<time>538_00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:44,760</time>
<s>做防性侵教育的调查</s>
<time>539_00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:46,560</time>
<s>大家可以看到</s>
<time>540_00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,720</time>
<s>在2013年到2019年</s>
<time>541_00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:54,120</time>
<s>媒体公开报道的性侵儿童案有2397起</s>
<time>542_00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,640</time>
<s>受害人超过4125人</s>
<time>543_00:25:57,360 --> 00:26:02,040</time>
<s>但被曝光的是冰山一角中的冰山一角</s>
<time>544_00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,920</time>
<s>再来看最高人民法院公布的数据</s>
<time>545_00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,080</time>
<s>2013到2016年</s>
<time>546_00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:14,280</time>
<s>国的法院审理结案的狠裘儿童案就有10782起</s>
<time>547_00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:15,720</time>
<s>可以换算一下</s>
<time>548_00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:17,520</time>
<s>平均每天超过6起</s>
<time>549_00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:23,640</time>
<s>而这还不包含强奸罪里面的受害人是幼女的</s>
<time>550_00:26:24,360 --> 00:26:28,320</time>
<s>我们又知道有那么多的案件根本就不会报案</s>
<time>551_00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,120</time>
<s>有些人会选择沉默</s>
<time>552_00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:31,920</time>
<s>根本就走不到司法程序</s>
<time>553_00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:33,720</time>
<s>有专家的预估</s>
<time>554_00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:39,840</time>
<s>大概在进入司法程序之外和发生的案例之间</s>
<time>555_00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,280</time>
<s>比例大概在1:7</s>
<time>556_00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,520</time>
<s>所以性侵案真的离我们并不遥远</s>
<time>557_00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,040</time>
<s>在统计的这些案例当中</s>
<time>558_00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:48,480</time>
<s>我们可以看到</s>
<time>559_00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,720</time>
<s>70%以上是熟人作案</s>
<time>560_00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,600</time>
<s>这也是为什么我们在教孩子的时候</s>
<time>561_00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:55,680</time>
<s>要告诉他们</s>
<time>562_00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:57,120</time>
<s>要预防</s>
<time>563_00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,280</time>
<s>无论是陌生人还是熟人</s>
<time>564_00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:00,720</time>
<s>他做了什么样的行为</s>
<time>565_00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:04,680</time>
<s>无论他是不是你认为很权威的人你尊重的人</s>
<time>566_00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,200</time>
<s>他做了哪些行为那他就是坏人</s>
<time>567_00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,800</time>
<s>在熟人当中大家也可以看到这样的饼图</s>
<time>568_00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:12,240</time>
<s>有师生关系的</s>
<time>569_00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:13,680</time>
<s>有亲戚朋友</s>
<time>570_00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:14,400</time>
<s>有网友</s>
<time>571_00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:15,480</time>
<s>有家庭成员</s>
<time>572_00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,280</time>
<s>还有其他的生活接触</s>
<time>573_00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,160</time>
<s>可能大家看到这个图的时候说</s>
<time>574_00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:21,960</time>
<s>老师性侵确实多</s>
<time>575_00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,920</time>
<s>但我要说老师性侵确实案例不少</s>
<time>576_00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,440</time>
<s>但因为它曝光是更容易的</s>
<time>577_00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,960</time>
<s>一般发生在学校一些场合</s>
<time>578_00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,480</time>
<s>而这么多年来</s>
<time>579_00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,720</time>
<s>我的微博私信和女童保护的微博私信</s>
<time>580_00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,960</time>
<s>收到的大量的树洞一样的倾诉</s>
<time>581_00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,480</time>
<s>来自于亲人的性侵</s>
<time>582_00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:48,960</time>
<s>包括舅舅姑父表哥哥哥爷爷</s>
<time>583_00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,560</time>
<s>他们把这样的事情藏了几十年</s>
<time>584_00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,360</time>
<s>一直都没有讲出来</s>
<time>585_00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,600</time>
<s>有一个是她的亲人给我打电话</s>
<time>586_00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,120</time>
<s>她已经70多岁了</s>
<time>587_00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,360</time>
<s>在她十几岁的时候遭遇性侵</s>
<time>588_00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,520</time>
<s>你想一想已经过去了几十年了</s>
<time>589_00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:06,960</time>
<s>一直抑郁</s>
<time>590_00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,120</time>
<s>性侵她的人都已经死亡了</s>
<time>591_00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,560</time>
<s>她还依然没有走出来</s>
<time>592_00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,520</time>
<s>所以熟人作案是特别值得警惕</s>
<time>593_00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,680</time>
<s>而我觉得遗憾的是</s>
<time>594_00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,840</time>
<s>我们在一个调研当中发现</s>
<time>595_00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,360</time>
<s>60%以上的家长选择的答案还是</s>
<time>596_00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:23,880</time>
<s>大多数的性侵来自陌生人</s>
<time>597_00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,760</time>
<s>男也有人说我买男孩女童8用，31%</s>
<time>598_00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:28,200</time>
<s>男男不会通性堡女童8用31%</s>
<time>599_00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,280</time>
<s>男女童8用.31%</s>
<time>600_00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,240</time>
<s>在我们统计的公开的案例当中</s>
<time>601_00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,200</time>
<s>10%左右的受性侵的孩子是男童</s>
<time>602_00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:41,520</time>
<s>所以女童保护的课堂一直是男女同堂的童8用：31%</s>
<time>603_00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,040</time>
<s>男童1不仅男孩也感防女童8m31%</s>
<time>604_00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,200</time>
<s>男我们本身也在教他们腰尊重别人童8用：31%</s>
<time>605_00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:47,280</time>
<s>我们本身也在教他们要尊重别人</s>
<time>606_00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:48,720</time>
<s>无论是现在还是未来</s>
<time>607_00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,160</time>
<s>不能够伤害别人</s>
<time>608_00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,400</time>
<s>还有受害人的年龄段</s>
<time>609_00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,280</time>
<s>有人说我孩子还小</s>
<time>610_00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,520</time>
<s>但是坏人可不会嫌你的孩子小</s>
<time>611_00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,120</time>
<s>在我们统计的数据当中可以看到</s>
<time>612_00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,800</time>
<s>57.48%的受害人是14岁以下的</s>
<time>613_00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,320</time>
<s>而公开报道的记录记载</s>
<time>614_00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:15,000</time>
<s>最小年龄受到性侵狠亵的是两个月</s>
<time>615_00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,240</time>
<s>大家也可以在网上去搜索</s>
<time>616_00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,480</time>
<s>6个月遭遇性侵的</s>
<time>617_00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:22,560</time>
<s>14个月的</s>
<time>618_00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:24,000</time>
<s>并不少</s>
<time>619_00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:29,040</time>
<s>也有人说性侵案那肯定是发生在山高皇帝远</s>
<time>620_00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:30,840</time>
<s>偏远地区落后地区</s>
<time>621_00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,000</time>
<s>但我们的统计数据表明</s>
<time>622_00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,600</time>
<s>56.81%发生在城市里</s>
<time>623_00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,640</time>
<s>当然这一个饼状图它意味着至少两个方面</s>
<time>624_00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,240</time>
<s>不是说性侵儿童案发生在城市里一定比农村多</s>
<time>625_00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,920</time>
<s>它恰恰也证明了发生在农村的案子</s>
<time>626_00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,720</time>
<s>由于司法的覆盖度</s>
<time>627_00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:53,880</time>
<s>媒体的公开度没有那么高</s>
<time>628_00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:55,680</time>
<s>有很多是没有揭露出来的</s>
<time>629_00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,120</time>
<s>尤其没有被公开曝光的</s>
<time>630_00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,640</time>
<s>同时也要给大家提个醒</s>
<time>631_00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,880</time>
<s>发生在城市里的性侵儿童案也不少</s>
<time>632_00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:07,560</time>
<s>有一些案子孩子就住在父母的身边</s>
<time>633_00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:09,360</time>
<s>比如说网友作案一</s>
<time>634_00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:10,800</time>
<s>2010.</s>
<s>2019年女童保护统计的公开报道的案例里面</s>
<time>635_00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,680</time>
<s>2019年女童保护统计的公开报道的案例里面</s>
<time>636_00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,560</time>
<s>有21起是网友作案</s>
<time>637_00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:21,960</time>
<s>包</s>
<s>包括让对方和他裸聊拍照片一</s>
<time>638_00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:23,760</time>
<s>这</s>
<s>这样的视频和照片流入淫移市场日</s>
<time>639_00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:24,480</time>
<s>这样的视频和照片流入淫移市场</s>
<time>640_00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,160</time>
<s>所以才有你以为孩子就住在你的隔壁</s>
<time>641_00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:30,600</time>
<s>你以为他是很安全的一一</s>
<time>642_00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,200</time>
<s>但你不知道在虚拟的环境的对面一</s>
<time>643_00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:36,720</time>
<s>正有坏人在町着你的孩子</s>
<time>644_00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:39,240</time>
<s>主：P所以越往深里做我们发现（包括席上作案</s>
<time>645_00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,040</time>
<s>所以越往深里做我们发现</s>
<time>646_00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,920</time>
<s>所要做的事情太多了</s>
<time>647_00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,880</time>
<s>在2013年我们发起女童保护的时候</s>
<time>648_00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:52,200</time>
<s>我那个时候天真地以为再过个3年5年</s>
<time>649_00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,720</time>
<s>我们把儿童防性侵教育推动</s>
<time>650_00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,240</time>
<s>纳入9年义务的常态化教学的时候</s>
<time>651_00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,040</time>
<s>那我们的使命就完成了</s>
<time>652_00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:00,480</time>
<s>但到现在</s>
<time>653_00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:01,560</time>
<s>越往深里做</s>
<time>654_00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,720</time>
<s>我们发现问题越多</s>
<time>655_00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,960</time>
<s>需要参与和深耕的东西更多</s>
<time>656_00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,200</time>
<s>包括即便你做得再好</s>
<time>657_00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:11,280</time>
<s>任何一个国家</s>
<time>658_00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,600</time>
<s>它都有可能还依然会发生儿童被性侵的案件</s>
<time>659_00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:21,360</time>
<s>但儿童遭遇性侵之后的心理干预事后的辅导</s>
<time>660_00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:22,800</time>
<s>是远远不够的</s>
<time>661_00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,320</time>
<s>有时候我们想要转介出去</s>
<time>662_00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,480</time>
<s>却发现没有足够的机构</s>
<time>663_00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:32,520</time>
<s>所以未来女童保护也会尝试去探索</s>
<time>664_00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,480</time>
<s>培训更多的志愿者能够在心理辅导</s>
<time>665_00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,360</time>
<s>法律援助等事后干预的部分</s>
<time>666_00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,880</time>
<s>去做更多的努力和工作</s>
<time>667_00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:46,200</time>
<s>当然无论是一个人还是一个团队</s>
<time>668_00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,000</time>
<s>或者说是众多的机构</s>
<time>669_00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,520</time>
<s>我们的力量都是远远不够的</s>
<time>670_00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,120</time>
<s>所以最后放上我们女童保护的二维码</s>
<time>671_00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,360</time>
<s>希望你们都能够加入女童保护的队伍</s>
<time>672_00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,520</time>
<s>不管是转发</s>
<time>673_00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:04,200</time>
<s>还是经过重重地考核成为我们的志愿者讲师</s>
<time>674_00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,440</time>
<s>希望我们大家全社会能够一起行动</s>
<time>675_00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,160</time>
<s>谢谢大家</s>
