<time>1724_00:52:15,221 --> 00:52:16,301</time>
<s>有些反应不一样的</s>
<time>1725_00:52:16,661 --> 00:52:18,101</time>
<s>像我也照顾我父亲</s>
<time>1726_00:52:18,461 --> 00:52:19,181</time>
<s>我父亲这几年</s>
<time>1727_00:52:19,541 --> 00:52:20,981</time>
<s>特别的身体不好</s>
<time>1728_00:52:21,335 --> 00:52:23,495</time>
<s>我父亲以前是很严厉的人</s>
<time>1729_00:52:23,855 --> 00:52:24,575</time>
<s>他当总编辑</s>
<time>1730_00:52:24,935 --> 00:52:26,015</time>
<s>管着一千人</s>
<time>1731_00:52:26,375 --> 00:52:27,095</time>
<s>当然要很凶的</s>
<time>1732_00:52:28,895 --> 00:52:31,401</time>
<s>以前报社的同事还描述形容说</s>
<time>1733_00:52:31,761 --> 00:52:33,201</time>
<s>我父亲好像猫</s>
<time>1734_00:52:33,561 --> 00:52:34,281</time>
<s>他们像老鼠</s>
<time>1735_00:52:34,641 --> 00:52:36,801</time>
<s>我父亲一踏进那个报社</s>
<time>1736_00:52:37,161 --> 00:52:39,321</time>
<s>猫回来了大家安静什么</s>
<time>1737_00:52:40,401 --> 00:52:41,460</time>
<s>怕被猫抓骂</s>
<time>1738_00:52:41,820 --> 00:52:42,540</time>
<s>不是马吗</s>
<time>1739_00:52:42,900 --> 00:52:43,260</time>
<s>猫</s>
<time>1740_00:52:43,620 --> 00:52:45,060</time>
<s>马总像猫一样回来了</s>
<time>1741_00:52:46,500 --> 00:52:47,220</time>
<s>形容得好</s>
<time>1742_00:52:47,580 --> 00:52:48,660</time>
<s>然后这几年</s>
<time>1743_00:52:49,020 --> 00:52:50,100</time>
<s>我想说的是什么</s>
<time>1744_00:52:50,460 --> 00:52:52,254</time>
<s>这几年我父亲身体不好</s>
<time>1745_00:52:52,614 --> 00:52:53,334</time>
<s>耳朵也不好</s>
<time>1746_00:52:53,694 --> 00:52:54,774</time>
<s>然后照顾他的时候呢</s>
<time>1747_00:52:55,134 --> 00:52:56,574</time>
<s>我突然觉得我父亲</s>
<time>1748_00:52:56,934 --> 00:52:58,374</time>
<s>怎么多了笑容</s>
<time>1749_00:52:58,734 --> 00:52:59,454</time>
<s>在他生病以前</s>
<time>1750_00:52:59,814 --> 00:53:00,894</time>
<s>我没有看过他笑的</s>
<time>1751_00:53:01,254 --> 00:53:03,040</time>
<s>对着我不笑很严厉的</s>
<time>1752_00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:05,560</time>
<s>我就懂了</s>
<time>1753_00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:07,000</time>
<s>那个叫什么呢</s>
<time>1754_00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,520</time>
<s>其实他完全不懂得怎么回应</s>
<time>1755_00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,018</time>
<s>甚至有点像你所说的不好意思</s>
<time>1756_00:53:12,378 --> 00:53:13,458</time>
<s>要儿子</s>
<time>1757_00:53:13,818 --> 00:53:15,258</time>
<s>甚至我要扶他去厕所</s>
<time>1758_00:53:15,618 --> 00:53:16,698</time>
<s>上洗手间</s>
<time>1759_00:53:17,058 --> 00:53:18,138</time>
<s>去外面吃饭</s>
<time>1760_00:53:18,498 --> 00:53:19,218</time>
<s>我都要注意他</s>
<time>1761_00:53:20,658 --> 00:53:22,451</time>
<s>要观察他是不是想上厕所</s>
<time>1762_00:53:22,811 --> 00:53:24,611</time>
<s>他也不好意思说我想上厕所</s>
<time>1763_00:53:24,971 --> 00:53:25,691</time>
<s>要不要去</s>
<time>1764_00:53:26,051 --> 00:53:26,771</time>
<s>然后就扶他去</s>
<time>1765_00:53:27,131 --> 00:53:28,571</time>
<s>站在他旁边好</s>
<time>1766_00:53:28,931 --> 00:53:31,091</time>
<s>然后他整天就挂着笑容</s>
<time>1767_00:53:31,451 --> 00:53:33,237</time>
<s>那种笑容就是说不好意思</s>
<time>1768_00:53:33,597 --> 00:53:33,957</time>
<s>尴尬</s>
<time>1769_00:53:34,317 --> 00:53:34,677</time>
<s>尴尬了</s>
<time>1770_00:53:35,037 --> 00:53:35,757</time>
<s>还有不好意思</s>
<time>1771_00:53:36,117 --> 00:53:37,197</time>
<s>要麻烦你了</s>
<time>1772_00:53:37,557 --> 00:53:39,357</time>
<s>还有对于自己那种无助</s>
<time>1773_00:53:39,717 --> 00:53:41,855</time>
<s>无力的那种认命</s>
<time>1774_00:53:42,215 --> 00:53:43,295</time>
<s>那种感觉</s>
<time>1775_00:53:43,655 --> 00:53:44,735</time>
<s>所以如何对应</s>
<time>1776_00:53:45,095 --> 00:53:48,335</time>
<s>我觉得也不是说给不给家用</s>
<time>1777_00:53:48,695 --> 00:53:49,415</time>
<s>那钱的问题</s>
<time>1778_00:53:49,775 --> 00:53:51,215</time>
<s>重点是那个态度</s>
<time>1779_00:53:51,575 --> 00:53:52,649</time>
<s>以前孔子也说了</s>
<time>1780_00:53:53,009 --> 00:53:54,089</time>
<s>《论语》不是有一句吗</s>
<time>1781_00:53:54,449 --> 00:53:54,809</time>
<s>有人问他</s>
<time>1782_00:53:55,169 --> 00:53:55,889</time>
<s>如何对待父母</s>
<time>1783_00:53:56,249 --> 00:53:57,689</time>
<s>给他们吃的好吃的</s>
<time>1784_00:53:58,049 --> 00:53:58,769</time>
<s>钱可以吗</s>
<time>1785_00:53:59,129 --> 00:54:00,569</time>
<s>孔子这样回他</s>
<time>1786_00:54:00,929 --> 00:54:03,795</time>
<s>你在家里养马养其他</s>
<time>1787_00:54:04,155 --> 00:54:05,235</time>
<s>你也是给它好吃好喝的</s>
<time>1788_00:54:05,595 --> 00:54:05,955</time>
<s>对</s>
<time>1789_00:54:06,315 --> 00:54:08,475</time>
<s>这个家辉说的这个让我觉得</s>
<time>1790_00:54:08,835 --> 00:54:10,635</time>
<s>要不说当文人他也有好处</s>
<time>1791_00:54:10,995 --> 00:54:12,412</time>
<s>你有一个敏感的心</s>
<time>1792_00:54:12,772 --> 00:54:13,852</time>
<s>有一个慧眼</s>
<time>1793_00:54:14,212 --> 00:54:15,652</time>
<s>我现在有时候能体会到</s>
<time>1794_00:54:16,012 --> 00:54:16,732</time>
<s>过去老觉得跟父母</s>
<time>1795_00:54:17,092 --> 00:54:17,812</time>
<s>不知道该说什么</s>
<time>1796_00:54:18,172 --> 00:54:19,972</time>
<s>现在我有时候也能类似于</s>
<time>1797_00:54:20,332 --> 00:54:21,052</time>
<s>找到一些乐趣</s>
<time>1798_00:54:21,412 --> 00:54:22,126</time>
<s>就是你观察他</s>
<time>1799_00:54:22,486 --> 00:54:23,206</time>
<s>特别是你观察到</s>
<time>1800_00:54:23,566 --> 00:54:25,366</time>
<s>你们俩相似的那些地方</s>
<time>1801_00:54:25,726 --> 00:54:27,526</time>
<s>我跟你说有一种暖和</s>
<time>1802_00:54:27,886 --> 00:54:29,326</time>
<s>跟我养孩子一样</s>
<time>1803_00:54:29,686 --> 00:54:30,046</time>
<s>就是</s>
<time>1804_00:54:30,406 --> 00:54:30,766</time>
<s>就好比就是说</s>
<time>1805_00:54:31,126 --> 00:54:34,351</time>
<s>这个我父亲看电视是吧</s>
<time>1806_00:54:34,711 --> 00:54:36,511</time>
<s>看一个什么电视</s>
<time>1807_00:54:36,871 --> 00:54:37,231</time>
<s>我就跟他说</s>
<time>1808_00:54:37,591 --> 00:54:39,031</time>
<s>我说这有什么好看的</s>
<time>1809_00:54:39,391 --> 00:54:41,191</time>
<s>然后他就跟那个老马识途似的</s>
<time>1810_00:54:41,551 --> 00:54:44,409</time>
<s>就是说看见不好看的节目</s>
<time>1811_00:54:44,769 --> 00:54:45,129</time>
<s>沉住气</s>
<time>1812_00:54:47,289 --> 00:54:48,369</time>
<s>待会儿就好看了</s>
<time>1813_00:54:48,729 --> 00:54:49,809</time>
<s>就跟看我们《圆桌派》一样</s>
<time>1814_00:54:50,169 --> 00:54:50,889</time>
<s>跟《圆桌派》一样</s>
<time>1815_00:54:51,249 --> 00:54:51,609</time>
<s>对你知道那个时候</s>
<time>1816_00:54:51,969 --> 00:54:53,762</time>
<s>我突然觉得就是跟</s>
<time>1817_00:54:54,122 --> 00:54:55,562</time>
<s>我爸爸真是跟我就特别</s>
<time>1818_00:54:56,282 --> 00:54:57,362</time>
<s>而且有的时候你知道吗</s>
<time>1819_00:54:57,722 --> 00:55:00,962</time>
<s>我跟别的外边的人交往</s>
<time>1820_00:55:01,322 --> 00:55:03,467</time>
<s>就是只有你能知道你们家人</s>
<time>1821_00:55:03,827 --> 00:55:05,267</time>
<s>祖传的那种性格</s>
<time>1822_00:55:05,627 --> 00:55:05,987</time>
<s>你知道吗</s>
<time>1823_00:55:06,347 --> 00:55:08,147</time>
<s>因为我们家的这个人</s>
<time>1824_00:55:08,507 --> 00:55:09,227</time>
<s>就比如像我父亲</s>
<time>1825_00:55:09,587 --> 00:55:12,107</time>
<s>嘱人一个事特别细致</s>
<time>1826_00:55:12,805 --> 00:55:13,525</time>
<s>到了崂叻的程度</s>
<time>1827_00:55:13,885 --> 00:55:15,325</time>
<s>甚至他经常就是说</s>
<time>1828_00:55:15,685 --> 00:55:17,125</time>
<s>没有人比我们家人细致</s>
<time>1829_00:55:17,485 --> 00:55:17,845</time>
<s>你知道吗</s>
<time>1830_00:55:18,205 --> 00:55:20,725</time>
<s>就你知道有的时候你回家</s>
<time>1831_00:55:22,165 --> 00:55:23,958</time>
<s>他在担心一个什么事情的时候</s>
<time>1832_00:55:24,318 --> 00:55:26,478</time>
<s>比如说去买一个电冰箱</s>
<time>1833_00:55:26,838 --> 00:55:28,278</time>
<s>他考虑的那些细节的时候</s>
<time>1834_00:55:28,638 --> 00:55:29,358</time>
<s>那个时候我就发现</s>
<time>1835_00:55:29,718 --> 00:55:32,238</time>
<s>我们父子俩想得一模一样</s>
<time>1836_00:55:32,583 --> 00:55:34,383</time>
<s>就是那个线条那个颜色</s>
<time>1837_00:55:34,743 --> 00:55:36,183</time>
<s>那个地方好像有个斑痕</s>
<time>1838_00:55:36,543 --> 00:55:37,983</time>
<s>当这个的时候你知道吗</s>
<time>1839_00:55:38,343 --> 00:55:39,783</time>
<s>心心相印</s>
<time>1840_00:55:40,143 --> 00:55:41,943</time>
<s>你就知道只有我们家的人</s>
<time>1841_00:55:42,303 --> 00:55:43,000</time>
<s>是这么细致的</s>
<time>1842_00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:44,440</time>
<s>会想到这个东西</s>
<time>1843_00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,240</time>
<s>只有我们家的人嘱吋一个人</s>
<time>1844_00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:47,320</time>
<s>才能嘱吋到这儿</s>
<time>1845_00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:48,760</time>
<s>你们永远都想不到</s>
<time>1846_00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:50,200</time>
<s>亲密就是这种亲密</s>
<time>1847_00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,360</time>
<s>就那种你就觉得这是父亲</s>
<time>1848_00:55:52,713 --> 00:55:54,153</time>
<s>那就不用验DNA了哈</s>
<time>1849_00:55:54,513 --> 00:55:54,873</time>
<s>省了</s>
<time>1850_00:55:57,033 --> 00:55:58,833</time>
<s>这是你一辈子的怀疑是吗</s>
<time>1851_00:55:59,193 --> 00:56:00,273</time>
<s>一辈子的担心</s>
<time>1852_00:56:00,633 --> 00:56:01,353</time>
<s>对所以你说</s>
<time>1853_00:56:01,713 --> 00:56:03,138</time>
<s>像我们是一个文化的</s>
<time>1854_00:56:03,498 --> 00:56:04,218</time>
<s>就好像充满了情</s>
<time>1855_00:56:04,578 --> 00:56:06,018</time>
<s>但是文道你发现没有</s>
<time>1856_00:56:06,378 --> 00:56:07,098</time>
<s>我现在在网上看</s>
<time>1857_00:56:07,458 --> 00:56:09,618</time>
<s>很多也是充满了账</s>
<time>1858_00:56:09,978 --> 00:56:13,195</time>
<s>就咱们刚才说的这个算账</s>
<time>1859_00:56:13,555 --> 00:56:15,715</time>
<s>就是内地有一部分吧</s>
<time>1860_00:56:16,075 --> 00:56:16,795</time>
<s>那买不起房子</s>
<time>1861_00:56:17,515 --> 00:56:18,595</time>
<s>所以我觉得正常的</s>
<time>1862_00:56:18,955 --> 00:56:21,835</time>
<s>很多的香港父母并不会要求</s>
<time>1863_00:56:22,195 --> 00:56:24,348</time>
<s>自己女儿的男朋友说要结婚</s>
<time>1864_00:56:24,708 --> 00:56:26,148</time>
<s>要先能够买房子</s>
<time>1865_00:56:26,508 --> 00:56:27,948</time>
<s>这种要求其实</s>
<time>1866_00:56:28,308 --> 00:56:29,388</time>
<s>我不认为今天在香港</s>
<time>1867_00:56:29,748 --> 00:56:30,468</time>
<s>是很常见的</s>
<time>1868_00:56:30,828 --> 00:56:31,548</time>
<s>所以我认为</s>
<time>1869_00:56:31,908 --> 00:56:32,628</time>
<s>但是在内地还是挺常见</s>
<time>1870_00:56:32,972 --> 00:56:33,692</time>
<s>我觉得内地比香港</s>
<time>1871_00:56:34,052 --> 00:56:36,212</time>
<s>对这点可能要求还更多</s>
<time>1872_00:56:36,572 --> 00:56:38,372</time>
<s>没里面有个差别</s>
<time>1873_00:56:38,732 --> 00:56:39,812</time>
<s>你期待这样</s>
<time>1874_00:56:40,172 --> 00:56:43,029</time>
<s>跟因为你没房子不准你结婚</s>
<time>1875_00:56:43,389 --> 00:56:44,469</time>
<s>是不一样的</s>
<time>1876_00:56:44,829 --> 00:56:46,269</time>
<s>就你希望他能这样做</s>
<time>1877_00:56:46,629 --> 00:56:48,789</time>
<s>但如果他不买房子</s>
<time>1878_00:56:49,149 --> 00:56:49,869</time>
<s>或没有这个打算</s>
<time>1879_00:56:50,229 --> 00:56:50,949</time>
<s>你也能谅解</s>
<time>1880_00:56:51,309 --> 00:56:52,029</time>
<s>因为很简单</s>
<time>1881_00:56:52,389 --> 00:56:53,102</time>
<s>当你女儿</s>
<time>1882_00:56:53,462 --> 00:56:54,182</time>
<s>比方说是女儿</s>
<time>1883_00:56:54,542 --> 00:56:55,622</time>
<s>女儿要结婚</s>
<time>1884_00:56:55,982 --> 00:56:58,502</time>
<s>谈到结婚的时候才去谈房子</s>
<time>1885_00:56:58,862 --> 00:56:59,582</time>
<s>那太晚了</s>
<time>1886_00:56:59,942 --> 00:57:00,662</time>
<s>在第一关</s>
<time>1887_00:57:01,022 --> 00:57:02,462</time>
<s>你女儿告诉你开始说</s>
<time>1888_00:57:02,822 --> 00:57:04,966</time>
<s>好像对一个男生有好感</s>
<time>1889_00:57:05,326 --> 00:57:06,046</time>
<s>要交往的时候</s>
<time>1890_00:57:06,406 --> 00:57:08,206</time>
<s>你就问她有没有房子</s>
<time>1891_00:57:08,566 --> 00:57:10,726</time>
<s>也有了像香港网络</s>
<time>1892_00:57:11,446 --> 00:57:13,606</time>
<s>好几年都在流行一段视频</s>
<time>1893_00:57:13,966 --> 00:57:15,406</time>
<s>一首歌改编的</s>
<time>1894_00:57:15,766 --> 00:57:17,206</time>
<s>那个歌名就叫作</s>
<time>1895_00:57:17,566 --> 00:57:19,006</time>
<s>你住在公屋</s>
<time>1896_00:57:19,366 --> 00:57:20,086</time>
<s>这是政府的房屋</s>
<time>1897_00:57:20,446 --> 00:57:21,526</time>
<s>没有自己房子</s>
<time>1898_00:57:21,886 --> 00:57:22,966</time>
<s>不准吃鸡腿</s>
<time>1899_00:57:23,318 --> 00:57:24,038</time>
<s>什么意思呢</s>
<time>1900_00:57:24,398 --> 00:57:27,278</time>
<s>那就是说首先是网络</s>
<time>1901_00:57:27,638 --> 00:57:29,798</time>
<s>有个男生写他的经验</s>
<time>1902_00:57:30,158 --> 00:57:31,598</time>
<s>就是说交往一个女生</s>
<time>1903_00:57:31,958 --> 00:57:34,103</time>
<s>好了女生带他回家吃饭</s>
<time>1904_00:57:34,463 --> 00:57:35,183</time>
<s>就爸妈讲</s>
<time>1905_00:57:35,543 --> 00:57:38,063</time>
<s>然后妈妈就试探这个男朋友</s>
<time>1906_00:57:38,423 --> 00:57:40,223</time>
<s>住什么区是自己房子吗</s>
<time>1907_00:57:40,583 --> 00:57:41,303</time>
<s>还是公屋</s>
<time>1908_00:57:41,663 --> 00:57:43,463</time>
<s>原来意思知道是公屋了</s>
<time>1909_00:57:43,823 --> 00:57:44,903</time>
<s>马上叫老公</s>
<time>1910_00:57:45,263 --> 00:57:47,423</time>
<s>把桌上的那一碟鸡</s>
<time>1911_00:57:47,783 --> 00:57:50,303</time>
<s>里面的鸡腿拿回去冰箱</s>
<time>1912_00:57:50,663 --> 00:57:51,023</time>
<s>明天还要吃</s>
<time>1913_00:57:51,383 --> 00:57:53,183</time>
<s>明天中午要放便当</s>
<time>1914_00:57:53,535 --> 00:57:54,615</time>
<s>然后就不准吃鸡腿</s>
<time>1915_00:57:54,975 --> 00:57:57,495</time>
<s>住公屋不准吃鸡腿</s>
<time>1916_00:57:57,855 --> 00:57:58,215</time>
<s>不准吃鸡腿</s>
<time>1917_00:57:58,575 --> 00:57:59,655</time>
<s>住公屋不准吃鸡腿</s>
<time>1918_00:58:00,015 --> 00:58:02,175</time>
<s>对那还是有那种担心</s>
<time>1919_00:58:02,535 --> 00:58:03,959</time>
<s>可是假如到了结婚的地步</s>
<time>1920_00:58:04,319 --> 00:58:05,399</time>
<s>那太晚了</s>
<time>1921_00:58:05,759 --> 00:58:06,119</time>
<s>应该是前面</s>
<time>1922_00:58:06,839 --> 00:58:08,279</time>
<s>我最近有一个亲戚就是</s>
<time>1923_00:58:08,639 --> 00:58:10,079</time>
<s>两个人谈恋爱都好几年了</s>
<time>1924_00:58:10,439 --> 00:58:11,519</time>
<s>要谈结婚了</s>
<time>1925_00:58:11,879 --> 00:58:12,959</time>
<s>双方付多少首期</s>
<time>1926_00:58:13,319 --> 00:58:14,039</time>
<s>是男的付多一点</s>
<time>1927_00:58:14,399 --> 00:58:16,199</time>
<s>还是女的要平分</s>
<time>1928_00:58:16,559 --> 00:58:16,919</time>
<s>就为这个事</s>
<time>1929_00:58:17,279 --> 00:58:18,719</time>
<s>两家没谈拢分手了</s>
<time>1930_00:58:19,079 --> 00:58:20,519</time>
<s>真的是太晚很现实</s>
<time>1931_00:58:20,879 --> 00:58:21,599</time>
<s>现在年轻人很现实</s>
<time>1932_00:58:21,959 --> 00:58:22,319</time>
<s>这个就能分手了</s>
<time>1933_00:58:22,679 --> 00:58:23,399</time>
<s>分手了</s>
<time>1934_00:58:23,750 --> 00:58:24,470</time>
<s>我也觉得很惊诉</s>
<time>1935_00:58:24,830 --> 00:58:25,550</time>
<s>还有一个是什么</s>
<time>1936_00:58:25,910 --> 00:58:26,990</time>
<s>我另外一个朋友是什么</s>
<time>1937_00:58:27,350 --> 00:58:29,150</time>
<s>他那个是儿子领了女朋友</s>
<time>1938_00:58:29,510 --> 00:58:30,950</time>
<s>第一次上门</s>
<time>1939_00:58:31,310 --> 00:58:32,390</time>
<s>见面挺好</s>
<time>1940_00:58:32,750 --> 00:58:33,814</time>
<s>回去说不高兴了要分手</s>
<time>1941_00:58:34,174 --> 00:58:35,254</time>
<s>说为什么</s>
<time>1942_00:58:35,614 --> 00:58:36,694</time>
<s>说他们那儿的风俗</s>
<time>1943_00:58:37,054 --> 00:58:37,414</time>
<s>是第一次见面</s>
<time>1944_00:58:37,774 --> 00:58:40,294</time>
<s>就要给个什么9999什么的</s>
<time>1945_00:58:40,654 --> 00:58:41,734</time>
<s>然后回去还要补</s>
<time>1946_00:58:43,534 --> 00:58:44,614</time>
<s>什么地方要这样</s>
<time>1947_00:58:44,974 --> 00:58:47,134</time>
<s>但是文道你来下下结论</s>
<time>1948_00:58:47,494 --> 00:58:48,934</time>
<s>就是说你说现在这种现象</s>
<time>1949_00:58:49,294 --> 00:58:50,014</time>
<s>也的确是</s>
<time>1950_00:58:50,374 --> 00:58:51,454</time>
<s>一个年轻人</s>
<time>1951_00:58:51,814 --> 00:58:53,966</time>
<s>他的生活成本不足以支付</s>
<time>1952_00:58:54,326 --> 00:58:55,046</time>
<s>他毕业后的</s>
<time>1953_00:58:55,406 --> 00:58:56,846</time>
<s>比如说买房结婚</s>
<time>1954_00:58:57,206 --> 00:58:57,926</time>
<s>那事实上会形成</s>
<time>1955_00:58:58,286 --> 00:59:01,166</time>
<s>就是很多人的父母去供</s>
<time>1956_00:59:01,526 --> 00:59:01,886</time>
<s>对没错</s>
<time>1957_00:59:02,246 --> 00:59:02,966</time>
<s>我觉得这其实是</s>
<time>1958_00:59:03,326 --> 00:59:04,749</time>
<s>而且是世界现象</s>
<time>1959_00:59:05,109 --> 00:59:05,829</time>
<s>就我不认为这是一个</s>
<time>1960_00:59:06,189 --> 00:59:06,909</time>
<s>外国也这样</s>
<time>1961_00:59:07,269 --> 00:59:09,069</time>
<s>当然你比如说欧洲很多国家</s>
<time>1962_00:59:09,429 --> 00:59:10,869</time>
<s>啃老最早这个东西</s>
<time>1963_00:59:11,229 --> 00:59:12,309</time>
<s>并不是在中国出现</s>
<time>1964_00:59:12,669 --> 00:59:15,549</time>
<s>全球最早啃老成为一个</s>
<time>1965_00:59:15,909 --> 00:59:18,069</time>
<s>舆论媒体讨论的现象的地方</s>
<time>1966_00:59:18,429 --> 00:59:18,789</time>
<s>是意大利</s>
<time>1967_00:59:20,589 --> 00:59:22,029</time>
<s>他们不愿意搬出去</s>
<time>1968_00:59:22,749 --> 00:59:24,180</time>
<s>他们认为他们的女性关系当中</s>
<time>1969_00:59:24,540 --> 00:59:25,620</time>
<s>妈妈是最高的</s>
<time>1970_00:59:26,340 --> 00:59:27,060</time>
<s>照顾他很好</s>
<time>1971_00:59:27,420 --> 00:59:27,780</time>
<s>尤其意大利男人</s>
<time>1972_00:59:28,140 --> 00:59:28,860</time>
<s>本来就有一种</s>
<time>1973_00:59:29,220 --> 00:59:30,660</time>
<s>很强烈的恋母情结</s>
<time>1974_00:59:31,020 --> 00:59:32,460</time>
<s>就你在意大利就知道</s>
<time>1975_00:59:32,820 --> 00:59:33,540</time>
<s>在外头吃饭</s>
<time>1976_00:59:33,900 --> 00:59:35,324</time>
<s>所有的男人都会一边讨论</s>
<time>1977_00:59:35,684 --> 00:59:38,924</time>
<s>这个面就是没我妈做得好</s>
<time>1978_00:59:39,284 --> 00:59:40,724</time>
<s>然后互相争论谁妈做得好</s>
<time>1979_00:59:41,084 --> 00:59:42,524</time>
<s>就啥都是妈妈好</s>
<time>1980_00:59:42,884 --> 00:59:43,964</time>
<s>听上去陈晓卿像意大利的</s>
<time>1981_00:59:44,323 --> 00:59:46,483</time>
<s>对就是啥都是妈妈好</s>
<time>1982_00:59:46,843 --> 00:59:49,003</time>
<s>然后所以就他们后来呢</s>
<time>1983_00:59:49,363 --> 00:59:50,803</time>
<s>尤其这几年经济不好</s>
<time>1984_00:59:51,163 --> 00:59:51,883</time>
<s>在欧盟之中</s>
<time>1985_00:59:52,243 --> 00:59:54,394</time>
<s>意大利是长期稍微衰弱的</s>
<time>1986_00:59:54,754 --> 00:59:57,274</time>
<s>那么很多年轻人在二十七八岁</s>
<time>1987_00:59:57,634 --> 00:59:59,434</time>
<s>传统上应该搬出去独立的时候</s>
<time>1988_00:59:59,794 --> 01:00:01,594</time>
<s>都还继续贴着家里面</s>
<time>1989_01:00:01,954 --> 01:00:03,034</time>
<s>尤其是贴着母亲</s>
<time>1990_01:00:03,394 --> 01:00:04,818</time>
<s>因为有时候父母还分开了</s>
<time>1991_01:00:05,178 --> 01:00:06,618</time>
<s>分开了就肯定得贴母亲</s>
<time>1992_01:00:06,978 --> 01:00:07,698</time>
<s>干嘛跟着爸爸呢</s>
<time>1993_01:00:08,058 --> 01:00:08,418</time>
<s>爸爸又不会做面</s>
<time>1994_01:00:10,218 --> 01:00:11,298</time>
<s>所以很多时候</s>
<time>1995_01:00:11,658 --> 01:00:12,738</time>
<s>就产生这个现象</s>
<time>1996_01:00:13,098 --> 01:00:13,818</time>
<s>所以他们是最早</s>
<time>1997_01:00:14,178 --> 01:00:15,257</time>
<s>但后来你会发现</s>
<time>1998_01:00:15,617 --> 01:00:17,057</time>
<s>其实在全世界的一个规模</s>
<time>1999_01:00:17,417 --> 01:00:18,857</time>
<s>这不是一个</s>
<time>2000_01:00:19,217 --> 01:00:19,577</time>
<s>我们独有的地方</s>
<time>2001_01:00:19,937 --> 01:00:21,377</time>
<s>日本也是这样</s>
<time>2002_01:00:21,737 --> 01:00:23,537</time>
<s>你少一辆法拉利有什么了不起</s>
<time>2003_01:00:23,897 --> 01:00:25,328</time>
<s>不要去迷信那些首富什么</s>
<time>2004_01:00:25,688 --> 01:00:27,488</time>
<s>他给孩子多严苛的教育</s>
<time>2005_01:00:27,848 --> 01:00:28,208</time>
<s>不给人留钱</s>
<time>2006_01:00:28,568 --> 01:00:29,648</time>
<s>你如果是巴菲特的儿子</s>
<time>2007_01:00:30,008 --> 01:00:31,088</time>
<s>就算不给你钱</s>
<time>2008_01:00:31,448 --> 01:00:33,608</time>
<s>这个资源你见过的世面</s>
<time>2009_01:00:33,968 --> 01:00:34,328</time>
<s>你见过的人脉</s>
<time>2010_01:00:34,671 --> 01:00:36,471</time>
<s>跟巴菲特吃一顿饭要多少钱</s>
<time>2011_01:00:36,831 --> 01:00:38,271</time>
<s>跟他儿子吃打个半价总可以吧</s>
<time>2012_01:00:38,631 --> 01:00:40,431</time>
<s>就是你写个回忆录</s>
<time>2013_01:00:40,791 --> 01:00:41,511</time>
<s>所以你的资源</s>
<time>2014_01:00:41,871 --> 01:00:42,591</time>
<s>已经跟别人不一样</s>
<time>2015_01:00:42,951 --> 01:00:43,311</time>
<s>不要迷信这个</s>
<time>2016_01:00:43,671 --> 01:00:44,391</time>
<s>所以巴菲特不用</s>
<time>2017_01:00:44,750 --> 01:00:45,830</time>
<s>把他的钱留给儿子</s>
<time>2018_01:00:46,190 --> 01:00:47,270</time>
<s>因为他留给他儿子的</s>
<time>2019_01:00:47,630 --> 01:00:48,710</time>
<s>是他的无形资产</s>
<time>2020_01:00:49,070 --> 01:00:50,510</time>
<s>他叫巴菲特那就够了</s>
<time>2021_01:00:53,030 --> 01:00:53,390</time>
<s>他姓巴菲特</s>
<time>2022_01:00:53,750 --> 01:00:54,821</time>
<s>你还想给他什么</s>
<time>2023_01:00:55,181 --> 01:00:56,261</time>
<s>所以说归结到最后呢</s>
<time>2024_01:00:56,621 --> 01:00:57,341</time>
<s>我觉得还是</s>
<time>2025_01:00:57,701 --> 01:00:59,501</time>
<s>这个香港人算得对</s>
<time>2026_01:00:59,861 --> 01:01:00,581</time>
<s>就刚才你说的</s>
<time>2027_01:01:00,941 --> 01:01:02,741</time>
<s>啃不要紧对吧</s>
<time>2028_01:01:03,101 --> 01:01:04,541</time>
<s>但是啃的时候</s>
<time>2029_01:01:04,884 --> 01:01:05,964</time>
<s>一个像人家北京一中院</s>
<time>2030_01:01:06,324 --> 01:01:06,684</time>
<s>法官说的一样</s>
<time>2031_01:01:07,044 --> 01:01:08,484</time>
<s>当知感恩对吧</s>
<time>2032_01:01:08,844 --> 01:01:09,204</time>
<s>说得好</s>
<time>2033_01:01:09,564 --> 01:01:11,004</time>
<s>这不是你父母的法律责任</s>
<time>2034_01:01:11,724 --> 01:01:12,444</time>
<s>二一个呢</s>
<time>2035_01:01:12,804 --> 01:01:13,884</time>
<s>就是你不能吃鸡腿</s>
<time>2036_01:01:14,962 --> 01:01:15,322</time>
<s>对不对</s>
<time>2037_01:01:15,682 --> 01:01:16,762</time>
<s>对你不能啃着老</s>
<time>2038_01:01:17,122 --> 01:01:17,842</time>
<s>你还过着这种</s>
<time>2039_01:01:18,202 --> 01:01:19,642</time>
<s>简直奢侈浪费的生活</s>
<time>2040_01:01:20,722 --> 01:01:21,442</time>
<s>分点鸡汤给父母</s>
<time>2041_01:01:21,802 --> 01:01:22,522</time>
<s>很正确</s>
<time>2042_01:01:24,322 --> 01:01:25,033</time>
<s>加强学习了</s>
<time>2043_01:01:25,393 --> 01:01:26,113</time>
<s>不错不错</s>
<time>2044_01:01:27,553 --> 01:01:27,913</time>
<s>谢谢谢谢</s>
