time>
<s>因为像我这么笨的人吧</s>
<time>1828_00:55:21,473 --> 00:55:23,273</time>
<s>反正我是活到五十了</s>
<time>1829_00:55:23,633 --> 00:55:26,873</time>
<s>我才慢慢找到一点这个消息</s>
<time>1830_00:55:27,233 --> 00:55:27,953</time>
<s>就是什么呢</s>
<time>1831_00:55:28,313 --> 00:55:30,833</time>
<s>还是我们古人讲的这个“中庸”</s>
<time>1832_00:55:31,193 --> 00:55:31,913</time>
<s>就是其实呢</s>
<time>1833_00:55:32,273 --> 00:55:33,353</time>
<s>说到底</s>
<time>1834_00:55:33,713 --> 00:55:34,433</time>
<s>你要打算好</s>
<time>1835_00:55:34,793 --> 00:55:36,593</time>
<s>你要过好你的人生对吧</s>
<time>1836_00:55:36,953 --> 00:55:39,833</time>
<s>你有很多方面的诉求和需求</s>
<time>1837_00:55:40,193 --> 00:55:41,993</time>
<s>谁也不要太过于理想</s>
<time>1838_00:55:42,353 --> 00:55:44,513</time>
<s>但也不必太过于现实</s>
<time>1839_00:55:44,873 --> 00:55:46,313</time>
<s>到最后你发现没有</s>
<time>1840_00:55:46,673 --> 00:55:49,193</time>
<s>就是人越来越拿捏自如的</s>
<time>1841_00:55:49,553 --> 00:55:51,353</time>
<s>是他拿捏出来一种度</s>
<time>1842_00:55:51,713 --> 00:55:54,593</time>
<s>在我的谋生和休闲</s>
<time>1843_00:55:54,953 --> 00:55:57,473</time>
<s>在我的这个欲望和理想</s>
<time>1844_00:55:57,833 --> 00:55:59,273</time>
<s>在我必须干的事</s>
<time>1845_00:55:59,633 --> 00:56:03,233</time>
<s>和我那个喜欢干的事之间</s>
<time>1846_00:56:03,593 --> 00:56:04,313</time>
<s>他拿捏到了</s>
<time>1847_00:56:04,673 --> 00:56:06,473</time>
<s>这么一个平衡点</s>
<time>1848_00:56:06,833 --> 00:56:07,913</time>
<s>当人拿到这么一个</s>
<time>1849_00:56:08,273 --> 00:56:09,353</time>
<s>平衡点的时候</s>
<time>1850_00:56:09,713 --> 00:56:10,433</time>
<s>他似乎就进入一个</s>
<time>1851_00:56:10,793 --> 00:56:13,673</time>
<s>比较心安的一个状态</s>
<time>1852_00:56:14,033 --> 00:56:15,113</time>
<s>所以这里边就有个</s>
<time>1853_00:56:15,473 --> 00:56:16,913</time>
<s>对度的掌握</s>
<time>1854_00:56:17,273 --> 00:56:18,353</time>
<s>这也很玄妙</s>
<time>1855_00:56:18,713 --> 00:56:20,153</time>
<s>掌握不好也没关系</s>
<time>1856_00:56:20,513 --> 00:56:21,233</time>
<s>因为青春嘛</s>
<time>1857_00:56:21,593 --> 00:56:23,393</time>
<s>青春就是用来</s>
<time>1858_00:56:23,753 --> 00:56:24,113</time>
<s>闯荡的</s>
<time>1859_00:56:24,473 --> 00:56:26,993</time>
<s>祝你多杠斜杠成功</s>
<time>1860_00:56:27,353 --> 00:56:28,793</time>
<s>斜杠最后还得成一杠是吧</s>
