<time>1_00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,680</time>
<s>好亮啊我都看不清你们的脸了</s>
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<s>你好</s>
<time>3_00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:30,960</time>
<s>谢谢你们今天来</s>
<time>4_00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,120</time>
<s>我的名字叫伊藤诗织</s>
<time>5_00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:38,160</time>
<s>我刚刚在中国出版了我的书《黑箱》</s>
<time>6_00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:46,440</time>
<s>今天我要聊的是一个不太容易谈论的话题一一性暴力</s>
<time>7_00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:51,120</time>
<s>在日本要谈论这个话题相当之难</s>
<time>8_00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:57,960</time>
<s>某些地区也会把这一话题看做是禁忌</s>
<time>9_00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:02,640</time>
<s>所以你们今天能来听我讲我非常开心</s>
<time>10_00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,160</time>
<s>不过我得提醒你们今天的演讲会很沉重</s>
<time>11_00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:06,960</time>
<s>但好在我们拥有彼此</s>
<time>12_00:01:07,320 --> 00:01:09,480</time>
<s>所以从现在开始我们就来聊聊性暴力吧</s>
<time>13_00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,640</time>
<s>一直以来我的梦想都是成为一名记者</s>
<time>14_00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:26,040</time>
<s>我发现尤其是在日本</s>
<time>15_00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,640</time>
<s>媒体这片天地主要是由男性主导的</s>
<time>16_00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:31,440</time>
<s>正如你们在这张照片中看到的</s>
<time>17_00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:33,240</time>
<s>这就是我</s>
<time>18_00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:39,720</time>
<s>这是在日本前首相的新闻发布会</s>
<time>19_00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,960</time>
<s>我身边绝大多数的记者都是男性</s>
<time>20_00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,920</time>
<s>在日本正是如此</s>
<time>21_00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,240</time>
<s>有时作为女性记者我必须要拼尽全力</s>
<time>22_00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,920</time>
<s>但我相信讲述也相信真相</s>
<time>23_00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,080</time>
<s>所以我深爱着我的事业</s>
<time>24_00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:02,040</time>
<s>在我的事业刚起步时</s>
<time>25_00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:09,960</time>
<s>我被一位位高权重的记者前辈强暴了</s>
<time>26_00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:15,000</time>
<s>从那天起，我生活中的很多事情都变了。</s>
<time>27_00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:17,880</time>
<s>调查人员对我说</s>
<time>28_00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,760</time>
<s>假如我报告了这个案子以后就再也不能在日本工作了</s>
<time>29_00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:26,520</time>
<s>在我试图向警方报告此案的过程中</s>
<time>30_00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:33,360</time>
<s>我的确感受到了来自社会来自媒体的种种压力</s>
<time>31_00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:38,760</time>
<s>事情发生之后我去报警</s>
<time>32_00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:43,440</time>
<s>警察对我说诗织我觉得你不能再在日本工作了</s>
<time>33_00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,760</time>
<s>所以自那之后我开始尝试和外国媒体合作</s>
<time>34_00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:50,280</time>
<s>这是我做过的报道之一</s>
<time>35_00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:55,320</time>
<s>我去了南美的秘鲁探访了可卡因种植的热带丛林</s>
<time>36_00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:56,040</time>
<s>20/18/97062</s>
<time>37_00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,200</time>
<s>这是在哥伦比亚</s>
<time>38_00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:03,960</time>
<s>我报道了最为古老存在时间最长的游击队</s>
<time>39_00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,840</time>
<s>也是在那个时候他们达成了和平协定</s>
<time>40_00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,840</time>
<s>这是在日本有关“孤独死”的报道</s>
<time>41_00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,800</time>
<s>这是我现在正在做的一个项目</s>
<time>42_00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,320</time>
<s>在西非的塞拉利昂</s>
<time>43_00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:25,560</time>
<s>不知道你们了不了解FGM</s>
<time>44_00:03:25,920 --> 00:03:28,080</time>
<s>就是女性割礼</s>
<time>45_00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,680</time>
<s>割礼对女性的伤害特别大</s>
<time>46_00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,920</time>
<s>但在非洲和亚洲这种做法仍然存在</s>
<time>47_00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,440</time>
<s>这是另一个全然不同的话题</s>
<time>48_00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:39,600</time>
<s>所以我不会过多深入</s>
<time>49_00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:47,160</time>
<s>在我遭遇性暴力之后</s>
<time>50_00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,400</time>
<s>我更多地同这个话题有了联系</s>
<time>51_00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:54,720</time>
<s>不同地区女性与儿童的生存境遇</s>
<time>52_00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,320</time>
<s>不管我报道的主题是什么</s>
<time>53_00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,200</time>
<s>也不管我是用纪录片或是新闻报道的形式</s>
<time>54_00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:06,960</time>
<s>我总是能遇见屏幕中的女孩这样的人</s>
<time>55_00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,480</time>
<s>她为了让自己的儿子</s>
<time>56_00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:13,080</time>
<s>能够保护自己改善社会而费心养育他们</s>
<time>57_00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,320</time>
<s>这就是我的主要工作</s>
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<s>今天</s>
<time>59_00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:23,160</time>
<s>我想要聊聊我们如何阻止性暴力</s>
<time>60_00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:25,680</time>
<s>以及性暴力是什么</s>
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<s>首先我想聊聊“同意”的概念</s>
<time>62_00:04:29,280 --> 00:04:32,160</time>
<s>不幸的是在日本的强奸法中</s>
<time>63_00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,760</time>
<s>我们不曾界定何谓“同意”</s>
<time>64_00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:39,360</time>
<s>这是很大的一个问题我想展示其中一例</s>
<time>65_00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:45,120</time>
<s>这是NHK日本的公共电视台做的一个调查</s>
<time>66_00:04:45,840 --> 00:04:48,360</time>
<s>他们做了一个问卷调查</s>
<time>67_00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:50,880</time>
<s>以下哪种行为会让对方误解你已“同意上床”？</s>
<time>68_00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,120</time>
<s>如你们所见一些人回答</s>
<time>69_00:04:54,840 --> 00:04:58,080</time>
<s>如果两个人单独吃晚饭或在外面吃饭</s>
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<s>11%的人认为对方就是同意上床</s>
<time>71_00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,640</time>
<s>你们敢相信吗？</s><s>但这可是NHK的调查结果</s>
<time>72_00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,960</time>
<s>另一个问题是假如两人乘坐同一辆车</s>
<time>73_00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,840</time>
<s>23%的人认为对方同意上床</s>
<time>74_00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:19,680</time>
<s>如果你喝醉了35%的人认为这是默许性的发生</s>
<time>75_00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:24,000</time>
<s>我们每天都要工作每天都在生活</s>
<time>76_00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,240</time>
<s>这些就可以表示同意了？</s>
<time>77_00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:29,760</time>
<s>这太可怕了</s>
<time>78_00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:33,720</time>
<s>我们为什么对“同意”的概念一无所知？</s>
<time>79_00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,680</time>
<s>因为学校不教我们</s>
<time>80_00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,200</time>
<s>尤其是像我就读的公共学校</s>
<time>81_00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:42,720</time>
<s>他们从来都对“同意”避而不谈</s>
<time>82_00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,240</time>
<s>我在我的学校学到的</s>
<time>83_00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,400</time>
<s>不知道你们是不是也是这样</s>
<time>84_00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:52,080</time>
<s>就是女生到一个教室。</s><s>男生到另一个教室</s>
<time>85_00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,680</time>
<s>大家分开学习性知识</s>
<time>86_00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:58,920</time>
<s>比如学习性传染病有多可怕仅此而已</s>
<time>87_00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:01,440</time>
<s>因为他们不想谈论性本身</s>
<time>88_00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:05,400</time>
<s>屏幕上列出的所有选项</s>
<time>89_00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,560</time>
<s>一起喝酒一起吃饭</s>
<time>90_00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:12,600</time>
<s>一起乘车喝醉酒都不意味着同意</s>
<time>91_00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:14,760</time>
<s>希望你们能懂我的意思</s>
<time>92_00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:20,880</time>
<s>这是一位年仅四岁的性侵幸存者</s>
<time>93_00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,400</time>
<s>我在塞拉利昂和她聊过天</s>
<time>94_00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:31,680</time>
<s>她的母亲是怎么发现自己的女儿被强暴了呢</s>
<time>95_00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:36,000</time>
<s>是因为她教她女儿</s>
<time>96_00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:37,800</time>
<s>女儿</s>
<time>97_00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,400</time>
<s>如果有人去碰你的身体</s>
<time>98_00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:46,800</time>
<s>比基尼或泳装能覆盖的部分</s>
<time>99_00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:50,400</time>
<s>是不可以的并且这不是你的错</s>
<time>100_00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,360</time>
<s>如果发生这样的事你可以告诉妈妈</s>
<time>101_00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,240</time>
<s>然后这个4岁的小女孩对她说</s>
<time>102_00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,120</time>
<s>妈妈爸爸就是这么做的</s>
<time>103_00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:05,880</time>
<s>就是从那个时候开始她的母亲得知了女儿被丈夫强暴的事</s>
<time>104_00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:10,200</time>
<s>我这里想要强调的是尤其是对于孩子而言</s>
<time>105_00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,720</time>
<s>他们并不知道发生了什么</s>
<time>106_00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,320</time>
<s>我们应该教会孩子的是</s>
<time>107_00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:21,360</time>
<s>首先如果这件事发生了这并不是他们的错</s>
<time>108_00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:26,760</time>
<s>我们需要创造一个安全的空间</s>
<time>109_00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:30,360</time>
<s>让他们能向父母或任何人报告</s>
<time>110_00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:32,880</time>
<s>最困难的地方在于</s>
<time>111_00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,480</time>
<s>性教育永远是个话题</s>
<time>112_00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:38,640</time>
<s>因为要改变教育真的太难了</s>
<time>113_00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:43,680</time>
<s>在日本也是如此到今天性教育依然落后</s>
<time>114_00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:44,760</time>
<s>我们从不去谈什么是“同意”</s>
<time>115_00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:51,240</time>
<s>我们不会去教孩子男性和女性生殖器官的知识</s>
<time>116_00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:53,760</time>
<s>但如果我们连性器官都不了解</s>
<time>117_00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,280</time>
<s>孩子怎么解释发生在他们身上的一切呢？</s>
<time>118_00:07:56,640 --> 00:08:00,960</time>
<s>在塞拉利昂的这家性侵犯救助中心</s>
<time>119_00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,200</time>
<s>90%的受害者是儿童</s>
<time>120_00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:06,360</time>
<s>正因为他们不知道怎么去描述</s>
<time>121_00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,600</time>
<s>他们总是会说有人从我后面做了那件事</s>
<time>122_00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,840</time>
<s>他们没办法描述，是因为他们根本不知道性器官的名称</s>
<time>123_00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:18,600</time>
<s>教育他们真的太重要了</s>
<time>124_00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:21,120</time>
<s>如果在学校不能做性教育</s>
<time>125_00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,360</time>
<s>那么就像这位母亲一样在家里完成性教育</s>
<time>126_00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:28,320</time>
<s>另外我们需要改变的还有社会层面的救助</s>
<time>127_00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:33,720</time>
<s>当性侵犯在我身上发生的时候我不知道要怎么做</s>
<time>128_00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:38,040</time>
<s>我发现在东京</s>
<time>129_00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,280</time>
<s>只有一家24小时营业的性侵犯救助中心</s>
<time>130_00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:45,600</time>
<s>我打电话给他们我当时还是非常害怕</s>
<time>131_00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:49,200</time>
<s>但他们和我说我必须符合条件才行</s>
<time>132_00:08:49,560 --> 00:08:51,720</time>
<s>所以必须由我本人到那里面谈</s>
<time>133_00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:56,760</time>
<s>那家救助中心距离我的住处有两个多小时的路程</s>
<time>134_00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:57,840</time>
<s>我没办法前去</s>
<time>135_00:08:58,200 --> 00:08:59,640</time>
<s>我当时太害怕了出不了门</s>
<time>136_00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:05,400</time>
<s>没办法乘坐公共交通工具所以最后就没去</s>
<time>137_00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:11,160</time>
<s>这类的性侵犯救助中心必须更容易找到</s>
<time>138_00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,040</time>
<s>它应该是以医院为依托</s>
<time>139_00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:15,840</time>
<s>或是任何我们可以马上联系到的地方</s>
<time>140_00:09:16,560 --> 00:09:19,800</time>
<s>因为在你遭受这种事之后</s>
<time>141_00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,320</time>
<s>你首先需要的就是提供物证</s>
<time>142_00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:25,920</time>
<s>我这里想举一个例子</s>
<time>143_00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:31,320</time>
<s>是我在斯德哥尔摩探访过的一家医院</s>
<time>144_00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:38,160</time>
<s>他们有一个365天24小时营业的性侵犯救助中心</s>
<time>145_00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:42,480</time>
<s>如果你去这家医院他们会搜集你需要的物证</s>
<time>146_00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,720</time>
<s>他们做得非常好的一件事是</s>
<time>147_00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,960</time>
<s>他们会替你保留六个月的证据</s>
<time>148_00:09:49,680 --> 00:09:54,720</time>
<s>因为对于遭遇性侵犯的受害者和幸存者而言</s>
<time>149_00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,240</time>
<s>他们当下不知道该怎么做</s>
<time>150_00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:05,160</time>
<s>通常来说这类犯罪中有90%施害者是你认识的人</s>
<time>151_00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,760</time>
<s>可能是你的家人你的朋友你的上司</s>
<time>152_00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,640</time>
<s>因此你会困惑</s>
<time>153_00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,880</time>
<s>我要不要去报警呢？</s><s>如果报警的话我们的关系怎么办？</s>
<time>154_00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:16,320</time>
<s>我的生活会发生什么改变？</s>
<time>155_00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,480</time>
<s>你需要时间去思考这些问题</s>
<time>156_00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,440</time>
<s>这家医院会替你保存物证</s>
<time>157_00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,680</time>
<s>这在之后的调查阶段是非常关键的</s>
<time>158_00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,920</time>
<s>也给你半年的时间去授顺</s>
<time>159_00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:33,960</time>
<s>在这家医院你还可以接受心理辅导</s>
<time>160_00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:37,920</time>
<s>这同样是需要的</s>
<time>161_00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,880</time>
<s>因此我们确实需要更多</s>
<time>162_00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,480</time>
<s>我们能够联系到的性侵犯救助中心</s>
<time>163_00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,000</time>
<s>这是性暴力受害物证采集包</s>
<time>164_00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,880</time>
<s>简单来说就是你拿到物证之后</s>
<time>165_00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:55,560</time>
<s>需要报告是身体的哪些部分受到了侵犯</s>
<time>166_00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,160</time>
<s>这是日本做的一项调查</s>
<time>167_00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:04,920</time>
<s>只有大约4%的受害者会选择报警</s>
<time>168_00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:06,360</time>
<s>为什么？</s>
<time>169_00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,600</time>
<s>为什么96%都决定不报警呢？</s>
<time>170_00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:14,640</time>
<s>因为大部分情况下有90%的性侵案件都是熟人之间发生的</s>
<time>171_00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:17,880</time>
<s>你要记得</s>
<time>172_00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:22,200</time>
<s>性暴力或者性骚扰的施害者</s>
<time>173_00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:28,680</time>
<s>经常是那些比你更有权势的人</s>
<time>174_00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,560</time>
<s>可能是你的老师你的父亲你的上司</s>
<time>175_00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:35,160</time>
<s>这让报告性侵犯难上加难</s>
<time>176_00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:40,200</time>
<s>为什么在日本报告性侵犯这么难？</s>
<time>177_00:11:40,560 --> 00:11:47,400</time>
<s>是因为警察系统中只有8%的警官是女性</s>
<time>178_00:11:49,560 --> 00:11:52,800</time>
<s>你想要报告但你必须和男性警官报告</s>
<time>179_00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:55,680</time>
<s>这真的太难了非常困难</s>
<time>180_00:11:56,040 --> 00:12:00,360</time>
<s>我的情况也是一样我到了警局想要报告发生的事</s>
<time>181_00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,520</time>
<s>我不得不求接待处</s>
<time>182_00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:07,200</time>
<s>为我分配一名女性警官</s>
<time>183_00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,160</time>
<s>我和这名女性警官聊了大约两个小时</s>
<time>184_00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:15,120</time>
<s>我抽泣大哭害怕得不行</s>
<time>185_00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:18,360</time>
<s>但在谈话结束的时候</s>
<time>186_00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,240</time>
<s>这位女性警官说</s>
<time>187_00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,120</time>
<s>非常抱歉我是交通部门的</s>
<time>188_00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:26,280</time>
<s>我没办法接手你的案件</s>
<time>189_00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:31,320</time>
<s>请和更高层的男性调查人员讲吧</s>
<time>190_00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:33,120</time>
<s>这里的问题在于</s>
<time>191_00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,720</time>
<s>不光是我们的女性警官人数少</s>
<time>192_00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:42,480</time>
<s>并且职位较高的女性警官人数更少</s>
<time>193_00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:45,360</time>
<s>这是日本存在的问题之一</s>
<time>194_00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:51,480</time>
<s>另外一件我经历过的事</s>
<time>195_00:12:52,560 --> 00:12:56,880</time>
<s>在一些情况下你必须重现强奸经过</s>
<time>196_00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:58,680</time>
<s>这件事同样发生在我身上</s>
<time>197_00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,560</time>
<s>我必须躺在垫子上</s>
<time>198_00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:08,040</time>
<s>两三个男警官拿过来一个真人大小的人偶</s>
<time>199_00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,560</time>
<s>把它放在我身上</s>
<time>200_00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:15,600</time>
<s>他们要求我用人偶重现那场亞梦重现强奸的过程</s>
<time>201_00:13:16,680 --> 00:13:18,120</time>
<s>然后他们拿出相机拍照存证</s>
<time>202_00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:19,920</time>
<s>当这一切发生时</s>
<time>203_00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:23,520</time>
<s>我记得我必须封闭所有的感受</s>
<time>204_00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:28,920</time>
<s>因为这太恐怖了太过戏剧化了</s>
<time>205_00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:34,680</time>
<s>我和其他幸存者聊到她们为什么没能报警</s>
<time>206_00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:36,480</time>
<s>她们会说</s>
<time>207_00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,720</time>
<s>因为我们不得不和男警官聊这件事</s>
<time>208_00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,960</time>
<s>他们非但不懂还会质疑你</s>
<time>209_00:13:43,680 --> 00:13:45,840</time>
<s>而且你必须回忆犯罪现场</s>
<time>210_00:13:46,560 --> 00:13:48,000</time>
<s>你绝对不想去回想的一幕幕</s>
<time>211_00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,880</time>
<s>你可能还得重现这段经历</s>
<time>212_00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:55,920</time>
<s>从生理本能上就不想去碰触的回忆</s>
<time>213_00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,520</time>
<s>这就让幸存者报告性侵犯难上加难</s>
<time>214_00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:01,680</time>
<s>你们可以看到</s>
<time>215_00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,280</time>
<s>这是一份不同国家</s>
<time>216_00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:10,320</time>
<s>性暴力、强奸案发生的件数的排名</s>
<time>217_00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:16,440</time>
<s>这个排名只计算报告性侵犯的案件数量</s>
<time>218_00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,320</time>
<s>你可能以为</s>
<time>219_00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,480</time>
<s>瑞典的案件数这么高是个危险的国家</s>
<time>220_00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:27,240</time>
<s>但事实是就像我之前说的是因为瑞典更容易报告</s>
<time>221_00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,840</time>
<s>因为你会有六个月的时间去考虑</s>
<time>222_00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:34,440</time>
<s>另外他们计算性侵犯案件的方式不同</s>
<time>223_00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:36,600</time>
<s>一次强奸就算一次</s>
<time>224_00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,560</time>
<s>这也是为什么他们报告性侵犯的案件数很多的原因之一</s>
<time>225_00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:46,680</time>
<s>这里日本是1.1%排名第73</s>
<time>226_00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:49,560</time>
<s>如果你看到这个数字你不能这样想</s>
<time>227_00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,080</time>
<s>好吧在日本这类案件不会发生</s>
<time>228_00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,680</time>
<s>并不是这样的只有4%会选择报告</s>
<time>229_00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:57,840</time>
<s>这就是为什么这个数目很少</s>
<time>230_00:14:58,200 --> 00:14:59,640</time>
<s>有人说</s>
<time>231_00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,240</time>
<s>强暴是被隐藏最深报警最少的重大犯罪</s>
<time>232_00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:07,560</time>
<s>这个犯罪如此重大但却无人报警</s>
<time>233_00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:09,720</time>
<s>因为报警真的太难了</s>
<time>234_00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,160</time>
<s>不光是在日本</s>
<time>235_00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,400</time>
<s>美国英国世界各地都是如此</s>
<time>236_00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:16,560</time>
<s>包括在中国我相信也是这样</s>
<time>237_00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,240</time>
<s>我们要做的也是我认为我需要做的</s>
<time>238_00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:23,400</time>
<s>是讲述我的故事</s>
<time>239_00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,200</time>
<s>讲出真相</s>
<time>240_00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,800</time>
<s>向全世界讲述发生的事</s>
<time>241_00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:33,480</time>
<s>然而现实却是没有人真的乐意去谈论它</s>
<time>242_00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:37,080</time>
<s>在日本如果有人报告强奸案</s>
<time>243_00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,960</time>
<s>他们甚至从来不用“强奸”这个词</s>
<time>244_00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:42,120</time>
<s>他们所用的词是“侵犯”</s>
<time>245_00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:46,440</time>
<s>如果受害的幸存者年纪比较小</s>
<time>246_00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:50,760</time>
<s>他们会用小5意思类似于被骗了</s>
<time>247_00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:56,520</time>
<s>这些词并没有展示发生的全部事实</s>
<time>248_00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,760</time>
<s>所以我认为报告强奸案</s>
<time>249_00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:00,480</time>
<s>以便了解实情是需要迈出的第一步</s>
<time>250_00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:01,920</time>
<s>以便了解实情是需要迈出的第一步</s>
<time>251_00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:10,920</time>
<s>2016年我在“世界新闻摄影展”看到了这张照片</s>
<time>252_00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:13,440</time>
<s>每年这个展览都会设置排名</s>
<time>253_00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:17,760</time>
<s>在世界范围选出最优秀的新闻摄影作品</s>
<time>254_00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,720</time>
<s>我看见这张照片时</s>
<time>255_00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:25,320</time>
<s>调查已经进行了一年半时间</s>
<time>256_00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:31,080</time>
<s>也正是在这个时候检察官决定放弃我的案子</s>
<time>257_00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:34,320</time>
<s>我们已经搜集了DNA作为证据</s>
<time>258_00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,920</time>
<s>我们调取了监视器拍摄的内容</s>
<time>259_00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,080</time>
<s>我们找到了当晚的出租车司机</s>
<time>260_00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,680</time>
<s>他告诉我们说我是被拖进宾馆的</s>
<time>261_00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,920</time>
<s>尽管如此我的案子还是被搁置了</s>
<time>262_00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:52,320</time>
<s>我对日本的司法体系丧失了全部信心</s>
<time>263_00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:58,800</time>
<s>我当时很害怕因为在他们放弃我的案子之前</s>
<time>264_00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:04,560</time>
<s>法院分明对那个男人下发了逮捕令</s>
<time>265_00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,160</time>
<s>他们到了机场准备实施速捕</s>
<time>266_00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:09,960</time>
<s>因为他佳在美国</s>
<time>267_00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:13,560</time>
<s>然而警方高层当场叫停了逮捕</s>
<time>268_00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:16,800</time>
<s>我们之前从来没有听说过这样的先例</s>
<time>269_00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:20,400</time>
<s>警方居然会阻止法院下达的命令</s>
<time>270_00:17:21,120 --> 00:17:25,800</time>
<s>这种情况在嫌疑人逃往国外的时候可能会发生</s>
<time>271_00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,680</time>
<s>但在那时</s>
<time>272_00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:33,000</time>
<s>他们万事俱备证据在手</s>
<time>273_00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,160</time>
<s>我没有相关证据</s>
<time>274_00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:38,760</time>
<s>但很多人都怀疑当时有权力介入</s>
<time>275_00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:42,360</time>
<s>因为性侵我的那个人</s>
<time>276_00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,960</time>
<s>曾经为首相写过两部自传</s>
<time>277_00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:49,920</time>
<s>他如此深入地涉足到政治权力的世界</s>
<time>278_00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:53,160</time>
<s>最终这个案子还是被叫停了</s>
<time>279_00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:57,120</time>
<s>我不知道自己如何在日本社会继续生存下去</s>
<time>280_00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,000</time>
<s>他如今已经得知我的所作所为</s>
<time>281_00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:03,240</time>
<s>人们告诉我说你没法再在日本工作下去了</s>
<time>282_00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:07,560</time>
<s>我失去了向日本媒体讲述事实的希望</s>
<time>283_00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:13,320</time>
<s>但当我在“世界新闻报道摄影展”看到这幅照片时</s>
<time>284_00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:15,480</time>
<s>又重新燃起了信心</s>
<time>285_00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,720</time>
<s>因为这张照片告诉我强奸也是新闻</s>
<time>286_00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:19,800</time>
<s>那时候人人都说</s>
<time>287_00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,320</time>
<s>强奸何时何地都有根本算不上新闻</s>
<time>288_00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:24,840</time>
<s>但在这里强奸是新闻</s>
<time>289_00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,800</time>
<s>这张作品的作者是玛丽·F.卡尔弗特</s>
<time>290_00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:32,400</time>
<s>她长期追踪报道了性暴力受害者</s>
<time>291_00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:36,720</time>
<s>及其家庭在性暴力发生之后的经历</s>
<time>292_00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:40,680</time>
<s>并非事情发生的过程而后之后的故事</s>
<time>293_00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,560</time>
<s>是你不得不在一系列连锁反应中</s>
<time>294_00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,880</time>
<s>挣扎求生的故事</s>
<time>295_00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:49,680</time>
<s>所以她用镜头捕捉到了幸存者的这些瞬间</s>
<time>296_00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:52,920</time>
<s>所以她用镜头捕捉到了幸存者的这些瞬间</s>
<time>297_00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,160</time>
<s>这是其中一个女孩日记中的一页</s>
<time>298_00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:57,240</time>
<s>她叫凯莉</s>
<time>299_00:18:57,960 --> 00:18:59,400</time>
<s>照片上写着</s>
<time>300_00:19:00,120 --> 00:19:03,360</time>
<s>“要是真这么容易就好了。</s>
<time>301_00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:06,960</time>
<s>她在日记中画下了这一幕她的手腕被刀片割破</s>
<time>302_00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,640</time>
<s>伤口开裂她想停止这种疼痛</s>
<time>303_00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:15,600</time>
<s>我感觉自己就和她一样已经准备好做这样的事了</s>
<time>304_00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,120</time>
<s>在经历了这一切之后我不知道该如何生存下去</s>
<time>305_00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,800</time>
<s>这张照片是凯莉的父亲葛瑞</s>
<time>306_00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,040</time>
<s>他是个单身父亲独自抚养凯莉长大</s>
<time>307_00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:31,080</time>
<s>凯莉去世后他从未变过她房间的样子好像她从未离开那里</s>
<time>308_00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:35,400</time>
<s>我看到这张照片的时候想起了自己的父亲</s>
<time>309_00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:40,440</time>
<s>如果我真这么做了受伤害的是我的家人</s>
<time>310_00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:43,320</time>
<s>正因为这两张照片</s>
<time>311_00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:50,160</time>
<s>让我意识到了新闻和真实的力量</s>
<time>312_00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,120</time>
<s>不幸的是凯莉已经不在人世</s>
<time>313_00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:57,000</time>
<s>但正因为有了玛丽的作品</s>
<time>314_00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:00,240</time>
<s>我得以感知到她的痛苦了解她传达的讯息</s>
<time>315_00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,560</time>
<s>感受仍活在世间的这位父亲的挣扎</s>
<time>316_00:20:06,360 --> 00:20:10,680</time>
<s>我于是意识到好如果我已决心赴死</s>
<time>317_00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,000</time>
<s>那我会在死去之前竭尽所能</s>
<time>318_00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,320</time>
<s>借新闻之口讲述自己的故事</s>
<time>319_00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:20,760</time>
<s>假如没人能谈论这件事</s>
<time>320_00:20:21,120 --> 00:20:25,440</time>
<s>那我就用我自身的经历做例子好了</s>
<time>321_00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:26,880</time>
<s>我多希望我不必这么做</s>
<time>322_00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:27,960</time>
<s>因为作为一名记者</s>
<time>323_00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,200</time>
<s>谈论自己是多么不符合新闻价值的事</s>
<time>324_00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:33,000</time>
<s>但除此之外别无他法</s>
<time>325_00:20:33,360 --> 00:20:38,040</time>
<s>从我看到这张照片起我便下定决心就由我来做这件事吧</s>
<time>326_00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,120</time>
<s>2017年5月</s>
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<s>我决定向公众讲述发生在我身上的事</s>
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<s>我为什么谈论这件事</s>
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<s>以及我们多么需要改变我们的强奸法</s>
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<s>幸运的是几个星期之后</s>
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<s>白本修订了强奸法</s>
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<s>这个改变虽如此微小</s>
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<s>于我们而言却是巨大的进步</s>
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<s>在修订强奸法之前</s>
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<s>强奸的最低刑期是3年</s>
<time>336_00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,720</time>
<s>但盗窃罪的刑期还要5年</s>
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<s>正如我们看到的那样</s>
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<s>在过去110年间盗窃罪比强奸罪的刑期还长</s>
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<s>如今是两者的刑期都是5年</s>
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<s>改变真的很小但至少我们改变了</s>
<time>341_00:21:33,120 --> 00:21:37,080</time>
<s>并且这一改变也适用于男性受害者</s>
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<s>之前男性受害者都不算在性侵受害者之列</s>
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<s>这些就是我们做出的改变</s>
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<s>同年政府决定加大资金投入</s>
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<s>支持在全国范围内建立更多家性侵救助中心</s>
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<s>我对这个结果还不是特别满意我们仍然任重道远</s>
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<s>但不管怎么说改变就是好事</s>
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<s>另外在日本的司法体系中有一项尤其困难</s>
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<s>要证明强奸这一事实</s>
<time>350_00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:15,600</time>
<s>你必须证明有多少过错在你</s>
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<s>你在多大程度上是被迫屈服</s>
<time>352_00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:21,720</time>
<s>但由于没有“同意”的概念</s>
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<s>根据瑞典的一项调查70%的受害者</s>
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<s>在当下都会身体僵硬因为他们想活命</s>
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<s>没法做出反抗的动作</s>
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<s>虽然调查结果如此但日本司法体系依然认为</s>
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<s>受害者必须表现出强烈的反抗动作</s>
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<s>才能表示反抗</s>
<time>359_00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,480</time>
<s>才能证明强奸的发生</s>
<time>360_00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,360</time>
<s>但事实并非如此</s>
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<s>针对“同意”我们仍需要作出改变</s>
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<s>什么是“同意”？</s><s>“不可以”就是“不可以”</s>
<time>363_00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,800</time>
<s>更重要的是只有“可以”代表“可以”</s>
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<s>最难改变的是哪个方面呢？</s>
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<s>我们已经谈到了教育社会救助</s>
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<s>法律体系调查过程</s>
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<s>有太多需要我们去改变的方面了</s>
<time>368_00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:13,920</time>
<s>但最难改变的就是人们的观念</s>
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<s>我们怎么看强奸这项犯罪行为？</s>
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<s>我去报警的时候调查人员和我说</s>
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<s>这种事发生得太多了我们没办法调查</s>
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<s>这种事发生得太多了我们没办法调查</s>
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<s>我听到这种说法实在太震惊了</s>
<time>374_00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,960</time>
<s>在今天我认为我们依然有很多值得去谈论的事</s>
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<s>去年3月</s>
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<s>日本有个案子的裁决结果让人心凉</s>
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<s>有个19的女孩</s>
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<s>从小被自己的父亲强奸</s>
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<s>时间长达数年</s>
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<s>法官承认了发生的事</s>
<time>381_00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:59,280</time>
<s>但因为她住在家里</s>
<time>382_00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,960</time>
<s>因为她在事件发生之后仍每天去上学</s>
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<s>法官就说她还在正常生活</s>
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<s>所以既然没有反抗就不能证明是强奸</s>
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<s>这都2019年了当我们谈论强奸时我们究竟在谈什么？</s>
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<s>我太震惊了</s>
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<s>再说一次我们需要教育</s>
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<s>不光是对孩子的教育还有那些手中握有权力的成年人</s>
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<s>因为当这类犯罪发生时权力常常被滥用</s>
<time>390_00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,760</time>
<s>我常用房子作为比喻</s>
<time>391_00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,280</time>
<s>因为这正是我的真实感受</s>
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<s>是我得以解释发生在我身上的事的方式</s>
<time>393_00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:55,080</time>
<s>想象我是一座房子我的根基是性</s>
<time>394_00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,320</time>
<s>每个人都有性每个人都有不同的社会性别</s>
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<s>这就是我的根基</s>
<time>396_00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,360</time>
<s>当我的根基受到侵犯</s>
<time>397_00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,680</time>
<s>整座房子便开始摇晃</s>
<time>398_00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,480</time>
<s>自那件事发生之日起</s>
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<s>我不知道怎么样过如常的日子</s>
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<s>我不再知道要怎么彻咖啡</s>
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<s>我不再知道哪个抽尼里放着我的化妆品</s>
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<s>我只是终日坐在房间里无所事事</s>
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<s>我忘记了所有</s>
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<s>我已内心空空</s>
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<s>去年</s>
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<s>诺贝尔和平奖颁给了德尼·慕克维格先生与纳迪亚·穆拉德女士</s>
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<s>TT他们竭力阻上将性暴力用作战争和武装冲突的武器T</s>
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<s>他们竭力阻止将性暴力用作战争和武装冲突的武器</s>
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<s>慕克维格博士说强奸是世界上最廉价的武器</s>
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<s>慕克维格博士说强奸是世界上最廉价的武器</s>
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<s>TATAJ</s>
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<s>ATAJ</s>
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<s>因为这类暴力会摧毁一个人</s>
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<s>会摧毁他们身边的人经年累月</s>
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<s>TDMD会摧毁他们身边的人经年累月ΛI</s>
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<s>会摧毁他们身边的人经年累月</s>
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<s>我在这里想问这样一个问题</s>
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<s>作为个体我门如何终止性暴力？</s>
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<s>我们有太多值得去做的事了</s>
<time>420_00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,200</time>
<s>但今天你们在这里</s>
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<s>我们共同探讨性暴力</s>
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<s>我希望你们了解性暴力是什么了解它给人带去的痛苦</s>
<time>423_00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,800</time>
<s>了解有诸多渠道可以终止</s>
<time>424_00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,400</time>
<s>了解每个人所能尽的一份力</s>
<time>425_00:26:30,120 --> 00:26:33,720</time>
<s>我相信只要人人都这样去做所产生的能量是无穷的</s>
<time>426_00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,240</time>
<s>因为有一天可能轮到你自己</s>
<time>427_00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,760</time>
<s>可能是你的女儿你的儿子</s>
<time>428_00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,720</time>
<s>你真心相爱的人</s>
<time>429_00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,680</time>
<s>就像失去女儿的葛瑞一样</s>
<time>430_00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,640</time>
<s>我想以葛瑞的一番话作为我演讲的结尾</s>
<time>431_00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,960</time>
<s>他说强奸他女儿的施害者</s>
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<s>在两年前做过一模一样的事</s>
<time>433_00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:07,200</time>
<s>他相信如果法律体系能够完美运作</s>
<time>434_00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,800</time>
<s>如果那个案子得以伸张正义</s>
<time>435_00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,400</time>
<s>凯莉或许还活着</s>
<time>436_00:27:15,120 --> 00:27:16,200</time>
<s>我们想想吧</s>
<time>437_00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,720</time>
<s>我们当然可以只是听听而已日后无视它</s>
<time>438_00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,040</time>
<s>但请把这件事当做自己的事吧</s>
<time>439_00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,640</time>
<s>因为我们永远不知道它何时发生在你自己身上</s>
<time>440_00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,880</time>
<s>我从未想过这件事会发生在我身上</s>
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<s>它发生在我最信赖认为最安全的日本</s>
<time>442_00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,000</time>
<s>它没有发生在秘鲁的丛林中</s>
<time>443_00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,160</time>
<s>没有发生在哥伦比亚没有发生在非洲</s>
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<s>它发生在日本我自己的家乡</s>
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<s>愿请各位想一想</s>
<time>446_00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,400</time>
<s>我知道我们有讲述故事的力量</s>
<time>447_00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,640</time>
<s>因为就像此刻我站在这里谈论发生的事</s>
<time>448_00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,600</time>
<s>在你们面前说起如此艰难的话题</s>
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<s>非常感谢你们能听我讲</s>
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<s>非常感谢今天你们来到这里</s>
