<time>1279_00:43:46,966 --> 00:43:48,406</time>
<s>我到底是因为提案里面</s>
<time>1280_00:43:48,766 --> 00:43:50,566</time>
<s>哪个部分写的不够具体的</s>
<time>1281_00:43:50,926 --> 00:43:52,366</time>
<s>还是整个概念错了</s>
<time>1282_00:43:52,726 --> 00:43:54,166</time>
<s>你能给我5分钟吧</s>
<time>1283_00:43:54,526 --> 00:43:55,246</time>
<s>我已经很难过了</s>
<time>1284_00:43:55,606 --> 00:43:57,046</time>
<s>你拒绝了我什么什么</s>
<time>1285_00:43:57,406 --> 00:43:58,126</time>
<s>人家被他打动</s>
<time>1286_00:43:58,486 --> 00:43:59,566</time>
<s>就跟他这样讲</s>
<time>1287_00:43:59,926 --> 00:44:02,446</time>
<s>讲完以后他回去修他的提案</s>
<time>1288_00:44:02,806 --> 00:44:05,326</time>
<s>然后再跟另外一个银行借贷</s>
<time>1289_00:44:05,686 --> 00:44:08,926</time>
<s>借到他的第一笔那个贷款资本</s>
<time>1290_00:44:09,286 --> 00:44:11,446</time>
<s>然后就赚第一桶金就这样来</s>
<time>1291_00:44:11,806 --> 00:44:14,686</time>
<s>所以假如从某些人的角度</s>
<time>1292_00:44:15,046 --> 00:44:15,766</time>
<s>多麻烦啊</s>
<time>1293_00:44:16,126 --> 00:44:18,646</time>
<s>还提案还失败还要再试</s>
<time>1294_00:44:19,006 --> 00:44:20,446</time>
<s>可能对我那个朋友来说</s>
<time>1295_00:44:20,806 --> 00:44:22,246</time>
<s>这个叫做挑战</s>
<time>1296_00:44:22,606 --> 00:44:24,766</time>
<s>你的行为不一样结果也不一样</s>
<time>1297_00:44:25,126 --> 00:44:26,926</time>
<s>你这个故事其实就是</s>
<time>1298_00:44:27,286 --> 00:44:29,446</time>
<s>一个典型的儒家的道理的故事</s>
<time>1299_00:44:29,806 --> 00:44:30,166</time>
<s>儒系故事</s>
<time>1300_00:44:30,526 --> 00:44:31,246</time>
<s>就是儒系的故事</s>
<time>1301_00:44:31,606 --> 00:44:33,046</time>
<s>就是儒系</s>
<time>1302_00:44:33,406 --> 00:44:35,926</time>
<s>谁说呢傅佩荣说的好像是</s>
<time>1303_00:44:36,286 --> 00:44:39,886</time>
<s>说年轻的时候是应该学儒</s>
<time>1304_00:44:40,246 --> 00:44:43,126</time>
<s>因为儒家就是跟人打交道</s>
<time>1305_00:44:43,486 --> 00:44:44,566</time>
<s>跟人相处</s>
<time>1306_00:44:44,926 --> 00:44:47,806</time>
<s>中年以后道道家</s>
<time>1307_00:44:48,166 --> 00:44:49,606</time>
<s>跟自己打交道</s>
<time>1308_00:44:49,966 --> 00:44:50,686</time>
<s>你看他同样这个故事</s>
<time>1309_00:44:51,046 --> 00:44:51,766</time>
<s>就是你贷款得不到</s>
<time>1310_00:44:52,126 --> 00:44:53,566</time>
<s>我这样继续争取</s>
<time>1311_00:44:53,926 --> 00:44:55,006</time>
<s>我在别的地方成功</s>
<time>1312_00:44:55,366 --> 00:44:57,886</time>
<s>这个就是我们传统讲的儒家的故事</s>
<time>1313_00:44:58,246 --> 00:44:59,686</time>
<s>我把它理解我得不到了</s>
<time>1314_00:45:00,046 --> 00:45:01,846</time>
<s>我把它这项目有什么了不起</s>
<time>1315_00:45:02,206 --> 00:45:02,566</time>
<s>这个钱也是</s>
<time>1316_00:45:02,926 --> 00:45:04,366</time>
<s>我不做这个我做另外一个</s>
<time>1317_00:45:04,726 --> 00:45:07,246</time>
<s>他也照样可以活的很好</s>
<time>1318_00:45:07,606 --> 00:45:08,686</time>
<s>这些都是过眼烟云</s>
<time>1319_00:45:09,046 --> 00:45:09,406</time>
<s>所以我觉得</s>
<time>1320_00:45:11,206 --> 00:45:12,646</time>
<s>你们讲的这个佛系</s>
<time>1321_00:45:13,006 --> 00:45:13,726</time>
<s>其实很多内容都是结合了</s>
<time>1322_00:45:14,086 --> 00:45:16,246</time>
<s>中国人对道家的一些理解</s>
<time>1323_00:45:16,606 --> 00:45:17,326</time>
<s>中国人这个儒道</s>
<time>1324_00:45:17,686 --> 00:45:20,206</time>
<s>中国人总是能进的时候就儒</s>
<time>1325_00:45:20,566 --> 00:45:22,366</time>
<s>退下来就道</s>
<time>1326_00:45:22,726 --> 00:45:24,886</time>
<s>日本你刚才讲的那个情况</s>
<time>1327_00:45:25,246 --> 00:45:25,606</time>
<s>我觉得日本呢</s>
<time>1328_00:45:25,966 --> 00:45:27,046</time>
<s>这个当然日本人</s>
<time>1329_00:45:27,406 --> 00:45:28,486</time>
<s>做人的很多小态度</s>
<time>1330_00:45:28,846 --> 00:45:29,926</time>
<s>小的地方很值得中国人学习</s>
<time>1331_00:45:30,286 --> 00:45:31,726</time>
<s>守信用刻苦</s>
<time>1332_00:45:32,086 --> 00:45:32,806</time>
<s>对不对一个个</s>
<time>1333_00:45:33,166 --> 00:45:33,886</time>
<s>但是总体来说</s>
<time>1334_00:45:34,246 --> 00:45:35,686</time>
<s>那个社会秩序真是</s>
<time>1335_00:45:36,046 --> 00:45:37,126</time>
<s>我最近去那个大坂的</s>
<time>1336_00:45:37,486 --> 00:45:38,206</time>
<s>那个新北地</s>
<time>1337_00:45:40,006 --> 00:45:41,446</time>
<s>北新地</s>
<time>1338_00:45:41,806 --> 00:45:43,606</time>
<s>那个晚上12点</s>
<time>1339_00:45:43,966 --> 00:45:46,486</time>
<s>那些男的在里边喝完酒出来</s>
<time>1340_00:45:46,846 --> 00:45:47,926</time>
<s>你一看他还是穿了</s>
<time>1341_00:45:48,286 --> 00:45:49,366</time>
<s>白天上班的服装</s>
<time>1342_00:45:49,726 --> 00:45:50,086</time>
<s>对</s>
<time>1343_00:45:50,446 --> 00:45:50,806</time>
<s>跟那些女的在</s>
<time>1344_00:45:51,166 --> 00:45:51,886</time>
<s>那些女的很惨</s>
<time>1345_00:45:52,246 --> 00:45:53,686</time>
<s>穿了很少的衣服出来送他</s>
<time>1346_00:45:54,046 --> 00:45:55,486</time>
<s>他们那些男的还是穿了大衣</s>
<time>1347_00:45:55,846 --> 00:45:57,286</time>
<s>而且衣服都差不多的</s>
<time>1348_00:45:57,646 --> 00:46:01,246</time>
<s>你想想工作连着应酬一直到12点</s>
<time>1349_00:46:01,606 --> 00:46:02,686</time>
<s>这样的人生多苦</s>
<time>1350_00:46:03,046 --> 00:46:05,926</time>
<s>中国将来就不要学日本的这个</s>
<time>1351_00:46:06,286 --> 00:46:07,006</time>
<s>真的不要学这个</s>
<time>1352_00:46:07,366 --> 00:46:09,526</time>
<s>宁可学习欧洲的或者美国</s>
<time>1353_00:46:09,886 --> 00:46:10,966</time>
<s>比方说现代化道路上</s>
<time>1354_00:46:11,326 --> 00:46:12,046</time>
<s>这样这样走</s>
<time>1355_00:46:14,206 --> 00:46:16,366</time>
<s>但是家辉刚才那句话</s>
<time>1356_00:46:16,726 --> 00:46:17,446</time>
<s>我还是印象很深</s>
<time>1357_00:46:17,806 --> 00:46:19,246</time>
<s>我还是想重复</s>
<time>1358_00:46:19,606 --> 00:46:21,046</time>
<s>大部分人如果能够</s>
<time>1359_00:46:21,406 --> 00:46:22,126</time>
<s>得到那么一个状态</s>
<time>1360_00:46:22,486 --> 00:46:23,926</time>
<s>就是说我不用那么争</s>
<time>1361_00:46:24,286 --> 00:46:25,726</time>
<s>我随便一点就行</s>
<time>1362_00:46:26,086 --> 00:46:26,806</time>
<s>我就不需要第一</s>
<time>1363_00:46:27,166 --> 00:46:27,886</time>
<s>我就第二第三</s>
<time>1364_00:46:28,246 --> 00:46:30,766</time>
<s>我也可以太平的过日子</s>
<time>1365_00:46:31,126 --> 00:46:33,286</time>
<s>这是需要少数人去争的事情</s>
<time>1366_00:46:35,806 --> 00:46:37,246</time>
<s>这是需要少数人去争的事情</s>
<time>1367_00:46:37,606 --> 00:46:39,406</time>
<s>所以我觉得要是没有少数人</s>
<time>1368_00:46:39,766 --> 00:46:40,846</time>
<s>争这个事情</s>
<time>1369_00:46:41,206 --> 00:46:42,646</time>
<s>必定大部分人都要</s>
<time>1370_00:46:43,006 --> 00:46:44,446</time>
<s>在那里一直争夺下去</s>
<time>1371_00:46:44,806 --> 00:46:46,606</time>
<s>所以文道就是那少数人</s>
<time>1372_00:46:46,966 --> 00:46:48,046</time>
<s>我们是大多数人</s>
<time>1373_00:46:48,766 --> 00:46:49,486</time>
<s>你就替我们争吧</s>
<time>1374_00:46:49,846 --> 00:46:50,926</time>
<s>为什么我们才不想争呢</s>
<time>1375_00:46:51,286 --> 00:46:52,006</time>
<s>对</s>
<time>1376_00:46:52,366 --> 00:46:53,086</time>
<s>你争来让我不用争</s>
<time>1377_00:46:53,446 --> 00:46:54,886</time>
<s>这就像是大乘佛教</s>
<time>1378_00:46:55,246 --> 00:46:57,406</time>
<s>你比如说是佛的理想对吧</s>
<time>1379_00:46:57,766 --> 00:46:59,206</time>
<s>我努力是吧</s>
<time>1380_00:46:59,566 --> 00:46:59,926</time>
<s>我付出</s>
<time>1381_00:47:00,286 --> 00:47:02,446</time>
<s>但我是为了让大多数人</s>
<time>1382_00:47:02,806 --> 00:47:03,886</time>
<s>都能解脱痛苦</s>
<time>1383_00:47:04,246 --> 00:47:06,046</time>
<s>让所有的众生都不痛苦</s>
<time>1384_00:47:06,406 --> 00:47:08,926</time>
<s>这不单是佛</s>
<time>1385_00:47:09,286 --> 00:47:11,086</time>
<s>耶稣也是这样对不对</s>
<time>1386_00:47:11,446 --> 00:47:12,166</time>
<s>这个从来的这个</s>
<time>1387_00:47:12,526 --> 00:47:13,606</time>
<s>文道也是这样</s>
<time>1388_00:47:13,966 --> 00:47:14,686</time>
<s>文道最近刚去了缅甸</s>
<time>1389_00:47:15,046 --> 00:47:16,126</time>
<s>菩萨道是蛮大的</s>
<time>1390_00:47:16,486 --> 00:47:19,006</time>
<s>普罗米修斯也是这样对不对</s>
<time>1391_00:47:19,366 --> 00:47:22,246</time>
<s>文道那个修行那我了解</s>
<time>1392_00:47:22,606 --> 00:47:24,766</time>
<s>他那个也是一招</s>
<time>1393_00:47:25,126 --> 00:47:26,926</time>
<s>上次文道上我家在那儿说</s>
<time>1394_00:47:27,286 --> 00:47:28,726</time>
<s>说到那个缅甸丛林</s>
<time>1395_00:47:29,086 --> 00:47:30,166</time>
<s>上师教我们干吗</s>
<time>1396_00:47:30,526 --> 00:47:31,246</time>
<s>就是那禅修</s>
<time>1397_00:47:31,606 --> 00:47:32,326</time>
<s>他说打坐</s>
<time>1398_00:47:32,686 --> 00:47:33,406</time>
<s>打坐什么呢</s>
<time>1399_00:47:33,766 --> 00:47:35,926</time>
<s>就是说你如何能够灭苦呢</s>
<time>1400_00:47:36,286 --> 00:47:38,806</time>
<s>蚊子咬你痒吧对吧</s>
<time>1401_00:47:39,166 --> 00:47:42,046</time>
<s>但是你观想它观想</s>
<time>1402_00:47:42,406 --> 00:47:43,846</time>
<s>想想有个尖针</s>
<time>1403_00:47:44,206 --> 00:47:44,566</time>
<s>扎进了皮肤</s>
<time>1404_00:47:44,926 --> 00:47:45,646</time>
<s>但是它不是疼</s>
<time>1405_00:47:46,006 --> 00:47:47,446</time>
<s>它这是一种感觉</s>
<time>1406_00:47:47,806 --> 00:47:49,966</time>
<s>然后你这个感觉可以跟你分离</s>
<time>1407_00:47:50,326 --> 00:47:50,686</time>
<s>你感受它</s>
<time>1408_00:47:52,846 --> 00:47:53,926</time>
<s>所以文道一说他去缅甸</s>
<time>1409_00:47:54,286 --> 00:47:55,726</time>
<s>我就想他可能自天</s>
<time>1410_00:47:56,086 --> 00:47:57,166</time>
<s>给这些团友们讲完之后</s>
<time>1411_00:47:57,526 --> 00:47:58,246</time>
<s>晚上回了酒店</s>
<time>1412_00:48:00,766 --> 00:48:01,486</time>
<s>浑身是血</s>
<time>1413_00:48:01,846 --> 00:48:02,566</time>
<s>全身流血</s>
<time>1414_00:48:02,926 --> 00:48:03,286</time>
<s>蚊怕水</s>
<time>1415_00:48:03,646 --> 00:48:04,006</time>
<s>是吧</s>
<time>1416_00:48:05,806 --> 00:48:07,606</time>
<s>但是就是有一个我发现</s>
<time>1417_00:48:07,966 --> 00:48:08,686</time>
<s>这跟我们的阿Q精神</s>
<time>1418_00:48:09,046 --> 00:48:10,846</time>
<s>也是有得一拼的对不对</s>
<time>1419_00:48:11,206 --> 00:48:13,366</time>
<s>阿Q是有文化渊源我现在发现</s>
<time>1420_00:48:13,726 --> 00:48:14,806</time>
<s>许老师这不一定是阿Q精神</s>
<time>1421_00:48:15,166 --> 00:48:16,966</time>
<s>我跟你说这很可能是一种什么呀</s>
<time>1422_00:48:17,326 --> 00:48:19,126</time>
<s>我前一阵我就想</s>
<time>1423_00:48:19,486 --> 00:48:20,566</time>
<s>就是说这个我看</s>
<time>1424_00:48:20,926 --> 00:48:22,006</time>
<s>鲁豫不是出本书吗</s>
<time>1425_00:48:22,366 --> 00:48:23,806</time>
<s>给人解答那个恋爱问题</s>
<time>1426_00:48:24,166 --> 00:48:25,966</time>
<s>后来我就说</s>
<time>1427_00:48:26,326 --> 00:48:28,126</time>
<s>我说我觉得你说的都特别对</s>
<time>1428_00:48:28,486 --> 00:48:29,566</time>
<s>说的都特别好</s>
<time>1429_00:48:29,926 --> 00:48:31,366</time>
<s>所以我由此我明白一个道理</s>
<time>1430_00:48:31,726 --> 00:48:34,246</time>
<s>就是说他该痛苦还是痛苦</s>
<time>1431_00:48:34,606 --> 00:48:36,766</time>
<s>但是说这些道理有什么用呢</s>
<time>1432_00:48:37,126 --> 00:48:39,286</time>
<s>人这种动物有一种本能</s>
<time>1433_00:48:39,646 --> 00:48:41,446</time>
<s>就是要寻找意义</s>
<time>1434_00:48:41,806 --> 00:48:42,886</time>
<s>你发现没有寻找</s>
<time>1435_00:48:43,246 --> 00:48:43,966</time>
<s>给我一个理由</s>
<time>1436_00:48:44,326 --> 00:48:46,126</time>
<s>就是叫心安理得吧</s>
<time>1437_00:48:46,486 --> 00:48:48,646</time>
<s>理得了你心就安</s>
<time>1438_00:48:49,006 --> 00:48:49,366</time>
<s>你发现没有</s>
<time>1439_00:48:50,086 --> 00:48:51,886</time>
<s>就是说为什么他就抛弃了我</s>
<time>1440_00:48:52,246 --> 00:48:53,686</time>
<s>或者说为什么</s>
<time>1441_00:48:54,046 --> 00:48:56,206</time>
<s>我哪天出去就广州话讲仆街</s>
<time>1442_00:48:56,566 --> 00:48:57,646</time>
<s>吧叭我就摔一个跟头</s>
<time>1443_00:48:58,006 --> 00:48:58,726</time>
<s>你知道吗</s>
<time>1444_00:48:59,086 --> 00:49:00,526</time>
<s>他如果找到了一个理由</s>
<time>1445_00:49:00,886 --> 00:49:02,326</time>
<s>好心就安了</s>
<time>1446_00:49:02,686 --> 00:49:03,406</time>
<s>就能接受了</s>
<time>1447_00:49:03,766 --> 00:49:04,846</time>
<s>一切似乎都有了意义</s>
<time>1448_00:49:05,206 --> 00:49:06,286</time>
<s>我今天穿的鞋子太小</s>
<time>1449_00:49:06,646 --> 00:49:07,726</time>
<s>鞋带没有绑好</s>
<time>1450_00:49:08,086 --> 00:49:09,166</time>
<s>所以摔了这一</s>
<time>1451_00:49:09,526 --> 00:49:11,686</time>
<s>或者说我拜神烧香不够虔诚</s>
<time>1452_00:49:12,766 --> 00:49:13,486</time>
<s>你看有了一个理由</s>
<time>1453_00:49:13,846 --> 00:49:14,926</time>
<s>似乎这个行为呢</s>
<time>1454_00:49:15,286 --> 00:49:16,366</time>
<s>其实还是一样的行为</s>
<time>1455_00:49:16,726 --> 00:49:17,446</time>
<s>其实咱知道</s>
<time>1456_00:49:17,806 --> 00:49:19,606</time>
<s>照着科学有限的认识来说</s>
<time>1457_00:49:19,966 --> 00:49:20,686</time>
<s>那不相干</s>
<time>1458_00:49:21,046 --> 00:49:22,126</time>
<s>人生目前没什么意义是吧</s>
<time>1459_00:49:22,486 --> 00:49:23,566</time>
<s>就是一系列偶然行为的</s>
<time>1460_00:49:23,926 --> 00:49:25,726</time>
<s>一种交叉组合关系</s>
<time>1461_00:49:26,086 --> 00:49:28,246</time>
<s>但是你看人处于其中</s>
<time>1462_00:49:28,606 --> 00:49:30,406</time>
<s>就是你看你找到一个理</s>
<time>1463_00:49:30,766 --> 00:49:32,926</time>
<s>说你看你对他不好了吧</s>
<time>1464_00:49:33,286 --> 00:49:34,366</time>
<s>所以他要跟你离婚</s>
<time>1465_00:49:36,166 --> 00:49:36,526</time>
<s>明白了</s>
<time>1466_00:49:36,886 --> 00:49:38,326</time>
<s>所以你每一派后面</s>
<time>1467_00:49:38,686 --> 00:49:40,126</time>
<s>都用了一个系</s>
<time>1468_00:49:40,486 --> 00:49:41,206</time>
<s>这个系就是把</s>
<time>1469_00:49:41,566 --> 00:49:42,646</time>
<s>用不同的道理</s>
<time>1470_00:49:43,006 --> 00:49:44,086</time>
<s>把同样的一些事情</s>
<time>1471_00:49:44,446 --> 00:49:45,886</time>
<s>不同的串法</s>
<time>1472_00:49:46,246 --> 00:49:46,606</time>
<s>把它串起来</s>
<time>1473_00:49:46,966 --> 00:49:49,126</time>
<s>所以都是大学里的科系</s>
<time>1474_00:49:49,486 --> 00:49:52,006</time>
<s>都是系都是学问</s>
<time>1475_00:49:52,366 --> 00:49:52,726</time>
<s>变主修吧</s>
<time>1476_00:49:53,086 --> 00:49:54,166</time>
<s>都是学问</s>
<time>1477_00:49:54,526 --> 00:49:55,966</time>
<s>谢谢谢谢</s>
